It’s extremely common for young men to have a female imaginary friend called an anima

[swaggyp1]

Where you usually make her up when you’re around 8-10 years old, and give her the perfect appearance and personality, and use her as an emotional regulator

As you grow up, she becomes quieter, but you usually still visit occasionally for comfort and reassurance for emotional regulation

Men and boys develop their anima to various depths, some give her a deeper backstory and origin than others, and others build her life (marriage, career, family), as they get older to match the real scenarios that are age appropriate - some
males develop a less sophisticated origin and continuation for their anima

So if you have your own anima, it’s extremely common and normal

It’s healthy when she is kept as an emotional regulator, you don’t spend too much time in your own head, and you separate thoughts from reality

It becomes unhealthy when you neglect or prefer her to actually trying to find a wife, having a family, and finding a career in real life

 

[ccwb]

Where you usually make her up when you’re around 8-10 years old, and give her the perfect appearance and personality, and use her as an emotional regulator

As you grow up, she becomes quieter, but you usually still visit occasionally for comfort and reassurance for emotional regulation

Men and boys develop their anima to various depths, some give her a deeper backstory and origin than others, and others build her life (marriage, career, family), as they get older to match the real scenarios that are age appropriate - some
males develop a less sophisticated origin and continuation for their anima

So if you have your own anima, it’s extremely common and normal

Anti psychotics are in the way nigger

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

I just dream of doing what I want to girls I find pretty

 

[swaggyp1]

Anti psychotics are in the way nigger

You had one, but your drugs erased her?

It’s not psychologically abnormal unless you’re preferring your imagination to actually participating in real life

 

[Divineincel]

Where you usually make her up when you’re around 8-10 years old, and give her the perfect appearance and personality, and use her as an emotional regulator

As you grow up, she becomes quieter, but you usually still visit occasionally for comfort and reassurance for emotional regulation

Men and boys develop their anima to various depths, some give her a deeper backstory and origin than others, and others build her life (marriage, career, family), as they get older to match the real scenarios that are age appropriate - some
males develop a less sophisticated origin and continuation for their anima

So if you have your own anima, it’s extremely common and normal

It’s healthy when she is kept as an emotional regulator, you don’t spend too much time in your own head, and you separate thoughts from reality

It becomes unhealthy when you neglect or prefer her to actually trying to find a wife, having a family, and finding a career in real life

I didn’t have one

 

[Be_ConfidentBro]

Strange, I did have that when I was about 7 years old or so but I purged her after a few months. Didn't know it was a common thing

 

[ihateevb]

Where you usually make her up when you’re around 8-10 years old, and give her the perfect appearance and personality, and use her as an emotional regulator

As you grow up, she becomes quieter, but you usually still visit occasionally for comfort and reassurance for emotional regulation

Men and boys develop their anima to various depths, some give her a deeper backstory and origin than others, and others build her life (marriage, career, family), as they get older to match the real scenarios that are age appropriate - some
males develop a less sophisticated origin and continuation for their anima

So if you have your own anima, it’s extremely common and normal

It’s healthy when she is kept as an emotional regulator, you don’t spend too much time in your own head, and you separate thoughts from reality

It becomes unhealthy when you neglect or prefer her to actually trying to find a wife, having a family, and finding a career in real life

Yeah ur alone on this

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

After childhood it's a mental illness

 

[Buckh0rn]

Mine is always changing

 

[swaggyp1]

Mine is always changing

Keep it however makes you more comfortable

Spend a few minutes there a day for emotional regulation

Just don’t push it to more than half an hour total

 

[Buckh0rn]

Just don’t push it to more than half an hour total

oh no, yes about that.
What about almost all day

 

[swaggyp1]

oh no, yes about that.
What about almost all day

That’s when it gets unhealthy

It’s good when it’s maybe 15 minutes a day, and you visit for 3 minute sessions about 5 times throughout the day

It’s bad when you start preferring your idealized female companion to real life

 

[unstable]

That’s when it gets unhealthy

It’s good when it’s maybe 15 minutes a day, and you visit for 3 minute sessions about 5 times throughout the day

It’s bad when you start preferring your idealized female companion to real life

how do you make her in the first place i am way past the age?
can you have sexual relations with her?

 

[Luquier]

Where you usually make her up when you’re around 8-10 years old, and give her the perfect appearance and personality, and use her as an emotional regulator

As you grow up, she becomes quieter, but you usually still visit occasionally for comfort and reassurance for emotional regulation

Men and boys develop their anima to various depths, some give her a deeper backstory and origin than others, and others build her life (marriage, career, family), as they get older to match the real scenarios that are age appropriate - some
males develop a less sophisticated origin and continuation for their anima

So if you have your own anima, it’s extremely common and normal

It’s healthy when she is kept as an emotional regulator, you don’t spend too much time in your own head, and you separate thoughts from reality

It becomes unhealthy when you neglect or prefer her to actually trying to find a wife, having a family, and finding a career in real life

She’s part of my daydream world but yea

Sometimes she manifests as an ideal partner tho

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

I just dream of doing what I want to girls I find pretty

*want to do

 

[Luquier]

*want to do

Your post was already grammatically correct

 

[mewcel420]

I wish I had this. Maybe my sister already has that role

 

[kisslessvirgin]

i didnt get to experience this

 

[swaggyp1]

how do you make her in the first place i am way past the age?
can you have sexual relations with her?

Usually you base her off a preferred type

Mine was made when I was 9, and I made her to be 7 years older than me

People usually make their anima in late childhood, not adulthood

 

[unstable]

Usually you base her off a preferred type

Mine was made when I was 9, and I made her to be 7 years older than me

People usually make their anima in late childhood, not adulthood

is there no way to her in adulthood
did you have sex with her yet?

 

[swaggyp1]

is there no way to her in adulthood
did you have sex with her yet?

Yes you can do it if you have mental imagery skills

And yes to the second part

 

[unstable]

Yes you can do it if you have mental imagery skills

And yes to the second part

what are the steps to build her?
will i turn in to a schizo
will she haunt me in old age?

 

[swaggyp1]

what are the steps to build her?
will i turn in to a schizo
will she haunt me in old age?

You just have to imagine

And no this isn’t schizophrenia, since it’s your own volition

And no she won’t haunt you