Alexanderr
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Are you really comfortable with your current situation? Be honest. We complain about our looks, but often, we prefer the familiar discomfort to the terrifying uncertainty of change. It's self-sabotage, plain and simple. We're obsessed with the idea of lookmaxxing, but hesitant to truly commit. Why?
Look in the mirror. Really look. Satisfied? If not, what's stopping you? You started that gym routine, then quit. Planned a strict diet, then caved. Researched jaw surgery, then chickened out. Bought minoxidil, applied it twice…gathering dust. You start, then hesitate. Why?
It's the comfort of the familiar, isn't it? Change is scary. It demands effort, sacrifice, vulnerability. We cling to what we know, even if it's slowly killing our potential. We crave a better version of ourselves, but fear the unknown. What if we fail? What if the "new you" is worse? Easier to blame circumstances, genetics, luck. Easier to stay stuck.
But make no mistake: a life lived in the shadows of your potential will be paid for in regret. The fat guy, the rotter, the ugly guy – you all will pay. The years wasted, the opportunities missed, the dreams deferred – they will weigh on you, a constant reminder of what could have been.
And then comes the excuse: "I'm just unlucky." Bullshit. While some are genuinely dealt a cruel hand, most of us fall somewhere in the mid-range of luck. The real difference between success and failure isn't luck; it's fortune.
Incels see an IOI and freeze. They schedule surgery, then cancel. They complain about bad luck while choosing inaction. They're waiting for fortune to find them. Fools.
The truth: you chose this. Every single day, you choose comfort over change, fear over action.
But you can choose differently. It's not too late. Defy your destiny. Confront the fear. Choose action. Choose fortune.
Look in the mirror. Really look. Satisfied? If not, what's stopping you? You started that gym routine, then quit. Planned a strict diet, then caved. Researched jaw surgery, then chickened out. Bought minoxidil, applied it twice…gathering dust. You start, then hesitate. Why?
It's the comfort of the familiar, isn't it? Change is scary. It demands effort, sacrifice, vulnerability. We cling to what we know, even if it's slowly killing our potential. We crave a better version of ourselves, but fear the unknown. What if we fail? What if the "new you" is worse? Easier to blame circumstances, genetics, luck. Easier to stay stuck.
But make no mistake: a life lived in the shadows of your potential will be paid for in regret. The fat guy, the rotter, the ugly guy – you all will pay. The years wasted, the opportunities missed, the dreams deferred – they will weigh on you, a constant reminder of what could have been.
And then comes the excuse: "I'm just unlucky." Bullshit. While some are genuinely dealt a cruel hand, most of us fall somewhere in the mid-range of luck. The real difference between success and failure isn't luck; it's fortune.
- Luck: Random chance. A winning lottery ticket. Zero control.
- Fortune: Created luck. Seizing opportunities. Acting despite the fear.
Incels see an IOI and freeze. They schedule surgery, then cancel. They complain about bad luck while choosing inaction. They're waiting for fortune to find them. Fools.
The truth: you chose this. Every single day, you choose comfort over change, fear over action.
But you can choose differently. It's not too late. Defy your destiny. Confront the fear. Choose action. Choose fortune.