"Just Go To A Prostitute" Is Stupid Advice

[PlayersGetPlayed]

These are the same people who tell you that it should be a right to be loved, a right that everyone deserves, and that sex is an act that is meant to be savoured.

I'm not going to waste my first time going to a woman who neither cares about me nor is going to give me the satisfaction of actually feeling cared for.

People who make this argument are kind of making a Freudian slip (if that's the correct term), because it subconsciously shows the listener that they only care for sex as an expliticely sexual act, and not for the emotions behind it.

Like I get that if you were really desperate you'd resort to this but it's never ideal and absolutely isn't preferred over getting a real girlfriend.

 

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[TitusA]

These are the same people who tell you that it should be a right to be loved, a right that everyone deserves, and that sex is an act that is meant to be savoured.

I'm not going to waste my first time going to a woman who neither cares about me nor is going to give me the satisfaction of actually feeling cared for.

People who make this argument are kind of making a Freudian slip (if that's the correct term), because it subconsciously shows the listener that they only care for sex as an expliticely sexual act, and not for the emotions behind it.

Like I get that if you were really desperate you'd resort to this but it's never ideal and absolutely isn't preferred over getting a real girlfriend.

Ur post honestly makes no sense

 

[TheLookInYourEyes]

i fucked a hooker

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

i fucked a hooker

I mean I'm not judging you ofcourse if that is what you really wanted

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

Ur post honestly makes no sense

Try reading it again

 

[TheLookInYourEyes]

I mean I'm not judging you ofcourse if that is what you really wanted

I need it for sanity. A good looking womans touch is unfucking real for what it does to your mind. After fucking a nice looking slut, I get on a high for at least a few days barring any major emotional breakdowns

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

I need it for sanity. A good looking womans touch is unfucking real for what it does to your mind. After fucking a nice looking slut, I get on a high for at least a few days barring any major emotional breakdowns

I don't think that's the best way to cope in the long-term but I guess it's better than feeling bad about lack of touch then.

 

[TheLookInYourEyes]

I don't think that's the best way to cope in the long-term but I guess it's better than feeling bad about lack of touch then.

I am a 25 year old Truecel who has never received a free smile from a woman
I need this, son.

 

[TitusA]

These are the same people who tell you that it should be a right to be loved, a right that everyone deserves, and that sex is an act that is meant to be savoured.

I'm not going to waste my first time going to a woman who neither cares about me nor is going to give me the satisfaction of actually feeling cared for.

People who make this argument are kind of making a Freudian slip (if that's the correct term), because it subconsciously shows the listener that they only care for sex as an expliticely sexual act, and not for the emotions behind it.

Like I get that if you were really desperate you'd resort to this but it's never ideal and absolutely isn't preferred over getting a real girlfriend.

I dont think anybody recommending seeing an escort to lose your virginity is saying sex should be savoured. Theyre saying the opposite. You need to get it out of the way as quick as possible if your a man and get as much experience as possible if your a man. Obv its not ideal but its better thn the alternative of somebody being a virgin in their mid 20s plus. Also people pay escorts to make them feel cared for its called gfa or gfe or smthing. Id just say if somebody has to lose their virginity to an escort go to one with gd reviews and pay properly not the cheapest one u cn find.

 

[PlayersGetPlayed]

I dont think anybody recommending seeing an escort to lose your virginity is saying sex should be savoured. Theyre saying the opposite. You need to get it out of the way as quick as possible if your a man and get as much experience as possible if your a man. Obv its not ideal but its better thn the alternative of somebody being a virgin in their mid 20s plus. Also people pay escorts to make them feel cared for its called gfa or gfe or smthing. Id just say if somebody has to lose their virginity to an escort go to one with gd reviews and pay properly not the cheapest one u cn find.

I get what you're trying to say, but I was referring to mostly women's criticism on incels. There are a lot of women and even men who give incels the advice of "just getting a prostitute". I thought that was stupid, because there are a lot of incels who want their first to be as special as everyone else.

 

[TitusA]

I get what you're trying to say, but I was referring to mostly women's criticism on incels. There are a lot of women and even men who give incels the advice of "just getting a prostitute". I thought that was stupid, because there are a lot of incels who want their first to be as special as everyone else.

I suppose they think at a certain age (and I its bothering somebody so much) its more important to just get it over with thts why the views can seem contradictory.

 

[PARISIEN]

Going to a prostitute or no will change nothing to your life tbh

 

[illusivespirits]

I would never take the act to do it with a prostitute

First it will be seen right away from her that you are someone who gets no girls at all. Maybe she won't give too much of a fuck but that will still mentally affect you now or later on

Second I don't understand how there are people who go in sober and not find it awkward at all. Both knowing it's all fake and just transactional. Small talk that she doesn't give the slightest fuck about but still has to play along

Third is that it will stuck with you forever. I feel like subconsciously you will compare how other people got sex and you will feel shameful.