JFL at DMing or Following a Girl First

[NumbThePain]

You really think you have a chance between dozens of simps and Chads she's been talking to already. And the guys she's been talking to already look better than you

Lowest of the lowest if you do this you utter disgusting subhuman cunt. You’re just rejection material

A girl needs to DM or follow YOU first. They always do this to Chad(lites) they like. They will continue to give hints until the guy gets it

Keep coping if you think a man should take action first. You’re just ugly or average to them

 

[cobicado901]

Chads she's been talking to already

??? I'm funnier and I have a better personality than those guys. I would also give her flowers as a gift to stand out from them all !!

 

[TechnoBoss]

??? I'm funnier and I have a better personality than those guys. I would also give her flowers as a gift to stand out from them all !!

 

[Nick.Harte]

Made this mistake a lot of times

 

[NoReedemingFeature]

I never wrote to a girl.
Except for a few times where I'd just dm them "sex?" or "head?" for shits and giggles but I guess you can't do that now since you're going to get chastised for harassment or whatever

 

[NumbThePain]

Made this mistake a lot of times

Same. I was such a bluepilled soy. Muhh "Hey, how are you?"

 

[Nick.Harte]

Same. I was such a bluepilled soy. Muhh "Hey, how are you?"

She shared my conversations with other people lmao and I was brutally roasted

Being bluepilled and a sub5 can be very brutal

 

[Nirvana]

She shared my conversations with other people lmao and I was brutally roasted

Being bluepilled and a sub5 can be very brutal

cant imagine how many times i secretly got sent to the all girls gc

 

[Always Stay You]

Idk, I know of many girls who would fuck a guy off of him DMing them. It's probably worth a shot considering it's not stressful or requires any effort to just type out a message and send.

 

[Nick.Harte]

cant imagine how many times i secretly got sent to the all girls gc

Same and I didn’t do anything wrong

These girls are sick af and they should’ve told me they don’t wanna talk or fucking block me or someshit

They leaked my convos a lot of time
Hs same shit
Online sane shit
Basically don’t talk to a foid if you’re a sub5

 

[ioimaxxer]

You really think you have a chance between dozens of simps and Chads she's been talking to already. And the guys she's been talking to already look better than you

Lowest of the lowest if you do this you utter disgusting subhuman cunt. You’re just rejection material

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A girl needs to DM or follow YOU first. They always do this to Chad(lites) they like. They will continue to give hints until the guy gets it

Keep coping if you think a man should take action first. You’re just ugly or average to them

nah i follow em first sometimes
real thing that matters is texting, she gotta text u first

 

[castizo_ascender]

cant imagine how many times i secretly got sent to the all girls gc

brutal imagine what they say about sub5s and failed normies

 

[Nick.Harte]

she gotta text u first

Happens sometimes but still nothing is guaranteed

 

[Nick.Harte]

brutal imagine what they say about sub5s and failed normies

Bro id probably kms if I saw the discussions of my messages in their group chats

 

[shizuku11111]

well nigga, it in fact worked, my girl is freshman and im senior, but also 6'3 in shoes and one of the best looking seniors

 

[ioimaxxer]

Happens sometimes but still nothing is guaranteed

ofc. insta is is just like that tho nothing serious comes out of it. well i wouldn’t know cus i always end up ghosting them near the end anyway lmao

 

[Regressive]

water

 

[SoundnVision]

They can suck my fucking fat pink English cock

 

[Nick.Harte]

ofc. insta is is just like that tho nothing serious comes out of it. well i wouldn’t know cus i always end up ghosting them near the end anyway lmao

I’ve had a few girls messaging me first only for me to find out later that they were already in a relationship

 

[Nick.Harte]

They can suck my fucking fat pink English cock

This

 

[NumbThePain]

She shared my conversations with other people lmao and I was brutally roasted

Being bluepilled and a sub5 can be very brutal

cant imagine how many times i secretly got sent to the all girls gc

Holy shit yeah. "Just look at this ugly guy from work trying to hit on me " or in real life "This dude sent me a dm and I was like wtf. I didn't even repond or gave short answers"

 

[Daddy's Home]

Social media is just for women to try their luck in attracting chads, it was never made for average guys..

The only chance of finding a foid who might like you as an average guy is if you get to meet her in real life somehow, somewhere, sometime, through some context or circumstance, and if she likes you and makes clear signs towards you..

Average foids DMs in 2025:

 

[Nick.Harte]

Holy shit yeah. "Just look at this ugly guy from work trying to hit on me " or in real life "This dude sent me a dm and I was like wtf. I didn't even repond or gave short answers"

I have no idea how I’d react if I saw the convos and their fucking comments

Ropefuel

 

[ioimaxxer]

I’ve had a few girls messaging me first only for me to find out later that they were already in a relationship

i always have girls messaging me first but those are the ones i never really spend any energy on. cus it’s like they’re tryna chase me not the other way around. i don’t like girls like that tho, tryna act like they’re in love wit me like idgaf bro

 

[Nick.Harte]

i always have girls messaging me first but those are the ones i never really spend any energy on. cus it’s like they’re tryna chase me not the other way around. i don’t like girls like that tho, tryna act like they’re in love wit me like idgaf bro

Yeah. I asked one of these girls out and she posted a new pic with her sitting on the lap on her bf lmao. I was a toy to her.
That happened on insta when I was still in high school

 

[Nick.Harte]

i always have girls messaging me first but those are the ones i never really spend any energy on. cus it’s like they’re tryna chase me not the other way around. i don’t like girls like that tho, tryna act like they’re in love wit me like idgaf bro

I also want to go for the ones that I really want because most of the time the chicks who dm first aren’t even average tbh( at least for me)

 

[NumbThePain]

Social media is just for women to try their luck in attracting chads, it was never made for average guys..

