It’s brutal to have no real social circle

[germanlooks]

After school was over everything went downhill. Everyone went their own way, a good friend left the country, two other friends who are brothers found a new social circle and I am not a member of it. Over

And in Uni there are just a handful of guys I’d call something like friends but even with them I barely go out since the last few months. None of these fuckers really initiates anything.

It’s truly over. After school there is just almost no way to build a social circle if you aren’t a hyper NT extrovert.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

If you have looks you can build a social circle slowly but surely. But true friends are only found in the countryside and in times of war. Its impossible to make a true friend in the city and by that i mean how the greeks saw friendship - more close than a husband is to a wife or a mother is to her child.

 

[Solar]

After school was over everything went downhill. Everyone went their own way, a good friend left the country, two other friends who are brothers found a new social circle and I am not a member of it. Over

And in Uni there are just a handful of guys I’d call something like friends but even with them I barely go out since the last few months. None of these fuckers really initiates anything.

It’s truly over. After school there is just almost no way to build a social circle if you aren’t a hyper NT extrovert.

I agree

Currently gigarotting

 

[germanlooks]

If you have looks you can build a social circle slowly but surely. But true friends are only found in the countryside and in times of war. Its impossible to make a true friend in the city and by that i mean how the greeks saw friendship - more close than a husband is to a wife or a mother is to her child.

I also want friends with who I can talk like with people on this forum. About controversial shit, blackpill, redpill etc.
It’s too tiring to fake your personality all the time in front of bluepilled normies

 

[TsarTsar444]

Brah, are we twins?
Legit, same experience my best friend went to study politics in a different town, my 2 other close friends from highschool both moved to another country, another close friend went into trades with his fathers company and moves around all the time. Friends in uni are a joke, its not an environment built for having the right amount of time to make close relationships, i honesty can't see my future past university tbh, what are we living for with no social circle? Being part of a tribe is the most important thinf for a human

 

[Deleted member 23772]

If you have looks you can build a social circle slowly but surely. But true friends are only found in the countryside and in times of war. Its impossible to make a true friend in the city and by that i mean how the greeks saw friendship - more close than a husband is to a wife or a mother is to her child.

Its actually better to just be ugly, because that way guys will look at you as an weak opponent if you ever go out and chase chicks together.

 

[Hueless]

I also want friends with who I can talk like with people on this forum. About controversial shit, blackpill, redpill etc.
It’s too tiring to fake your personality all the time in front of bluepilled normies

We all go through the same thing sadly

 

[User49]

I also want friends with who I can talk like with people on this forum. About controversial shit, blackpill, redpill etc.
It’s too tiring to fake your personality all the time in front of bluepilled normies

that’s the most annoying part. I hate putting on a persona everytime i socialize

 

[germanlooks]

Brah, are we twins?
Legit, same experience my best friend went to study politics in a different town, my 2 other close friends from highschool both moved to another country, another close friend went into trades with his fathers company and moves around all the time. Friends in uni are a joke, its not an environment built for having the right amount of time to make close relationships, i honesty can't see my future past university tbh, what are we living for with no social circle? Being part of a tribe is the most important thinf for a human

Everyone always told me how easy it will be to make tons of long lasting friendships in Uni. But this seems like a huge meme to me based on my experience. Maybe in the US it’s different or I am just unlucky or too non NT idk

 

[jojoyou]

Can’t relate

 

[TsarTsar444]

If you have looks you can build a social circle slowly but surely. But true friends are only found in the countryside and in times of war. Its impossible to make a true friend in the city and by that i mean how the greeks saw friendship - more close than a husband is to a wife or a mother is to her child.

I hate how you had every single word that was in my mind for years written in this post

But this is indeed legit btw, cities are extremely unnatural for humans, globalization as well, humans were always supposed to live and die with the same friends they knew since they were kids, and the war this is so true, just one big fight you get with a freshly made friend againts another group is the same as knowing eachother for 3 years after, war/fighting is extremely important for male brootherhoods.

 

[TsarTsar444]

Everyone always told me how easy it will be to make tons of long lasting friendships in Uni. But this seems like a huge meme to me based on my experience. Maybe in the US it’s different or I am just unlucky or too non NT idk

Its because european society is different, universities in Europe are way more formal things, they are night and day difference with the ones in the US, i know from my cousin who studies in German University, and its the same as my place, looks like an office job, its so grim, not being born in a countryside and forming a trades company with your best bros, then going even bigger with businesses in your 20's ,suicidefuel

 

[Deleted member 25667]

How do people end up with zero friends or a social circle? Do you just not talk to people in class or at your job, I feel like you'd have to try to seclude yourself primarily from interacting with people to end up without a social circle or even a few friends who you regularly do stuff with whether that be games, hanging out, gym, nightclubs etc

 

[Deleted member 23558]

I hate how you had every single word that was in my mind for years written in this post

But this is indeed legit btw, cities are extremely unnatural for humans, globalization as well, humans were always supposed to live and die with the same friends they knew since they were kids, and the war this is so true, just one big fight you get with a freshly made friend againts another group is the same as knowing eachother for 3 years after, war/fighting is extremely important for male brootherhoods.

