Morpheus
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I wanted to make this thread because I wanted to know if anyone else here has had success getting decent to hot girls despite being below average to average. I realize if you're legitimately ugly (which isn't the vast majority of this board btw) this might not apply.
Look, I know at the end of the day looks is the most important thing in determining attraction and resulting sexual/romantic success. And hypergamy is obviously real more specifically for online dating apps and being able to get sex easily irl. No doubt about it, and I'm still going to get bimax/Taban eye area overhaul next year to make my life easier and make my happier. But I've gotten enough girls out of my league so far to see that it's actually not AS impossible as you would think to find exceptions to the black pill. In the last 2 years since my breakup I've had sex/hooked up with girls ranging from my looksmatch to maybe PSL 5.5, and more importantly all 5 girls I've been in a relationship with/been extensively talking to and hooking up with (but with no relationship label) have been at least PSL 5 and I'm around PSL 3.75, 5'9, with a good body. I'm about to graduate from a very good school too and I'm charismatic so I guess those halo me a little bit but at the end of the day I'm still slightly below average in appearance due to my poor eye area and recessed jaws.
The girl I went on a dinner date with this past weekend (from hinge) was a lot hotter in person and I thought it was pretty awkward because she just didn't initiate much convo, and it was quiet at points with me having to carry the conversation most of the time. So I thought for sure she just wasn't attracted to me and we wouldn't talk again. But surprisingly she texted me after the date saying she had a lot of fun and wants to meet up again this week. And later this week I might actually have 2 more dates, one with a super nerdy but really cute girl playing mini golf and one with this girl at her campus apartment who's maybe like 10 pounds away from being really hot but she still has a nice body and her face is decent. We're just hooking up though. I don't want to date her but she'd be a good FWB.
And it's not like I'm really even approaching either. I never cold approach outside of bar/concert situations and even there I only do it if it's a natural interaction. I mainly just use tinder, hinge, and get to know mutual friends. I don't get a shit ton of matches or anything on dating apps but even if I'm getting just a few matches a day between both apps that's a decent number of options in a week and if I can get the number/snap from let's say 3 out of every 10 girls I message, I'm doing alright.
For those of you who have actually legitimately put in effort, what are your experiences with this? I'm curious.
Look, I know at the end of the day looks is the most important thing in determining attraction and resulting sexual/romantic success. And hypergamy is obviously real more specifically for online dating apps and being able to get sex easily irl. No doubt about it, and I'm still going to get bimax/Taban eye area overhaul next year to make my life easier and make my happier. But I've gotten enough girls out of my league so far to see that it's actually not AS impossible as you would think to find exceptions to the black pill. In the last 2 years since my breakup I've had sex/hooked up with girls ranging from my looksmatch to maybe PSL 5.5, and more importantly all 5 girls I've been in a relationship with/been extensively talking to and hooking up with (but with no relationship label) have been at least PSL 5 and I'm around PSL 3.75, 5'9, with a good body. I'm about to graduate from a very good school too and I'm charismatic so I guess those halo me a little bit but at the end of the day I'm still slightly below average in appearance due to my poor eye area and recessed jaws.
The girl I went on a dinner date with this past weekend (from hinge) was a lot hotter in person and I thought it was pretty awkward because she just didn't initiate much convo, and it was quiet at points with me having to carry the conversation most of the time. So I thought for sure she just wasn't attracted to me and we wouldn't talk again. But surprisingly she texted me after the date saying she had a lot of fun and wants to meet up again this week. And later this week I might actually have 2 more dates, one with a super nerdy but really cute girl playing mini golf and one with this girl at her campus apartment who's maybe like 10 pounds away from being really hot but she still has a nice body and her face is decent. We're just hooking up though. I don't want to date her but she'd be a good FWB.
And it's not like I'm really even approaching either. I never cold approach outside of bar/concert situations and even there I only do it if it's a natural interaction. I mainly just use tinder, hinge, and get to know mutual friends. I don't get a shit ton of matches or anything on dating apps but even if I'm getting just a few matches a day between both apps that's a decent number of options in a week and if I can get the number/snap from let's say 3 out of every 10 girls I message, I'm doing alright.
For those of you who have actually legitimately put in effort, what are your experiences with this? I'm curious.
you are one dumb motherfucker ngl
