Just Be First (JBF) doesn't always work

[Lonenely sigma]

I have one girl friend, she's been my friend ever since kindergarten

She's kinda cute, around a high-MTB ngl, nothing special but like she's fine enough.

And she's had a bf for like 5 years now, they started dating when they were 14. They were looksmatched, or maybe the guy was a low-MTN, but still.

I know for a fact she has infinite options. She got hit on once while we were eating in McDonalds

So anyway, I met her the other day and she told me:

"...oh and yeah, Marco and I broke up, idk if you knew that..."

-why?

"He was just... not present... and like, he never really cared about me, to be fair"

Btw, I remember when they first started dating, it was extremely random, they never talked before, and she literally told me:

"Oh I mean, I just wanted people to know I have a boyfriend"

She had a huge glow-up since then and she probably figured she doesn't need him anymore and can get HTNs+ instead

Poor oofy-doofy, I feel bad for him.

 

[heathcliff]

He got to bust nuts for 5 years, not too bad overall. It is what it ism

 

[Lonenely sigma]

He got to bust nuts for 5 years, not too bad overall. It is what it ism

Sorry to say this but she's flat, like completely.

Her face is fine but like, yeah... I doubt he got to hit anyway, and I doubt it was worth it. To each his own

 

[recai iskender]

If he manipulated her and treated her like shit she would never stop loving him

 

[Wexilarious]

If he manipulated her and treated her like shit she would never stop loving him

Maybe the problem is that he didn't give a damn

 

[Lonenely sigma]

If he manipulated her and treated her like shit she would never stop loving him

Lmaooo

You mean, if he was 6'4 and chad facially?

Go watch richard cooper boyo

 

[jué]

I have one girl friend, she's been my friend ever since kindergarten

She's kinda cute, around a high-MTB ngl, nothing special but like she's fine enough.

And she's had a bf for like 5 years now, they started dating when they were 14. They were looksmatched, or maybe the guy was a low-MTN, but still.

I know for a fact she has infinite options. She got hit on once while we were eating in McDonalds

So anyway, I met her the other day and she told me:

"...oh and yeah, Marco and I broke up, idk if you knew that..."

-why?

"He was just... not present... and like, he never really cared about me, to be fair"

Btw, I remember when they first started dating, it was extremely random, they never talked before, and she literally told me:

"Oh I mean, I just wanted people to know I have a boyfriend"

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She had a huge glow-up since then and she probably figured she doesn't need him anymore and can get HTNs+ instead

Poor oofy-doofy, I feel bad for him.

Friendzone:

 

[recai iskender]

Lmaooo

You mean, if he was 6'4 and chad facially?

Go watch richard cooper boyo

No just remember me when she tells u she starts missing him in a couple months

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Friendzone:

You mean, me and her?

Before meeting her in a bus a few days ago, I haven't seen her IN YEARS. I talk with nobody these days, let alone women.

I am not simping for anyone

 

[Lonenely sigma]

No just remember me when she tells u she starts missing him in a couple months

She is gonna regret him going MGTOW BROOO!!!! MARK MY WORDS!!!

ALSO, THE WEST IS GONNA COLLAPSE SOONNNN BROOOOO!!! PATRIARCHY IS BACK ON THE MENU BOYS!

 

[DieVoGel6949]

I have one girl friend, she's been my friend ever since kindergarten

She's kinda cute, around a high-MTB ngl, nothing special but like she's fine enough.

And she's had a bf for like 5 years now, they started dating when they were 14. They were looksmatched, or maybe the guy was a low-MTN, but still.

I know for a fact she has infinite options. She got hit on once while we were eating in McDonalds

So anyway, I met her the other day and she told me:

"...oh and yeah, Marco and I broke up, idk if you knew that..."

-why?

"He was just... not present... and like, he never really cared about me, to be fair"

Btw, I remember when they first started dating, it was extremely random, they never talked before, and she literally told me:

"Oh I mean, I just wanted people to know I have a boyfriend"

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She had a huge glow-up since then and she probably figured she doesn't need him anymore and can get HTNs+ instead

Poor oofy-doofy, I feel bad for him.

getting to hit for 5 years is pretty great tho unlike not getting to hit at all

 

[heathcliff]

Sorry to say this but she's flat, like completely.

Her face is fine but like, yeah... I doubt he got to hit anyway, and I doubt it was worth it. To each his own

You said she's decent facially so I assume head would be pleasurable. Either way it's not so bad. Guy might even get blackpilled or driven to better himself now that he will see that she's upgraded so to speak.

