It's so over bros

[sergeant blackpill]

i'm 27 yo still incel. have so many regrets with chances i never took, and i have autism so i can't communicate properly and my brain meltdowns at parties and such because i get overstimulated. I can't think properly while i'm distracted so i can't think about what to say in social situations because my brain is already 100% preoccupied with listening and monitoring changes in ppls bodylanguage and adjusting my own in accordance.

Now i've just rotted for 8 years, i've gone to hang out with a friend maybe 3 times the last 3-4 years and the loneliness is killing me.
I'm not even overly concerned about sex rn i'd be happy just returning to how things were during my late teens, having gymbro friends, going to parties on the weekends or just hanging out.

 

[quakociaptockh]

Is there a lockdown where you live? Are there any public parties?

 

[Deleted member 10330]

i'm 27 yo still incel. have so many regrets with chances i never took, and i have autism so i can't communicate properly and my brain meltdowns at parties and such because i get overstimulated. I can't think properly while i'm distracted so i can't think about what to say in social situations because my brain is already 100% preoccupied with listening and monitoring changes in ppls bodylanguage and adjusting my own in accordance.

Now i've just rotted for 8 years, i've gone to hang out with a friend maybe 3 times the last 3-4 years and the loneliness is killing me.
I'm not even overly concerned about sex rn i'd be happy just returning to how things were during my late teens, having gymbro friends, going to parties on the weekends or just hanging out.

Hang out with people on looksmax

 

[sergeant blackpill]

Is there a lockdown where you live? Are there any public parties?

The bars have to close at 8 pm but otherwise not really, but bluepill brainlets don't go out anymore because they think anyone who dares socialize rn is literally hitler and is comitting genocide.

I heard a house party when i was walking around town around midnight a few weeks ago so some ppl are still partying i guess, but idk what you mean by public parties?

 

[sergeant blackpill]

Hang out with people on looksmax

@ArvidGustavsson throw me a frigging bone

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Escorts my guy after 25 that is what you do

 

[Deleted member 9048]

send face

 

[sergeant blackpill]

send face

I'm not gonna have any ties to an inselibate forum so no.

 

[sergeant blackpill]

I don't wanna be inselibate when i'm 30, gonna rope before that happens

 

[Deleted member 12669]

I don't wanna be inselibate when i'm 30, gonna rope before that happens

 

[Dorado]

Bro, you need to dive in head first into social situations and stay in the water as long as it takes to become comfortable.

What you're doing is:

You're jumping into an ice cold pool, failing to immediately adapt to the temperature and getting out soon after.

Don't just go to a party every once in a while, have a few awkward interactions, and then go home. Stay in the party, go to more parties, have more awkward interactions, make them longer. Get used to it and it will stop feeling awkward. You will need to withstand the adaptation period even when it feels overwhelming.

You just need to close your eyes, jump in the ice cold water and keep swimming. Try to ignore and forget about the cold. As long as you stay in, eventually you will stop feeling it. The awkwardness is the exact same. Stop caring if people will cringe at your autistic social skills, it'll be worse if you never improve them. None of this will matter if you keep going. Everything gets better with time if you just hang tight.

 

[CristianT]

i'm 27 yo still incel. have so many regrets with chances i never took, and i have autism so i can't communicate properly and my brain meltdowns at parties and such because i get overstimulated. I can't think properly while i'm distracted so i can't think about what to say in social situations because my brain is already 100% preoccupied with listening and monitoring changes in ppls bodylanguage and adjusting my own in accordance.

Now i've just rotted for 8 years, i've gone to hang out with a friend maybe 3 times the last 3-4 years and the loneliness is killing me.
I'm not even overly concerned about sex rn i'd be happy just returning to how things were during my late teens, having gymbro friends, going to parties on the weekends or just hanging out.

im also 27, this month, in 21, I will have my bimax(purely for aestethics) its never too late to take actions.

