jfl at r/deadbedrooms

[betrayed by 5‘8]

I'm sitting here on yet another lonely Saturday night thinking ... It's been 9 years since I (42m) and she (36f) did it. The day she found out she was pregnant with our now 8 year old daughter was the last time it happened. Since then I haven't even so much as had a romantic kiss with her.

How did I get here? I was always a romantic ... A freaking huge romantic, affectionate ... Passionate... Women used to like me, think I was funny and attractive and stuff. Now I can't even get a hug. But yet I keep moving along with this ... I'd love to just walk away, but I keep sticking with it. I take care of myself, work out, dress nice, smell good ... All for what?

Sorry for the rant ... Had to let that all out ..

Edit: I just realized it's Friday night

 

[Sprinkles]

9 years?

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

9 years?

probs not his child also

 

[karmacita901]

do white people stay longer in these dead relationships because we are lower t

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

do white people stay longer in these dead relationships because we are lower t

yes

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

this can't be real

Wife and I stopped sleeping in the same room due to her giving up on wanting any for of intimacy. Zero kissing, hugging, or physical contact. We are roommates that have kids together. She has never verbally admitted to any regret over this arrangement. She also feels that I should have no desires of intimacy because “we’re old.”

Recently she invited me to sleep in the same bed again. I questioned why. She said that our kids have recently asked why we stay together when we don’t fit the typical mold of a husband and wife. She’s essentially doing it for show. My expectations were zero and I was just going along to save a fight.

We have different schedules at bedtime due to being in our own rooms. I went to bed slightly earlier because I had to be up for work. As I was just drifting off she came in and got ready for bed. She was completely nude. Not sure where things were going, I slid my underwear off. I was shamefully rock hard at the opportunity. My wife had not been fully nude in front of me in years.

She slid into bed and turned with her ass facing me. This used to be her way of initiating when we used to be intimate. As her rear rubbed against me I turned to meet it. My hard dick was pressed against her. She felt it and almost shot straight out of bed.

She told me to put my shorts back on and face the other way. Confused I asked what this was all about. Not sex was her reply. Remembering how it felt to be rejected in the past I let it all flood back in. I went back to my room.

The next morning she told me that in the years of not sleeping in the same bed she started sleeping nude. The chance of sex was still zero and I would have to make a choice. Learn to sleep with her being nude or go back to our original arrangement and sleep in my room. Not a hard choice for me. She brought up how embarrassing it is to be in separate rooms. I brought up out loud for the first time in a long time, how frustrating it is to have a partner that no longer desires you.

We brought up the D word. This time I think it may be really happening. We’ve agreed to talk more later. Right now I’m struggling with the frustration of so many wasted years being miserable. I guess we’ll see where thi

 

[thedarkoverlord_666]

She is definitely sleeping around

 

[Vermilioncore]

9 years?

which cock would she rather have shoved up her gaped shithole out of these two?

 

[Sprinkles]

which cock would she rather have shoved up her gaped shithole out of these two?

Ghostface can get the shithole

The horse gets the mouth

 

[Vermilioncore]

Ghostface can get the shithole

The horse gets the mouth