I've come to the conclusion that my oneitis sees me as a pet

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I know I've been rambling on and on about my oneitis in these threads lately, I apologize but she literally wanted me to become this obsessed with her after our walk almost a week ago. She just randomly hit me up out of the blue just to fuck with my head and get me hooked on her again cause I guess she had a craving for my validation. Ive now realized that she sees me as this retard pet she uses for entertainment everytime shes bored or hasnt gotten enough validation. Thats why she randomly hit me up on wednesday,im notthing more than a validation exuder for her. Yeah im done talking about her, just gonna distance myself from her if she ever responds again and get on with my life. Dont wanna be a pet for a bitch who rarely acknowldges my existence
 
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bump, nothing ever happens despite how badly i want them to
 
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Is this actually even that difficult to realize?
 
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A girl you are head over heels for.
do you ever think about your oneitis often or is it just me? i think about her every second of every minute going on everyday
 
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Where the term originated from
One-itis. "itis" is derived from illnesses, "one" because it revolves around one person. So, "one" + "itis" = "oneitis."
 
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do you ever think about your oneitis often or is it just me? i think about her every second of every minute going on everyday
Literally every single day and I already got rejected in 2021. I try not to think about her whatsoever but she pops up in my head everyday, which is funny considering she forgot about me (rightfully so, I am not complaining about that). I think the real cure for someone like you, and for someone like me, is to find someone else. However, the problem is... I'm aromantic, asexual, so I cannot just replace her. I wonder if I ever can get her out of my head.
 
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One-itis. "itis" is derived from illnesses, "one" because it revolves around one person. So, "one" + "itis" = "oneitis."
I thought its about some onion shit
 
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Literally every single day and I already got rejected in 2021. I try not to think about her whatsoever but she pops up in my head everyday, which is funny considering she forgot about me (rightfully so, I am not complaining about that). I think the real cure for someone like you, and for someone like me, is to find someone else. However, the problem is... I'm aromantic, asexual, so I cannot just replace her. I wonder if I ever can get her out of my head.
holy fucking shit man i feel the exact same even though its been less than a year. I wish i couldnt fucking forget her but she loves me as an orbiter
 
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holy fucking shit man i feel the exact same even though its been less than a year. I wish i couldnt fucking forget her but she loves me as an orbiter
I feel ya man.
 
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holy fucking shit man i feel the exact same even though its been less than a year. I wish i couldnt fucking forget her but she loves me as an orbiter
Well at least you're not getting ignored like I was, she didn't even want to talk to me. :feelswah::feelswhy:
 
Literally every single day and I already got rejected in 2021. I try not to think about her whatsoever but she pops up in my head everyday, which is funny considering she forgot about me (rightfully so, I am not complaining about that). I think the real cure for someone like you, and for someone like me, is to find someone else. However, the problem is... I'm aromantic, asexual, so I cannot just replace her. I wonder if I ever can get her out of my head.
You cannot getting over your "oneitis" is you getting no hoes
 
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You cannot getting over your "oneitis" is you getting no hoes
Exactly. But I wonder, even if I were be able to get someone else (lol, in Minecraft) then would that be enough for me to forget her completely? That's the real question.
 
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Exactly. But I wonder, even if I were be able to get someone else (lol, in Minecraft) then would that be enough for me to forget her completely? That's the real question.
you gotta find the qualities you're looking for, and never settle for less
 
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Exactly. But I wonder, even if I were be able to get someone else (lol, in Minecraft) then would that be enough for me to forget her completely? That's the real question.
Jbs play roblox, minecraft is for oldcels and autistic kids
 
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you gotta find the qualities you're looking for, and never settle for less
You're absolutely right, but the qualities I am looking for are also automatically removing a very large pool of options. I don't care for looks so much, but culture and cuisine are also important aspects for me and 99% just don't tick the right box.
 
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Jbs play roblox, minecraft is for oldcels and autistic kids
I was saying that I can't get anyone, I don't play Minecraft or Roblox. I don't play games. But I'll start soon. Not with either, just another game or two. Or three. For fun purposes, not for anything else.
 
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You're absolutely right, but the qualities I am looking for are also automatically removing a very large pool of options. I don't care for looks so much, but culture and cuisine are also important aspects for me and 99% just don't tick the right box.
Then prioritize your qualities it is like if you want a bad virgin or a loyal ran thru depending on you too can't ask for a virgin when you were whoring around
 
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I was saying that I can't get anyone, I don't play Minecraft or Roblox. I don't play games. But I'll start soon. Not with either, just another game or two. Or three. For fun purposes, not for anything else.
What do you do for fun?
 
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Then prioritize your qualities it is like if you want a bad virgin or a loyal ran thru depending on you too can't ask for a virgin when you were whoring around
I agree that it would be hypocritical to turn down non-virgins if I was a non-virgin myself, I see many guys here doing this. My priorities are stuff like, religiosity, similar culture and cuisine, etc. Looks are the least important, IMO.
What do you do for fun?
Nothing. I listen to music mainly. I'm about to watch a movie. However I bought a horror game in 2023 and I think I should play that. I haven't played it even though I bought it way back. What about you?
 
I agree that it would be hypocritical to turn down non-virgins if I was a non-virgin myself, I see many guys here doing this. My priorities are stuff like, religiosity, similar culture and cuisine, etc. Looks are the least important, IMO.
I think you can find them everywhere, religuous I can't gurantee if you live in the west
Nothing. I listen to music mainly. I'm about to watch a movie. However I bought a horror game in 2023 and I think I should play that. I haven't played it even though I bought it way back. What about you?
Gaming, calithenics, trolling foids and breaking thier egos on internet, chadfishing to get better at socializjng, watching what oldcels on yt do and what they go through, trying to educate myself as much as possible about different topics as possible.
 
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I think you can find them everywhere, religuous I can't gurantee if you live in the west
They practice their religion half-arsedly, one foot in the church and the other outside. You see my point.
Gaming, calithenics, trolling foids and breaking thier egos on internet, chadfishing to get better at socializjng, watching what oldcels on yt do and what they go through, trying to educate myself as much as possible about different topics as possible.
Mirin, what are your favorite games? You surely are way more productive than I am.
 
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They practice their religion half-arsedly, one foot in the church and the other outside. You see my point.
Then become muslim and get a muslim girl
Mirin, what are your favorite games? You surely are way more productive than I am.
I used to play pubgm when it was at peak with foids, codm ranked games only with best of the best players, roblox , piano
 
I know I've been rambling on and on about my oneitis in these threads lately, I apologize but she literally wanted me to become this obsessed with her after our walk almost a week ago. She just randomly hit me up out of the blue just to fuck with my head and get me hooked on her again cause I guess she had a craving for my validation. Ive now realized that she sees me as this retard pet she uses for entertainment everytime shes bored or hasnt gotten enough validation. Thats why she randomly hit me up on wednesday,im notthing more than a validation exuder for her. Yeah im done talking about her, just gonna distance myself from her if she ever responds again and get on with my life. Dont wanna be a pet for a bitch who rarely acknowldges my existence
She wants to peg you bro
 
oneitis pill is so brutal in general just makes me want to rope thinking about that period of time
 

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