The only chance of finding a foid who might like you as an average guy is if you get to meet her in real life somehow, somewhere, sometime, through some context or circumstance, and if she likes you and makes clear signs towards you..

Average foids DMs in 2025:

The only social media places for average to ugly men are places like this forum or platforms were hooking up doesn't rly exist like Twitter/X or YouTube. To talk to other average dudes or watch videos. Thats all what we do rly

Also notifications on my phone are alien to me. I never receive a notification. Imagine the average foid

 

[ioimaxxer]

I also want to go for the ones that I really want because most of the time the chicks who dm first aren’t even average tbh( at least for me)

for me they’re alright but it’s the personality aspect that turns me off cus you know that if they went for you they could’ve gone for any other hot guy. i want my girl to be hard to get

 

[ioimaxxer]

Yeah. I asked one of these girls out and she posted a new pic with her sitting on the lap on her bf lmao. I was a toy to her.
That happened on insta when I was still in high school

damn that’s tuff.

 

[Nick.Harte]

The only social media places for average to ugly men are places like this forum or platforms were hooking up doesn't rly exist like Twitter/X or YouTube. To talk to other average dudes or watch videos. Thats all what we do rly

Also notifications on my phone are alien to me. I never receive a notification. Imagine the average foid

I’d be dead without this place tbh
I’m a nobody irl

 

[Nick.Harte]

want my girl to be hard to get

Damn. I also like the chase

 

[Nick.Harte]

damn that’s tuff.

I remember that pic kinda vividly ig
The clothes she wore, the background, her bf , etc….because it hit me by surprise

 

[swt]

dnr past title but do agree

personally, i’d never approach or dm a girl,

my girlfriend literally liked me first, if she didn’t i’d never have approached her myself

 

[ioimaxxer]

Damn. I also like the chase

fr i swear to god whenever i bag a girl i just lose interest. i don’t know why but it’s probably because i only do it to satisfy me ego, to flex on these niggas that i can pull your crush if i want to. but that’s dysfunctional tbh. only girls i’ve ever loved kinda were the ones that got away.

 

[ioimaxxer]

I remember that pic kinda vividly ig
The clothes she wore, the background, her bf , etc….because it hit me by surprise

some whores exist just to be whores

 

[NumbThePain]

i always have girls messaging me first but those are the ones i never really spend any energy on. cus it’s like they’re tryna chase me not the other way around. i don’t like girls like that tho, tryna act like they’re in love wit me like idgaf bro

You're probably HTN minimum or tall

 

[ioimaxxer]

You're probably HTN minimum or tall

i mean yeah

 

[Nick.Harte]

only girls i’ve ever loved kinda were the ones that got away.

Same shit dawg

 

[ioimaxxer]

i mean yeah

i’m appeal maxxed to a lot of girls cus i fit a type perfectly

 

[Always Stay You]

The only social media places for average to ugly men are places like this forum or platforms were hooking up doesn't rly exist like Twitter/X or YouTube. To talk to other average dudes or watch videos. Thats all what we do rly

I don't believe that's true. It can not be understated how mentally ill this generation of women are. Many girls, especially TEENS, have no qualms about meeting up and fucking some normie faggot who DMs them, simply because they share mutual followers/followings (social proof). Many girls are very insecure + whores, so when someone from their social circle reaches out on Instagram, they will fuck them. Obviously a no-name like you couldn't do it though, you need to be within her social scene (NT).

 

[Nick.Harte]

some whores exist just to be whores

But they hate sub5s and like to humiliate them

 

[laaltin]

A foid added me, text bombed me and then disappeared

 

[ioimaxxer]

But they hate sub5s and like to humiliate them

and then they keep a sub5 gorlock bitch as their best friend to make themselves look better in comparison these bitches are soulless

 

[Nick.Harte]

and then they keep a sub5 gorlock bitch as their best friend to make themselves look better in comparison these bitches are soulless

Literal animals

 

[NumbThePain]

I don't believe that's true. It can not be understated how mentally ill this generation of women are. Many girls, especially TEENS, have no qualms about meeting up and fucking some normie faggot who DMs them, simply because they share mutual followers/followings (social proof). Many girls are very insecure + whores, so when someone from their social circle reaches out on Instagram, they will fuck them. Obviously a no-name like you couldn't do it though, you need to be within her social scene (NT).

Yeah, thats why NT is law for LTN/MTN's with a relatively big connection

 

[Nick.Harte]

A foid added me, text bombed me and then disappeared

Same shit happened to me and sometimes I don’t respond because I think they might be sitting down with their female friends and choose the guys they wanna toy with

 

[ioimaxxer]

Literal animals

this is why i don’t give respect to these bitches, the ones that chase me.

i kid you not some ho that was on my dick literally sent me a dozen screenshots of all the guys she has rejected and said mean shit to. i was like what the fuck.
but it also was kinda ego boosting cl

 

[Always Stay You]

Yeah, thats why NT is law for LTN/MTN's with a relatively big connection

Yep, very true. Trying to compete as a non-NT normie with no social circle is impossible. You are essentially subhuman. Status is the only thing that can save you. Significant physical ascension is very unlikely, and even then, loner failo will still ruin your chances.

 

[ioimaxxer]

Same shit happened to me and sometimes I don’t respond because I think they might be sitting down with their female friends and choose the guys they wanna toy with

when these butches get with their friends they literally turn into a pack of baboons

 

[Nick.Harte]

sent me a dozen screenshots of all the guys she has rejected and said mean shit to.

Imagine what they could do to you if you happen to have a disagreement with one one day