Just some thoughts about what I think attracts women to men

[Yliaster]

Its about having that "I'm not phased, I don't care attitude" indifferent vibe , that's what the "alpha/bad boy got" when you come off as needy in the girl's instinct she almost gets like a spidey sense of "ewwww gtfoh". Chances are if yall fuck buddies or fwb or just a hookup you got that goin' for you and shes crazy about you that's why she tryna lock it down. Problem is that 90% guys when they get in an LTR they come from a mindset of "finally I won her over, I can stop acting all this and that" then wonder why after the honeymoon phase she leaves , they start to be complacent and ultimately try to cater and please her. IMO if you get into an LTR do it because it benefits you're life in some way , after you got your shit together and you truly come from an abundant mindset where you no longer "try to keep her" . Relationship status or people in general should not affect your vibe/energy as a man.

 

[Yliaster]

bump

 

[Rabbi]

Brushing your fingers through thick NW0 hair is the universal sign of Homo Sapiens mating call

 

[coping ethnic]

this is the golden rule of all kinds of relationships when it comes to making, maintaining friendships
Its goes both ways, when she gets needy and too dependant on u
I saw many times relationships that starts off good but fall apart bc gf loved him too much, unironically their bf lost respect and dumped/cheated.

 

[Gonthar]

Its about having that "I'm not phased, I don't care attitude" indifferent vibe , that's what the "alpha/bad boy got" when you come off as needy in the girl's instinct she almost gets like a spidey sense of "ewwww gtfoh".

I had absolutely no interest in girls when I was in high-school - I spent those years reading, studying, learning about science, philosophy, religion, history, etc.; I wanted to accomplish great things with my life and not to waste my time with frivolous stuff - my attitude toward girls still didn't make any difference, I was invisible to them, they already had plenty of clowns chasing them, calling them, begging them, inviting them to dates, parties, events, etc., why would they waste time with someone who ignores them???
I don't think I ever saw a girl actively chasing a guy, no matter who he was, if they liked him they might try to get him interested once or twice, but if he was uninterested they would just move on, they always had tons of plenty of other options and choices.

 

[Deleted member 11097]

Just imagine thinking that the reason she doesn’t go for you is your attitude JFL

 

[Yliaster]

Just imagine thinking that the reason she doesn’t go for you is your attitude JFL

sometimes it actually is your attitude that turns a girl off,everything matters now,not just muh looks

 

[karbo]

shit thread try being a bad boy when you have puppy eyes and your jaw melts into your neck

 

[TheChosenChad]

Looks is a big part. But mindset is very overlooked on here tbh.

Brushing your fingers through thick NW0 hair is the universal sign of Homo Sapiens mating call

Ritalin tier tbh

 

[Yliaster]

shit thread try being a bad boy when you have puppy eyes and your jaw melts into your neck

Thats obviously hyperbole,please be realistic,we all know that looks matter to a very large extent,but many of you
on this forum have a habit of pedestalizing it to the exclusion of everything else,including basic social skills
Looks will get you accepted into stage 1 but then you need a non creepy NT vibe to stay in the Game

 

[Pumanator]

You need to be good looking enough to reach a threshold of attractiveness. The higher attractiveness the better. When your looks is below is certein threshold you wont have alot of attraction, but it can be possible rarely.
And be a fun person to be with. Not depressing with a fun side and a deeper more serious side. Have alot of social intelligence that you can diss people easily when they disrespect you.
Have some social status that people respect you and dont bully you. A fun lifestyle and same intrest/ hobbies as the female. Blue pill out.