It's interesting how many people here aren't even bad looking just not NT

[Tryingtoascend]

You gotta wonder why such high numbers of non NT people end up here

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Because they don't have social skills, obviously. Are you retarded?

 

[Deleted member 20370]

perma online rotters with few to no friends

 

[Deleted member 26448]

NT doesn't matter, just don't be a permarotter, and you will eventually find a partner and friends. You just have to be somewhat good looking. I know many zoomers who are very socially awkward and shy (non NT), yet they have a large social circle, and partners as well, and they are all fairly good looking.

People here mistake non NT with passive self sabotage, which is what plenty of users here do, because they have extreme body dysmorphia and insecurity. In reality, NT is completely meaningless unless you legitimately never go out.

 

[Tryingtoascend]

Because they don't have social skills, obviously. Are you retarded?

Well yeah obv but how they fumble upon places like this specifically is what I'm asking, rather than "why do their dating lives suck"

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Well yeah obv but how they fumble upon places like this specifically is what I'm asking, rather than "why do their dating lives suck"

From reddit mostly I'd assume

Maybe some from youtube

I only ever heard about it from someone dming me for something specific I wanted to find here, that's a good question

 

[Tryingtoascend]

NT doesn't matter, just don't be a permarotter, and you will eventually find a partner and friends. You just have to be somewhat good looking. I know many zoomers who are very socially awkward and shy (non NT), yet they have a large social circle, and partners as well, and they are all fairly good looking.

People here mistake non NT with passive self sabotage, which is what plenty of users here do, because they have extreme body dysmorphia and insecurity. In reality, NT is completely meaningless unless you legitimately never go out.

Imma agree with you on that one. This forum really is "another world"

 

[Copeful]

NT doesn't matter, just don't be a permarotter, and you will eventually find a partner and friends. You just have to be somewhat good looking. I know many zoomers who are very socially awkward and shy (non NT), yet they have a large social circle, and partners as well, and they are all fairly good looking.

People here mistake non NT with passive self sabotage, which is what plenty of users here do, because they have extreme body dysmorphia and insecurity. In reality, NT is completely meaningless unless you legitimately never go out.

nope not true at all
im almost done with uni and havent made a single friend despite showing up every day and trying to talk to people
people can sense if your autistic and will want to stay away from you

 

[Tryingtoascend]

From reddit mostly I'd assume

Maybe some from youtube

I only ever heard about it from someone dming me for something specific I wanted to find here, that's a good question

It's sad though cause this forum has enough good threads to be used as legitimate means of self improvement but most members use it to escape reality and worsen their body dysmorphia and other issues

 

[Deleted member 25059]

 

[Tryingtoascend]

????

 

[Deleted member 26448]

nope not true at all
im almost done with uni and havent made a single friend despite showing up every day and trying to talk to people
people can sense if your autistic and will want to stay away from you

Are you legitimately autistic? This might be brutal for you, but if you are, I would suggest making friends with other people of a similar nature. That is what I did when I was in school (albeit I was very young), and I ended up having a lot of friends because of it (I am autistic and befriended other autistic people). Of course, if no one is there that is like you, then yeah, it is probably over. But you have to be the one to approach and all that. It really depends on who you choose to speak with.

What do you say when you try to talk to people? A lot of people won't be interested in normal conversation with a stranger, and then of course you have to factor in how you look, and how that could be screwing up your chances as well. Timing matters a lot with approaching people and befriending people, which is kind of why you have to embrace whatever you think is stopping you (in this case, non NTness) and befriend others that are non NT. I'm a permarotter and even I've been able to befriend people (albeit online, but they live close) as an extremely autistic/developmentally disordered subhuman truecel, and every time, they've been similar to me. You have to choose people that you believe are very similar to you.

 

[the BULL]

NT doesn't matter, just don't be a permarotter, and you will eventually find a partner and friends. You just have to be somewhat good looking. I know many zoomers who are very socially awkward and shy (non NT), yet they have a large social circle, and partners as well, and they are all fairly good looking.

People here mistake non NT with passive self sabotage, which is what plenty of users here do, because they have extreme body dysmorphia and insecurity. In reality, NT is completely meaningless unless you legitimately never go out.

what you go out for if you can't assimilate into any group

 

[Copeful]

Are you legitimately autistic? This might be brutal for you, but if you are, I would suggest making friends with other people of a similar nature. That is what I did when I was in school (albeit I was very young), and I ended up having a lot of friends because of it (I am autistic and befriended other autistic people). Of course, if no one is there that is like you, then yeah, it is probably over. But you have to be the one to approach and all that. It really depends on who you choose to speak with.