Have you seen how males in indigenous tribes do not really concern themselves w the courtesies that are so ingrained in us when we converse with friends or want to make new ones? Most of them know exactly what the other guy is gonna do, they dont make eye contact when talking, sitting silently for hours waiting for the next prey to be spotted without being concerned about whether its "Boring" for the guy. They treat their brotherhood like extension of their bodies and souls almost. And not without reason either, they will know each other for their whole lives as it is divinely ordained they should be together -so they make no effort to conceal themselves or have social niceties for the other party. Its only when they feast that they put on their smiling faces and try to make the others happy.

 

[germanlooks]

How do people end up with zero friends or a social circle? Do you just not talk to people in class or at your job, I feel like you'd have to try to seclude yourself primarily from interacting with people to end up without a social circle or even a few friends who you regularly do stuff with whether that be games, hanging out, gym, nightclubs etc

In my case mostly by being unlucky tbh. My main social circle just broke apart.
And now in Uni it’s hard to build a new one because all these people already have their old social circle

 

[TsarTsar444]

Have you seen how males in indigenous tribes do not really concern themselves w the courtesies that are so ingrained in us when we converse with friends or want to make new ones? Most of them know exactly what the other guy is gonna do, they dont make eye contact when talking, sitting silently for hours waiting for the next prey to be spotted without being concerned about whether its "Boring" for the guy. They treat their brotherhood like extension of their bodies and souls almost. And not without reason either, they will know each other for their whole lives as it is divinely ordained they should be together -so they make no effort to conceal themselves or have social niceties for the other party. Its only when they feast that they put on their smiling faces and try to make the others happy.

Holy shit you copied my post i made exactly about this somewhere on here fee yesrs ago jfllll.
Yeah exactly, everything is ridiculously absurd these days on how "friends" hang out, hanging out is not a thing for humans, imagine making a deal with your 2 friends to go at a bar, grab drinks, talk for 3 hours then go home alone JFLLL. And you are expected to talk during that time, this is key to how fake it is, friends dont need to talk to eachother at all and feel perfectly comfortable when being together

How it actually works in human nature would be you waking up as the sun at 5am starts hitting your face, noticing your other friends very close to you waking up st the same time, and then you just go on vibing casually with the flow of the day, you dont have some anxiety about having to say something, when you rest after some activity, you would be sitting under a shade with your friends mostly at quite and onlt start talking if you get a curious idea at that moment, or making a joke about your current observation

 

[Acne Victim]

If you have looks you can build a social circle slowly but surely. But true friends are only found in the countryside and in times of war. Its impossible to make a true friend in the city and by that i mean how the greeks saw friendship - more close than a husband is to a wife or a mother is to her child.

You're from India nothing you say is valid bro

 

[Deleted member 25667]

In my case mostly by being unlucky tbh. My main social circle just broke apart.
And now in Uni it’s hard to build a new one because all these people already have their old social circle

Brutal. I'm not sure how it works in europe but in america college/university are probably the easiest places to socialcirclemax considering most people move away from their hometown and are looking to start a new social circle.

Do people just go to the their local university in Germany??

 

[Prettyboy]

Holy shit you copied my post i made exactly about this somewhere on here fee yesrs ago jfllll.
Yeah exactly, everything is ridiculously absurd these days on how "friends" hang out, hanging out is not a thing for humans, imagine making a deal with your 2 friends to go at a bar, grab drinks, talk for 3 hours then go home alone JFLLL. And you are expected to talk during that time, this is key to how fake it is, friends dont need to talk to eachother at all and feel perfectly comfortable when being together

How it actually works in human nature would be you waking up as the sun at 5am starts hitting your face, noticing your other friends very close to you waking up st the same time, and then you just go on vibing casually with the flow of the day, you dont have some anxiety about having to say something, when you rest after some activity, you would be sitting under a shade with your friends mostly at quite and onlt start talking if you get a curious idea at that moment, or making a joke about your current observation

Also hunting then eating together, sometimes sharing your current emotion and getting feedback from them, someone is always watching your back , then sleep together and your circadian rhytms get synchronized

Jfl at going home alone after meeting youd friends for 2 hours in a loud and crowded environment, complete weirdo thing

 

[germanlooks]

Do people just go to the their local university in Germany??

Some do some don’t, I did and I guess it was a mistake.

