I've gotten significantly better looking recently and the substantial change in my life experience has me constantly on the verge of a panic attack

[NuclearBrainReturns]

This is something people won't tell you about looksmaxxing but if you are anything like me and have a really good base and for ages you let yourself go, suddenly changing your life and looking significantly more attractive will make you feel like you are living in an alternate reality.

When I was younger, I looked as hot as I do now and one of the reasons I let myself go was because the attention was too much. The first time I got handsome, the spotlight effect really fucked with my head and I couldn't cope with being the center of attention all the time so I stopped working out and gained weight so I could blend in again. The same situation is happening now.

I am constantly worried about how I come across to people because what once would have been a funny joke or whatever can and (I think IS) being percieved as egotism and self absorption. People will have their guard up around you if you are significantly attractive enough and you have to downplay certain aspects of your personality and become a lot more self depreciating or humble in order for people to not get the wrong impression.

I can't go anywhere without groups of girls staring at me with smiles and old women flirting with me. An old woman smacked me on the ass at work today which is something that used to happen all the time a few years ago.

Men mate guard constantly and mean mug you. Girls will flirt with you INFRONT of their boyfriends who stare at you like they want to kill you. Even if you aren' in any way flirting back.

Your entire life will change and you better be fucking ready for it. It's no joke and your life doesn't automatically become a paradise. There are some real downsides to being good looking if you're introverted or value your alone time.

Idk why anyone hasn't fucking spoken about this. It's something people need to be aware of.

 

[134applesauce456]

but if you are good looking people will judge you less/excuse odd behavior

so do whatever you want, thats what I would do

 

[superpsycho]

well good thing i dont need to worry about this im going to be ugly until i can afford my surgeries

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

but if you are good looking people will judge you less/excuse odd behavior

so do whatever you want, thats what I would do

This isn't neccesarily true. You can get away with more mistakes in general but there are a lot of people who will assume ill intentions right off the bat because they are jealous and think good looking guys are all massive twats.

 

[nofap]

0 incels are ready to become sudden chadlites over night by getting surgery, or hopping on accutane if they are severe acne cels and get cucked by their skin

But the hardest part is what do you do once your gl and have had a few slays, what’s next?

Since you have achieved what you wanted you realize being gl wont make you happy, you’ll still be a incel at heart with a miserable life ahead of you

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

0 incels are ready to become sudden chadlites over night by getting surgery, or hopping on accutane if they are severe acne cels and get cucked by their skin

But the hardest part is what do you do once your gl and have had a few slays, what’s next?

Since you have achieved what you wanted you realize being gl wont make you happy, you’ll still be a incel at heart with a miserable life ahead of you

The biggest lesson I have learned is that looks are both everything and nothing. At the moment, I am in constantly anxiety because my appearance has become such a massive part of my daily life. The next step is being able to manage this new life and not let go of the personal aspects of myself that made me, me.

 

[MikeMew'sBitch]

if you were dark triad narcissist you would know how to use those good looks to improve your money making capabilities and get hot bitches. unfortunately you are an anxious scared pussy so your looks actually make you even more anxious

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

if you were dark triad narcissist you would know how to use those good looks to improve your money making capabilities and get hot bitches. unfortunately you are an anxious scared pussy so your looks actually make you even more anxious

You act like being a dark triad narc is a good thing. Ever wondered why so many good looking people are dark triad narcs? It's because they understand exactly what I am talking about in this thread. Everyone views you as a piece of meat. I have gay old men propositioning me for sex at my workplace, old women grabbing me in public, teenage girls squealing when they see me with their friends.

I understand the plight of beautiful women now. They are constantly harrassed by people and feel exactly as I do now. No wonder they take anti depressants.

 

[LancasteR]

You act like being a dark triad narc is a good thing. Ever wondered why so many good looking people are dark triad narcs? It's because they understand exactly what I am talking about in this thread. Everyone views you as a piece of meat. I have gay old men propositioning me for sex at my workplace, old women grabbing me in public, teenage girls squealing when they see me with their friends.

I understand the plight of beautiful women now. They are constantly harrassed by people and feel exactly as I do now. No wonder they take anti depressants.

>From Tel Aviv, Israel

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

>From Tel Aviv, Israel

Anyone whos anyone on these fucking forums knows im from britain.

 

[LancasteR]

Anyone whos anyone on these fucking forums knows im from britain.

Being popular or known here doesn't bring you much anymore
This ain't Lookism pal

 

[reptiles]

but if you are good looking people will judge you less/excuse odd behavior

so do whatever you want, thats what I would do

Based surgery or death

 

[Vultus Tui Res]

This is something people won't tell you about looksmaxxing but if you are anything like me and have a really good base and for ages you let yourself go, suddenly changing your life and looking significantly more attractive will make you feel like you are living in an alternate reality.

When I was younger, I looked as hot as I do now and one of the reasons I let myself go was because the attention was too much. The first time I got handsome, the spotlight effect really fucked with my head and I couldn't cope with being the center of attention all the time so I stopped working out and gained weight so I could blend in again. The same situation is happening now.

I am constantly worried about how I come across to people because what once would have been a funny joke or whatever can and (I think IS) being percieved as egotism and self absorption. People will have their guard up around you if you are significantly attractive enough and you have to downplay certain aspects of your personality and become a lot more self depreciating or humble in order for people to not get the wrong impression.

I can't go anywhere without groups of girls staring at me with smiles and old women flirting with me. An old woman smacked me on the ass at work today which is something that used to happen all the time a few years ago.