What do you say when you try to talk to people? A lot of people won't be interested in normal conversation with a stranger, and then of course you have to factor in how you look, and how that could be screwing up your chances as well. Timing matters a lot with approaching people and befriending people, which is kind of why you have to embrace whatever you think is stopping you (in this case, non NTness) and befriend others that are non NT. I'm a permarotter and even I've been able to befriend people (albeit online, but they live close) as an extremely autistic/developmentally disordered subhuman truecel, and every time, they've been similar to me. You have to choose people that you believe are very similar to you.

i try starting conversation with other guys in my classes like "hey did you do the homework" or "how are you planning on studying for the upcoming exam" etc but it never leads anywhere
where can i find other autists?

 

[rand anon]

Because they don't have social skills, obviously

 

[rand anon]

you legitimately never go out.

The case for most of us

 

[XtrovertNTnormalfag]

Almost nobody here is autistic.
Guys here are recessed compared to normies, that's why they are incels.

 

[Copeful]

i try starting conversation with other guys in my classes like "hey did you do the homework" or "how are you planning on studying for the upcoming exam" etc but it never leads anywhere
where can i find other autists?

fuck you @190cm90kg

 

[190cm90kg]

fuck you @190cm90kg

send a vocaroo. do u have stilted speech

 

[Lawton88]

A few are but a 5/10 male in the west has shit SMV even if NT out of uni. Their looksmatch single females look at them as undesirable males at that point. Better use the NT skills when young if a 5/10 because it doesnt help a single 5/10 male much at about 22+.

 

[Copeful]

The case for most of us

it doesnt matter if you go out
no point trying if you know the outcome as an autist

 

[Copeful]

send a vocaroo. do u have stilted speech

my speech is fine i just dont know how to make small talk
and sometimes i say weird stuff due to not being able to filter (typical sign of autism) which turns people off

 

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[Tryingtoascend]

I don't get why people reply with profile pic bruh

 

[Deleted member 23114]

I don't get why people reply with profile pic bruh

 

[Tryingtoascend]

Nah man I do very decent I'm just here for self improvement I'm far from incel

 

[Deleted member 23114]

Nah man I do very decent I'm just here for self improvement I'm far from incel

 

[Deleted member 26448]

i try starting conversation with other guys in my classes like "hey did you do the homework" or "how are you planning on studying for the upcoming exam" etc but it never leads anywhere
where can i find other autists?

Yeah, I am not sure if people like to talk about school stuff that much, I don't think it'd lead to anything on it's own, but you have already put yourself out there, so you have that. I would think of a few people that have been the most receptive to you, and then try to see if you can get more personal with them. It's kind of cringe, but I find complimenting helps big time in making friends. People like being flattered.

Honestly, I sort of have an autist radar, so I can just tell. But, I would try to look for people with similar interests to you. If you know some people's names, I would stalk them online. Sounds weird, but if you look at someone online and notice something in common with them, it is a great way to make a connection. That is exactly what I did, and it's worked so far. A lot of non-NT people have similar interests, so if they have a similar interest to you, there's always a chance.

I befriended a girl near me because of our mutual interest in poetry and writing, for example, and all I needed to do was compliment her work, and tell her how I felt about it. Wasn't surprised to later figure out in conversation with her that she is non-NT. This is after multiple years of me trying this though, so I might have just got lucky....but I'd give it a try. If you have zero friends now, it's better to just kind of throw everything at the wall and see what sticks, especially if you're almost done with university anyways.

 

[Copeful]

Yeah, I am not sure if people like to talk about school stuff that much, I don't think it'd lead to anything on it's own, but you have already put yourself out there, so you have that. I would think of a few people that have been the most receptive to you, and then try to see if you can get more personal with them. It's kind of cringe, but I find complimenting helps big time in making friends. People like being flattered.

Honestly, I sort of have an autist radar, so I can just tell. But, I would try to look for people with similar interests to you. If you know some people's names, I would stalk them online. Sounds weird, but if you look at someone online and notice something in common with them, it is a great way to make a connection. That is exactly what I did, and it's worked so far. A lot of non-NT people have similar interests, so if they have a similar interest to you, there's always a chance.

I befriended a girl near me because of our mutual interest in poetry and writing, for example, and all I needed to do was compliment her work, and tell her how I felt about it. Wasn't surprised to later figure out in conversation with her that she is non-NT. This is after multiple years of me trying this though, so I might have just got lucky....but I'd give it a try. If you have zero friends now, it's better to just kind of throw everything at the wall and see what sticks, especially if you're almost done with university anyways.

thakn you for the reply brah i will try everything you said

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Almost nobody here is autistic.
Guys here are recessed compared to normies, that's why they are incels.

Yeah real incels are always malformed in some way

 

[St.TikTokcel]

Almost nobody here is autistic.
Guys here are recessed compared to normies, that's why they are incels.

This