it's hard to fit into society..

[menas]

How do yall feel like when u are with a friend group?
i feel like i'm not a part of it most of the time..

(even tho i have some fun and shit idk it's just feeling weird after a while yk)

@Blackgymmax @Jason Voorhees @xnj @chadbeingmade @Bitchwhipper2
how do yall feel?

it was probably caused by a bad childhood ig..​

 

[menas]

fuck man childhood,personality and being nt etc is so fkn important icl

 

[Epochs]

fuck man childhood,personality and being nt etc is so fkn important icl

always the memories in the back

 

[ShowerCelling]

How do yall feel like when u are with a friend group?
i feel like i'm not a part of it most of the time..

(even tho i have some fun and shit idk it's just feeling weird after a while yk)

@Blackgymmax @Jason Voorhees @xnj @chadbeingmade @Bitchwhipper2
how do yall feel?

it was probably caused by a bad childhood ig..​

 

[copercel123]

How do yall feel like when u are with a friend group?
i feel like i'm not a part of it most of the time..

(even tho i have some fun and shit idk it's just feeling weird after a while yk)

@Blackgymmax @Jason Voorhees @xnj @chadbeingmade @Bitchwhipper2
how do yall feel?

it was probably caused by a bad childhood ig..​

I have one friend group and they are like my brothers, but we didn’t met up a long time.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Even when you are in a friend group there is a hierarchy. There are untold signals and pairs / small circles within the group.

I had a friend group of 20-ish people growing up. But I was really close with 4-5 and even then only 1 person I spoke to the most.

When you are the black sheep of your friend group and you are everyone's back up froend, then you are the odd one out.

In schools it was clear when this happens when teachers would ask us to pair up and we would only pair with the person we got along with the most.

 

[copercel123]

Even when you are in a friend group there is a hierarchy. There are untold signals and pairs / small circles within the group.

I had a friend group of 20-ish people growing up. But I was really close with 4-5 and even then only 1 person I spoke to the most.

When you are the black sheep of your friend group and you are everyone's back up froend, then you are the odd one out.

In schools it was clear when this happens when teachers would ask us to pair up and we would only pair with the person we got along with the most.

Agree 100%. in my case I was close with everyone ( we were a friend group of 8-10 people ) but there were a couple dudes in the group who had that extra level of closeness, always sharing stuff on the low. That whole secretive dynamic kinda split the vibe and lowkey led to the GC falling apart.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Thats how I feel nearly all the time tbh

 

[AverageCurryEnjoyer]

really cool

Agree 100%. in my case I was close with everyone ( we were a friend group of 8-10 people ) but there were a couple dudes in the group who had that extra level of closeness, always sharing stuff on the low. That whole secretive dynamic kinda split the vibe and lowkey led to the GC falling apart.

to see the differnt pairings in people and how the close friends change over rime. Gradually you begin to see and experience different insights and is always astonishing to see ngl. Its not possible to have groups of people and not be closer to a couple and make smaller groups

 

[menas]

Thats how I feel nearly all the time tbh

Agree 100%. in my case I was close with everyone ( we were a friend group of 8-10 people ) but there were a couple dudes in the group who had that extra level of closeness, always sharing stuff on the low. That whole secretive dynamic kinda split the vibe and lowkey led to the GC falling apart.

Even when you are in a friend group there is a hierarchy. There are untold signals and pairs / small circles within the group.

I had a friend group of 20-ish people growing up. But I was really close with 4-5 and even then only 1 person I spoke to the most.

When you are the black sheep of your friend group and you are everyone's back up froend, then you are the odd one out.

In schools it was clear when this happens when teachers would ask us to pair up and we would only pair with the person we got along with the most.

I would rather not be in friend groups tbh since i don't have good memories about them but it is almost impossible to not being in a group if you want to keep your friends.. fuck ts tbh

 

[SecularIslamist]

Agree 100%. in my case I was close with everyone ( we were a friend group of 8-10 people ) but there were a couple dudes in the group who had that extra level of closeness, always sharing stuff on the low. That whole secretive dynamic kinda split the vibe and lowkey led to the GC falling apart.

It's a human condition. Think about your relationship with people even on this shitty forum. I'm closer to some people more than others - depending on social and cultural compatibility and life experience.

You just can't be equally close to everyone. It's like there is a cognitive and emotional limit preventing you from doing that. You can't vibe with everyone on the same level.

I guess it's the same with even children. Although parents like to gaslight and say they value each children equally. Their behaviors and attitudes say otherwise.

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

I would rather not be in friend groups tbh since i don't have good memories about them but it is almost impossible to not being in a group if you want to keep your friends.. fuck ts tbh

Singular friends mogs tbh

 

[AverageCurryEnjoyer]

Singular friends mogs tbh

fair, Its also good when your singular friends are friends with each other. But you can use uour friends to branch of into other friend group even if you dont fw their friends. In school especially, I have 2 big friend groups and even if they inter mingle, its still noticeably seperate

 

[chadbeingmade]

i feel like i'm not a part of it most of the time..

Brutal

How do yall feel like when u are with a friend group?

I never felt like not part of the group in my life. Just be NT IDK.

 

[xnj]

How do yall feel like when u are with a friend group?
i feel like i'm not a part of it most of the time..

(even tho i have some fun and shit idk it's just feeling weird after a while yk)

@Blackgymmax @Jason Voorhees @xnj @chadbeingmade @Bitchwhipper2
how do yall feel?

it was probably caused by a bad childhood ig..​

it was excellent for me while i was a normie, but it has been quite rough lately ngl

 

[GhostBoySwag]

i wanna be free

 

[Hugo bone smashing]

How do yall feel like when u are with a friend group?
i feel like i'm not a part of it most of the time..

(even tho i have some fun and shit idk it's just feeling weird after a while yk)

@Blackgymmax @Jason Voorhees @xnj @chadbeingmade @Bitchwhipper2
how do yall feel?

it was probably caused by a bad childhood ig..​

How can be surrounded by my homis and still feel left out it's like am not there. And when i speak my mind they just shut me down

 

[ToryToad]

How do yall feel like when u are with a friend group?
i feel like i'm not a part of it most of the time..

(even tho i have some fun and shit idk it's just feeling weird after a while yk)

@Blackgymmax @Jason Voorhees @xnj @chadbeingmade @Bitchwhipper2
how do yall feel?

it was probably caused by a bad childhood ig..​

same .I dont even know know how to properly fit in .

 

[CorinthianLOX]

How do yall feel like when u are with a friend group?
i feel like i'm not a part of it most of the time..

(even tho i have some fun and shit idk it's just feeling weird after a while yk)

@Blackgymmax @Jason Voorhees @xnj @chadbeingmade @Bitchwhipper2
how do yall feel?

it was probably caused by a bad childhood ig..​

I can relate. I feel so alone even if i’m with other people and friends.

 

[Clqs]

Take the childhood pill, they say