Just ask her out

[onnysk]

I had the same thing. I would just date anyone who asked me because I thought "well, they want to date you, and you don't want to make them unhappy, so just wait until they stop liking you and leave"

If someone liked me I was obligated to like them back. I has poor boundaries and was a people pleaser. I felt bad if someone liked me and I was really not into them or would ignore red flags. I didnt say no or leave. Working on it.

My parents always told me to say yes to any man who happened to be interested. What I wanted did.not matter. Sure messed me up

I always just indulged anyone who showed signs of liking me and/or someone who "needed" me. My own feelings never played into it.

I had a friend like this. She would just date anyone and everyone who was interested in her, and was never really single. Most of the guys were waaaaaaaaaaaaay below her league. I’m talking, didn’t have a job, didn’t take care of themselves physically, terrible personalities.
In my 20s, I was single, and she asked “ok who are you going to date now? I hear Frank likes you.” I told her Frank already asked me out, and I declined, she was so confused and asked why I said no. I told her it was because I didn’t like Frank that way. I had to explain to her that I wasn’t attracted to every guy. She explained to me that when she dated someone, she usually didn’t feel attraction towards them until well into the relationship, if ever. She dated because that’s “what you’re supposed to do.”

KYS IF YOU DONT APPROACH MENTALLY WEAK WOMEN

 

[currymax]

Honestly, when I was younger I was much more prone to dating a girl simply because she liked me

When I got older I got better at breaking it off