 

[TsarTsar444]

Also hunting then eating together, sometimes sharing your current emotion and getting feedback from them, someone is always watching your back , then sleep together and your circadian rhytms get synchronized

Jfl at going home alone after meeting youd friends for 2 hours in a loud and crowded environment, complete weirdo thing

Everything about us is exactly made for the same lifestyle as Neolithic times. Like when someone yawns everyone else starts yawning, its evolutionary made this way so the whole group go to sleep together at the same time quite early as well. Literally the only positive thing about our times is medical advancements, especially antibiotics and surgery, anesthesia, other then this there is no advantage to living today just lots of disadvantages.

 

[St.TikTokcel]

In my case mostly by being unlucky tbh. My main social circle just broke apart.
And now in Uni it’s hard to build a new one because all these people already have their old social circle

JFL just go with your schoolcels to the same uni theory. I guess I was lucky.

 

[Deleted member 25667]

Also hunting then eating together, sometimes sharing your current emotion and getting feedback from them, someone is always watching your back , then sleep together and your circadian rhytms get synchronized

Jfl at going home alone after meeting youd friends for 2 hours in a loud and crowded environment, complete weirdo thing

The second we stopped living in small tribal hunter gatherer communities was when it ended

 

[Ethniframementalcel]

After school was over everything went downhill. Everyone went their own way, a good friend left the country, two other friends who are brothers found a new social circle and I am not a member of it. Over

And in Uni there are just a handful of guys I’d call something like friends but even with them I barely go out since the last few months. None of these fuckers really initiates anything.

It’s truly over. After school there is just almost no way to build a social circle if you aren’t a hyper NT extrovert.

Yep, if you aren't socialcirclemaxxing, you're fighting for scraps with 1% success rate, how do you think non looksmaxed normies (oofy doofies) get women? It's all social circle desperationmaxxing and pigeon dancing/jestering for mid beckies

 

[KingBetaTut]

If you have to fake your personality to please bluepilled normie friends then they’re not friends imo. My true social circle is guys only and no joke/pub is out of bounds lmao.

 

[Prettyboy]

Everything about us is exactly made for the same lifestyle as Neolithic times. Like when someone yawns everyone else starts yawning, its evolutionary made this way so the whole group go to sleep together at the same time quite early as well. Literally the only positive thing about our times is medical advancements, especially antibiotics and surgery, anesthesia, other then this there is no advantage to living today just lots of disadvantages.

The second we stopped living in small tribal hunter gatherer communities was when it ended
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Also jfl at being forced to sit in one place for hours every day in an artifically lit room devoid of any natural building materials

I just want to roam the steppes on my horse drink fermented raw milk, get blessings from our shaman and telling stories to my family members in the evening around the fire

 

[thereallegend]

social circle is overrated

you need a goal oriented winner's circles + a few dozen slays under your belt

@the BULL

 

[Looks234]

It’s truly over. After school there is just almost no way to build a social circle if you aren’t a hyper NT extrovert.

No way @germanlooks took the ntpill @Biggdink

 

[Solar]

social circle is overrated

you need a goal oriented winner's circles + a few dozen slays under your belt

@the BULL

Cope

only applies to oldcels who already had their peak social times

 

[Deleted member 25667]

Also jfl at being forced to sit in one place for hours every day in an artifically lit room devoid of any natural building materials

I just want to roam the steppes on my horse drink fermented raw meat, get blessings from our shaman and telling stories to my family members in the evening around the fire

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This tbh.
I will never be a traditional herdsman, living in tight knit community in rural lesotho with a large caring family and a cute wife, spending my days riding a horse through the plains of africa with my bros

Utter suicidefuel that this was taken from us

 

[TsarTsar444]

This tbh.
I will never be a traditional herdsman, living in tight knit community in rural lesotho with a large caring family and a cute wife, spending my days riding a horse through the plains of africa with my bros
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Utter suicidefuel that this was taken from us

Also why humans love traveling, its one of the biggest endorphin rushes out there going to a foreign land, humans would move around exploring

 

[Deleted member 21765]

join a sports club at uni, helped me at least.

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

I am you from the past. Sincerely thank you for warning me.

 

[M3R]

I also want friends with who I can talk like with people on this forum. About controversial shit, blackpill, redpill etc.
It’s too tiring to fake your personality all the time in front of bluepilled normies

I dunno. People IRL are more black/redpilled than people here think. Of course they are not incel-tier into this but from my experience you can meet people who also see that women are looks based and consider bluepill as a lie. Even some women openly admit it.

 

[Germania]

After school was over everything went downhill. Everyone went their own way, a good friend left the country, two other friends who are brothers found a new social circle and I am not a member of it. Over

And in Uni there are just a handful of guys I’d call something like friends but even with them I barely go out since the last few months. None of these fuckers really initiates anything.

