To be fair she tried for 10 years and somehow it happens at 40 instead of 31 32 33, doesn't make sense. God willed it and so nothing is impossible. Still i think it's bad to have kids at 40 or near it. All i can do is play board games because they're too fucking old lol.
Yes we would be way better off but we'd be even better if our soul was never put on this earth to suffer.
i dont know, i dont think that suffering is all that bad
Keep in mind... in the Qur'an it speaks of elderly people being able to conceive. So having at 40, while maybe a bit odd, isn't too weird, all things considered. Still, I think it's cruel. Because now you have a 67 year old mother whereas other people have young mothers who are around 45. The age differences matter.
One guy 2 years younger than me and his mother is in her 40s. Beyond depressing and i don't think old in that context means 40. People were having kids very young back then so old is maybe 30-35 in that view. Still i won't mention the circumstances surrounding my birth publicly but it has to be divine intervention, I'm nearly certain of it.
She's nearly 70, shoo shoo pervert!
If it was divine intervention.. at least it would have been better if you were gifted a better life. But it does explain the details in your life. Having kids at a later age causes problems for them (health issues). Also, my uncle and aunt had another kid after 10 years, lol. It happens. My aunt is in her mid-40s. Happened last year.
Well my standard of life wasn't relevant to my mother needing a boy. Life is just shit for the child, almost always some form of defect, autism, weaker bones, odd face etc. You can tell there's something off with me at first glance. I've seen the look in people's eyes my entire life.
Yep non-nt is guaranteed or something worse
What did you get
Weak bones, abnormal ugly truecel face and body. Non-NT aswell. Now i believe that article that stated 1 in 2 babies born in 2050 will have autism. If more and more women are having kids at 40 or late 30s atleast (they are due to career women being popular because of feminism), it's beyond over. Also i have slow-brain, i process things at a slower speed compared to others, essentially my brains processing speed is running slow and I'm about 90 IQ which sometimes spikes to 95 when my brain works a little faster. Now my health has failed me aswell and i have multiple chronic health conditions, no doubt due to my insides being weak and abnormal. I succumbed to disease because my genetics are trash and i don't have the intelligence to overcome this, it's a double whammy. If i posted a picture of myself as a kid, you would know there's something wrong, i legit looked like an alien.
It's all so tiresome isn't it? We would have led happy normal lives if we were adults in the 90s.