Men mate guard constantly and mean mug you. Girls will flirt with you INFRONT of their boyfriends who stare at you like they want to kill you. Even if you aren' in any way flirting back.

Your entire life will change and you better be fucking ready for it. It's no joke and your life doesn't automatically become a paradise. There are some real downsides to being good looking if you're introverted or value your alone time.

Idk why anyone hasn't fucking spoken about this. It's something people need to be aware of.

Agreed.

 

[134applesauce456]

You act like being a dark triad narc is a good thing. Ever wondered why so many good looking people are dark triad narcs? It's because they understand exactly what I am talking about in this thread. Everyone views you as a piece of meat. I have gay old men propositioning me for sex at my workplace, old women grabbing me in public, teenage girls squealing when they see me with their friends.

I understand the plight of beautiful women now. They are constantly harrassed by people and feel exactly as I do now. No wonder they take anti depressants.

ngl bro we could trade places if you want bro is suffering from success

 

[pfl]

Looks level??

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

ngl bro we could trade places if you want bro is suffering from success

That’s the thing about it is it has its ups and it’s downs but I’m just telling you my experience.

 

[noahwillascend]

This is something people won't tell you about looksmaxxing but if you are anything like me and have a really good base and for ages you let yourself go, suddenly changing your life and looking significantly more attractive will make you feel like you are living in an alternate reality.

When I was younger, I looked as hot as I do now and one of the reasons I let myself go was because the attention was too much. The first time I got handsome, the spotlight effect really fucked with my head and I couldn't cope with being the center of attention all the time so I stopped working out and gained weight so I could blend in again. The same situation is happening now.

I am constantly worried about how I come across to people because what once would have been a funny joke or whatever can and (I think IS) being percieved as egotism and self absorption. People will have their guard up around you if you are significantly attractive enough and you have to downplay certain aspects of your personality and become a lot more self depreciating or humble in order for people to not get the wrong impression.

I can't go anywhere without groups of girls staring at me with smiles and old women flirting with me. An old woman smacked me on the ass at work today which is something that used to happen all the time a few years ago.

Men mate guard constantly and mean mug you. Girls will flirt with you INFRONT of their boyfriends who stare at you like they want to kill you. Even if you aren' in any way flirting back.

Your entire life will change and you better be fucking ready for it. It's no joke and your life doesn't automatically become a paradise. There are some real downsides to being good looking if you're introverted or value your alone time.

Idk why anyone hasn't fucking spoken about this. It's something people need to be aware of.

We legit don’t care

 

[134applesauce456]

That’s the thing about it is it has its ups and it’s downs but I’m just telling you my experience.

maybe but it would definitely mog being unattractive, be grateful

 

[Wexilarious]

If you want to be ignored, wear a silver chain, or better yet, two

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

maybe but it would definitely mog being unattractive, be grateful

I've been unattractive or at least mid. It does mog it but the adjustment period for going from mid to attractive takes time to get used to. I thought I had a handle on it until recently (because I've experienced this before the first time I had a glow up) but its unrelenting. You have to accept that you are a phenomenon now and not just a regular guy. When you're someone who enjoys going about his business without being bothered that takes time to accept. Hope you understand.

 

[MikeMew'sBitch]

You act like being a dark triad narc is a good thing. Ever wondered why so many good looking people are dark triad narcs? It's because they understand exactly what I am talking about in this thread. Everyone views you as a piece of meat. I have gay old men propositioning me for sex at my workplace, old women grabbing me in public, teenage girls squealing when they see me with their friends.

I understand the plight of beautiful women now. They are constantly harrassed by people and feel exactly as I do now. No wonder they take anti depressants.

Shut the fuck up nigger

 

[Krisis]

This isn't neccesarily true. You can get away with more mistakes in general but there are a lot of people who will assume ill intentions right off the bat because they are jealous and think good looking guys are all massive twats.

It doesn't have to be one or the other. Human nature is more complex than that. The response you receive for being attractive is partially contingent on the types of people you're interacting with, but in general, people do treat you better, which is just the truth.

Yes, it's not a perfect life, and your plight is not to be downplayed, but it must be emphasized that there's no such thing as a perfect life. The human mind is far too fallible to be able to walk through life without detractors, without people who'll assume the worst of you, without people who'll want to suppress you and potentially even destroy you.

Being attractive makes you more visible than the average person, which is bound to have associated with it pros and cons.

 

[getAlLifeMaxxing]

You act like being a dark triad narc is a good thing. Ever wondered why so many good looking people are dark triad narcs? It's because they understand exactly what I am talking about in this thread. Everyone views you as a piece of meat. I have gay old men propositioning me for sex at my workplace, old women grabbing me in public, teenage girls squealing when they see me with their friends.

I understand the plight of beautiful women now. They are constantly harrassed by people and feel exactly as I do now. No wonder they take anti depressants.

You are like a friend I have. He didn't want to workout because he didn't want the attention he would get. That is your main problem, social anxiety. This whole thing you wrote about having to walk one eggshells and downplay your personality, complete cope. Being attractive brings such intense discomfort to you with all those eyes on you that you try to look for everything wrong with being attractive.


Write a complete pros and cons list of being attractive and you will get a slap to reality. (Shouldn't be to hard to find pros find black pillers )

And for the love of God start working on your social anxiety. If you were truly an introvert the attention would be annoying and draining, you wouldn't make yourself ugly on purpose to avoid it, that isn't healthy, that is social anxiety.