 

[recai iskender]

She is gonna regret him going MGTOW BROOO!!!! MARK MY WORDS!!!

ALSO, THE WEST IS GONNA COLLAPSE SOONNNN BROOOOO!!! PATRIARCHY IS BACK ON THE MENU BOYS!

Okay lonenely sigma

 

[Lonenely sigma]

getting to hit for 5 years is pretty great tho unlike not getting to hit at all

A fair point but I doubt he got to hit anyway. Her mom is like ultra strict and they live in a commie block together

You said she's decent facially so I assume head would be pleasurable. Either way it's not so bad. Guy might even get blackpilled or driven to better himself now that he will see that she's upgraded so to speak.

Yeah, alr idk why we are talking about this but he may have gotten a head

A weird convo ngl. But yeah I suppose it'd be worth it?

To me personally, idk. I'd be too insecure if a chick left me, it'd break my ego

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Okay lonenely sigma

My username is sarcastic boyo

Either way, go cope with women caring about you guys "leaving the market", while in reality they are thankful you guy got the hint and left them alone

 

[recai iskender]

My username is sarcastic boyo

Either way, go cope with women caring about you guys "leaving the market", while in reality they are thankful you guy got the hint and left them alone

Nigger im not talking about him doing mgtow or that cringe shit im talking about how women never get over their first love

 

[heathcliff]

A fair point but I doubt he got to hit anyway. Her mom is like ultra strict and they live in a commie block together

Yeah, alr idk why we are talking about this but he may have gotten a head

A weird convo ngl. But yeah I suppose it'd be worth it?

To me personally, idk. I'd be too insecure if a chick left me, it'd break my ego

Yeah it's humbling but sometimes it's good to get humbled, gives you perspective.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Nigger im not talking about him doing mgtow or that cringe shit im talking about how women never get over their first love

Sure, but my point is, he wasn't her real first love. She just got with him bc she thought it was cringe not to have a bf at 14 (lmao)

She wouldn't dump her first love. Its all about the looks, so please don't start any of that "if he treated her with respect" stuff

 

[heathcliff]

Sure, but my point is, he wasn't her real first love. She just got with him bc she thought it was cringe not to have a bf at 14 (lmao)

She wouldn't dump her first love. Its all about the looks, so please don't start any of that "if he treated her with respect" stuff

People here in general overrate teenage relationships. They never last and they're nothing special, it's just they missed out and think it's something special.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

People here in general overrate teenage relationships. They never last and they're nothing special, it's just they missed out and think it's something special.

I mean, if you get into a relationship by begging a woman, then sure...

But getting chased by girls in your teens, like, ACTUALLY BEING CHASED bc you are hot and being chased by hot girls, is very important

It'd feed your ego and let you grow emotionally. How can you grow emotionally if you were an outcasted untermensch who nobody wanted to touch with a 10 foot pole?

 

[recai iskender]

People here in general overrate teenage relationships. They never last and they're nothing special, it's just they missed out and think it's something special.

I didnt miss out on it but I experienced a bad thing about it

The first girl i dated tried to kill herself over her first love (he cheated on her 5 times)

And even when i mog the fuck out of her ex in every single subject, she started to miss him and one of the reasons was because i actually loved and cared about her

 

[CookieGuy]

Lmaooo

You mean, if he was 6'4 and chad facially?

Go watch richard cooper boyo

as a sub chad. It had the opposite effect

 

[Toth's thot]

and yet you're the one making posts about it on .org not him

 

[PARISIEN]

it doesnt work ? so he her during years tho

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

If he manipulated her and treated her like shit she would never stop loving him

 

[Darkeningstar]

But getting chased by girls in your teens, like, ACTUALLY BEING CHASED bc you are hot and being chased by hot girls, is very important

I'm still mentally subhuman, true if neurotypical btw

 

[Darkeningstar]

I didnt miss out on it but I experienced a bad thing about it

The first girl i dated tried to kill herself over her first love (he cheated on her 5 times)

And even when i mog the fuck out of her ex in every single subject, she started to miss him and one of the reasons was because i actually loved and cared about her

This is way more brutal

 

[nonntfreak]

I would argue that the fact their relationship lasted 5 years means just be first worked.

When the foid isn't in love most teenage relationships only last some months - 1year max.

But either way just be first is never permanent, even the couples that are together since teenage years are only together due to comfortability, the strong feelings always fade with time even if the couple stays together.