It’s truly over. After school there is just almost no way to build a social circle if you aren’t a hyper NT extrovert.

Its Germany tbh. Everytime i go to another country, i connect in a few weeks with more people than in years here in Germany.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I also want friends with who I can talk like with people on this forum. About controversial shit, blackpill, redpill etc.
It’s too tiring to fake your personality all the time in front of bluepilled normies

This so fucking much.

I have a couple of friends where i have to larp with but often id rather just not meet up with them at all.

 

[Shieda_Kayn]

Rate pfp bhai @germanlooks @StrangerDanger

 

[Deleted member 21765]

Its Germany tbh. Everytime i go to another country, i connect in a few weeks with more people than in years here in Germany.

yeah, we germans are cold blooded motherfuckers.

 

[M3R]

Everyone always told me how easy it will be to make tons of long lasting friendships in Uni. But this seems like a huge meme to me based on my experience. Maybe in the US it’s different or I am just unlucky or too non NT idk

You can build these long lasting friendships but you must first meet people who want it and you're compatible with. For example my class in uni doesn't socialise that much apart from school and some meetups once in a few months, i've only met two mates with whom I became pretty close friend (because of common interests). My friend on the other hand was lucky to be in a class where they created a social circle to go out and drink. It's all about who you meet in the school. The only 100% way to get this is some frat organisation but I hate these so I never bothered.

 

[Germania]

yeah, we germans are cold blooded motherfuckers.

Not all tbh. I think many are very rational and results-oriented, and the country is broken anyway. A lot of people think consciously or unconsciously "I've had my friends since school, why do I need a new guy in the group, what's the point?"

 

[BeenLMSsinceMSN]

After school was over everything went downhill. Everyone went their own way, a good friend left the country, two other friends who are brothers found a new social circle and I am not a member of it. Over

And in Uni there are just a handful of guys I’d call something like friends but even with them I barely go out since the last few months. None of these fuckers really initiates anything.

It’s truly over. After school there is just almost no way to build a social circle if you aren’t a hyper NT extrovert.

Exactly this tbh just moved to a new city and having no social circle is literally brutal

 

[Deleted member 21765]

Not all tbh. I think many are very rational and results-oriented, and the country is broken anyway. A lot of people think consciously or unconsciously "I've had my friends since school, why do I need a new guy in the group, what's the point?"

kinda agree. I live in one of the the biggest city and its actually really tough to find new friends after uni. Thank god I will leave this shithole in a couple of weeks.

 

[Germania]

kinda agree. I live in one of the the biggest city and its actually really tough to find new friends after uni. Thank god I will leave this shithole in a couple of weeks.

how? :O

 

[Hueless]

that’s the most annoying part. I hate putting on a persona everytime i socialize

We dont put on personas we just limit a part of ourselves because people are scared of thoughts

 

[Dr. Bludy]

Holy shit you copied my post i made exactly about this somewhere on here fee yesrs ago jfllll.
Yeah exactly, everything is ridiculously absurd these days on how "friends" hang out, hanging out is not a thing for humans, imagine making a deal with your 2 friends to go at a bar, grab drinks, talk for 3 hours then go home alone JFLLL. And you are expected to talk during that time, this is key to how fake it is, friends dont need to talk to eachother at all and feel perfectly comfortable when being together

How it actually works in human nature would be you waking up as the sun at 5am starts hitting your face, noticing your other friends very close to you waking up st the same time, and then you just go on vibing casually with the flow of the day, you dont have some anxiety about having to say something, when you rest after some activity, you would be sitting under a shade with your friends mostly at quite and onlt start talking if you get a curious idea at that moment, or making a joke about your current observation

A world where humans dont need to talk would be perfect for me

 

[Deleted member 16275]

Rate pfp bhai @germanlooks @StrangerDanger

looks like rob pattinson

 

[Deleted member 3041]

After school was over everything went downhill. Everyone went their own way, a good friend left the country, two other friends who are brothers found a new social circle and I am not a member of it. Over

And in Uni there are just a handful of guys I’d call something like friends but even with them I barely go out since the last few months. None of these fuckers really initiates anything.

It’s truly over. After school there is just almost no way to build a social circle if you aren’t a hyper NT extrovert.

I didn't have any friends when I left college, I met a guy in line at the club and we became friends and now I'm friends with a lot of his friends, they invite me several times to go out and to parties and im not nt

 

[Deleted member 3041]

If you have looks you can build a social circle slowly but surely. But true friends are only found in the countryside and in times of war. Its impossible to make a true friend in the city and by that i mean how the greeks saw friendship - more close than a husband is to a wife or a mother is to her child.

and ugly i do alot of friends in last year

 

[Deleted member 23558]

and ugly i do alot of friends in last year

You fucked them(

 

[Deleted member 3041]

You fucked them(

what? I don't fuck guys