 

[lasthope]

im also 27, this month, in 21, I will have my bimax(purely for aestethics) its never too late to take actions.

Can you pm your before pics? Do you need bimax?

 

[sergeant blackpill]

It wasn't supposed to end like this..

I was never a hopeless case, i had my first love reciprocated and got my first kiss in kindergarten ffs. I'm not an ugly truecel yet all these bad fucked up things happened to me buddyboyos. Idk what happened, i fell for the introvert meme and thought i wouldn't be lonely without friends, so i didn't bother and cut off many friends until there was none left.

Fuckkk if only i could go back in time and not fuck it all up

 

[sergeant blackpill]

Only reason to exist is procreation, everything else is cope, if u can't get sex there's no point living

 

[AlexAP]

i fell for the introvert meme and thought i wouldn't be lonely without friends, so i didn't bother and cut off many friends until there was none left.

That's true. Everyone needs regular social contact, or you go crazy. Being introvert is largely a meme.

 

[mewcoper]

That's true. Everyone needs regular social contact, or you go crazy. Being introvert is largely a meme.

being introvert is not meme but you need at least one friend

 

[AlexAP]

being introvert is not meme but you need at least one friend

Yeah, I was answering to OP's point "wouldn't be lonely without friends."

 

[sergeant blackpill]

That's true. Everyone needs regular social contact, or you go crazy. Being introvert is largely a meme.

True, i am legit insane now from all the years of loneliness, if it wasn't for opioids i probably would have roped long ago.

 

[AlexAP]

Only reason to exist is procreation, everything else is cope, if u can't get sex there's no point living

If you really think it's hopeless, try to get a mail order bride. You just have to be from a First-World-country for this, nothing more.

If you like her, good for you. If it doesn't work out, you can still have another relationship later in life. Use that time with her to ascend and to get experience (not only sexual experience, get some friends and a social circle).

 

[sergeant blackpill]

If you really think it's hopeless, try to get a mail order bride. You just have to be from a First-World-country for this, nothing more.

If you like her, good for you. If it doesn't work out, you can still have another relationship later in life. Use that time with her to ascend and to get experience (not only sexual experience, get some friends and a social circle).

I'm from a first world country but i'm dirt poor so i can't do that, plus i would never betabuxx that's just too humiliating..

 

[AlexAP]

I'm from a first world country but i'm dirt poor so i can't do that,

You only have to have a job and an apartment, that's it.

plus i would never betabuxx that's just too humiliating..

Not more humiliating than staying in your situation.

And you can still ascend later, just take this as a little help.

 

[Deleted member 7901]

That's true. Everyone needs regular social contact, or you go crazy. Being introvert is largely a meme.

introverts still need friends, nobody has ever claimed otherwise, you are mistaken with schizoids which legit don't need
friendships

 

[sergeant blackpill]

I literally have neither of those things.

 

[AlexAP]

I literally have neither of those things.

Then this is your first step. Try to get a job and apartment, and you can start a new life.

 

[sergeant blackpill]

Then this is your first step. Try to get a job and apartment, and you can start a new life.

I'm trying, must have been on 10 interviews this year already.

I had a job about 6-7 months ago in telemarketing, and my boss was a disgusting subhuman and he just seemed to hate me for no reason, was always lowkey picking on me and eating away at my soul with snarky remarks and he hired me on condition that i work for comission only, whereas my colleague was hired with a guaranteed salary+commission. My colleague was late for up to 2 hours at least once every week, but my boss never got pissed at him, but when i was late 15 minutes ONE SINGLE DAY, he fucking snapped at me.

Before that i briefly got hired in a callcenter abroad, but i had my drug addiction going on and i realized i would get fired if i was working while having withdrawals, so i went home before that happene.

 

[Deleted member 2968]

If you are white,just go to Southeastern Asia and you can get jbs easily

 

[Deleted member 5786]

Im sorry bro @PingPong