I've come to accept my loneliness somewhat

[CorinthianLOX]

Nowadays the idea that I would hangout w/a friendgroup seems lowkey weird that it kinda makes me feel uncomfortable. I've endured intense loneliness for the past 3 years now and I can't imagine true intimacy at the moment. I have had sex and experiences were women tried to flirt with me etc. but they went nowhere because of my high inhib that I have acquired from these lonely years. As a matter of fact, accepting my innate loneliness has made me more lowe inhib.

Are these just copes? Should I be more social. Idk you tell me.

 

[jeb98]

humans are social creatures. I would say probably try to socialize

 

[160cmcurry]

don’t stress over it

hop on weed

 

[CorinthianLOX]

don’t stress over it

hop on weed

I don't have a source atm

 

[CorinthianLOX]

@eon

 

[WKW]

Loneliness is a given. You can’t just change it when it’s engraved in your brain.

Anti social doesn’t mean I’m a fucking retard who can’t speak nor go out anymore, it just means you’re alone.

If you truly don’t have a problem with it like I do then it isn’t cope, it’s just you finally embracing it rather than it being a stain you can’t wash away.

 

[CorinthianLOX]

If you truly don’t have a problem with it like I do then it isn’t cope, it’s just you finally embracing it rather than it being a stain you can’t wash away.

I'm not sure if I have a problem with it

 

[Deleted member 76088]

Nowadays the idea that I would hangout w/a friendgroup seems lowkey weird that it kinda makes me feel uncomfortable. I've endured intense loneliness for the past 3 years now and I can't imagine true intimacy at the moment. I have had sex and experiences were women tried to flirt with me etc. but they went nowhere because of my high inhib that I have acquired from these lonely years. As a matter of fact, accepting my innate loneliness has made me more lowe inhib.

Are these just copes? Should I be more social. Idk you tell me.

Being high inhib doesn’t stop you from having a connection to a foid. I‘m high inhib too, but usually the foids think i‘m just nonchalant then they notice i‘m just really introverted and then they don’t give a shit about it

 

[WKW]

I'm not sure if I have a problem with it

Then it’s just the way it is.

Sure you can hang out and whatnot but at your core you may want to be lonely again.

I too have these thoughts once in a while where I fucking crave social attention so bad till I have my first interaction after that I just stop chasing it cause it wasn’t like I expected it to be lol