Whatever
The everything and the nothing
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Trying to take OLD seriously for the first time ever and actually meet a girl on it but nope, the universe doesn't want me to do that right now, drilled the point home again this week.
3 girls messaged me first this week, now I'm ghosted by all 3. This was the most frustrating one because she's really my type and had all this stuff in her profile that's in common with me. I know I should've asked to meet that night but I was too busy workceling. This is how some petite and especially petite blonde girls are with me, I guess I trigger their impulse and they want it and they want it now, but if there's any waiting then I'll blow my chance. A girl will only throw herself at you once, you have to catch her (low inhib), you have to be in position to catch her (logistics), which is the tricky part. I asked her out again for this weekend but she unmatched me. "You seem perfect" to unmatched, just like that. 100% this is the universe fucking with me, showing me what I could get but don't. I could handle this flaky bullshit if I knew them in person, but when it's all on a screen it just fucks with me because it's not in reality.
This is when you really know that it's over on OLD. There's an age pill and a demographics pill in here. My settings were set to 18-25 (I'm 30), I eventually switched to white only, 99 miles which includes a population of maybe 2-3 million people. The amount of attractive girls out there is so finite that I swiped through it all in only a few weeks of Hinge+.
I still have plenty of matches that I haven't messaged yet but this just isn't how I wanna meet a girl anyways, and maybe they don't either, there's no getting away from the question of why any young person (especially an attractive girl) is on these apps. My only option left now is to do the one thing that I have basically never done, approach girls in person.
3 girls messaged me first this week, now I'm ghosted by all 3. This was the most frustrating one because she's really my type and had all this stuff in her profile that's in common with me. I know I should've asked to meet that night but I was too busy workceling. This is how some petite and especially petite blonde girls are with me, I guess I trigger their impulse and they want it and they want it now, but if there's any waiting then I'll blow my chance. A girl will only throw herself at you once, you have to catch her (low inhib), you have to be in position to catch her (logistics), which is the tricky part. I asked her out again for this weekend but she unmatched me. "You seem perfect" to unmatched, just like that. 100% this is the universe fucking with me, showing me what I could get but don't. I could handle this flaky bullshit if I knew them in person, but when it's all on a screen it just fucks with me because it's not in reality.
This is when you really know that it's over on OLD. There's an age pill and a demographics pill in here. My settings were set to 18-25 (I'm 30), I eventually switched to white only, 99 miles which includes a population of maybe 2-3 million people. The amount of attractive girls out there is so finite that I swiped through it all in only a few weeks of Hinge+.
I still have plenty of matches that I haven't messaged yet but this just isn't how I wanna meet a girl anyways, and maybe they don't either, there's no getting away from the question of why any young person (especially an attractive girl) is on these apps. My only option left now is to do the one thing that I have basically never done, approach girls in person.