
pandamonium
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1. Double texting isnt that bad
Double texting isnt that bad sometimes people dont actually see your messages or their busy. But only do it every so often, if you need to double text just to get a response its over
2. Know when to give up
Being overly persistent not only wastes your time but makes you look desperate as fuck. You need to be able to pick up when persistence will work and when ur just being desperate
If you have to literally carry every single convo and say hello and initiate everything. She has absolutely 0 attraction to you and might just be talking to you to be nice/to eliminate boredom
3. How she treats you irl isnt how she treats you over the phone
For every like 10 phone numbers you get, probably only like 2-3 will actually be interested. the rest will respond either to be nice and eventually fully ghost you or wont respond at all
4. You arent the only one
The problem with trying to date when your ugly is that if you pulled her too easily then someone else can pull her even easier. If you have no looks or money and dont at very least have extremely good social skills (which you definitely dont have) then she is obviously going to cheat anyways. If your just looking to fuck though then go ahead
5. Text with a purpose
Long distance relationships will never work because theres no actual end goal of each text. If your just texting all day not only is it a huge waste of time but youll eventually both get bored and it will be dry. Text mainly with the goal to link up or go on a date
6. Less is more
You dint have to be tryna aurafarm or whatever by one word replies but oversharinf and ryping all day is just going to run out of things to talk about when you first link also it will make her lose interest as part of interest has to do with the mystery of someone (its a real concept google it)
7. Dont make your intentions clear
Women say they want someone who does this but frkm my experience it’s counterproductive. When you make it clear you wanna date them they will typically go into play hard to get mode and also the time to get in a relationship takes way longer. It also seems more forced and organized rather than just natural. Relationships are supposed to feel natural.
Tbh your intentions shouldnt even be dating her wnyways it should really just be fucking her. If ur a celibatecel just make out with her and treat her like a gf but dont ask her to be ur gf. She will pull the “what are we” and will drive her crazy
Also if ur just tryna fuck obviously dont say that unless ur chad jfl
8. Respond fast
Responding slow doesnt increase your aura or make her like you more. Sure chad responds slower but thats not by choice. Also she likes chad more if he responds fast than slow. On top of that your not chad so you cant do the same things
Theres actually nothing good that will come of responding slow. Thats actuslly how my last relationship ended i took like 3 days to respond jfl and i did one word replies
9. You dont need to try so hard
Just get this concept in your head. Stop trying so hard to keep the convo going. Im not saying you shouldnt put in effort. Ovviously you need to do that if shes not already obsessed with you, but what im saying is if it gets to the point where ur tripple texting, thinking of all the topics, esrablishing every linkup, etc then it will go nowhere in the long run
Chances are if ur ever googling what to say or overthinking it then ur trying too hard. Thats actuslly bitch looks at hr text for 2 sexonds and says whatever comes to her mind
If the convo dies you can always just text her when u wanna hangout or just later on.
10. Caling is better than texting
Calling makes you more personal than the millions of guys on her phone. Of course ur not the only one shes calling dont get shit twisted but it will atleast put you ahead of the game
11. Remember the mere exposure effect
Simply being exposed to her irl will make her like you its a real concept in psychology so you need to prioritize face to face interaction
Inb4 the “just be chad” retards.
No fucking shit you dont need this guide if your chad if you were chad you wouldnt even be on this forum this guide is for the general public so they can maximize the ammount of women they get
Double texting isnt that bad sometimes people dont actually see your messages or their busy. But only do it every so often, if you need to double text just to get a response its over
2. Know when to give up
Being overly persistent not only wastes your time but makes you look desperate as fuck. You need to be able to pick up when persistence will work and when ur just being desperate
If you have to literally carry every single convo and say hello and initiate everything. She has absolutely 0 attraction to you and might just be talking to you to be nice/to eliminate boredom
3. How she treats you irl isnt how she treats you over the phone
For every like 10 phone numbers you get, probably only like 2-3 will actually be interested. the rest will respond either to be nice and eventually fully ghost you or wont respond at all
4. You arent the only one
The problem with trying to date when your ugly is that if you pulled her too easily then someone else can pull her even easier. If you have no looks or money and dont at very least have extremely good social skills (which you definitely dont have) then she is obviously going to cheat anyways. If your just looking to fuck though then go ahead
5. Text with a purpose
Long distance relationships will never work because theres no actual end goal of each text. If your just texting all day not only is it a huge waste of time but youll eventually both get bored and it will be dry. Text mainly with the goal to link up or go on a date
6. Less is more
You dint have to be tryna aurafarm or whatever by one word replies but oversharinf and ryping all day is just going to run out of things to talk about when you first link also it will make her lose interest as part of interest has to do with the mystery of someone (its a real concept google it)
7. Dont make your intentions clear
Women say they want someone who does this but frkm my experience it’s counterproductive. When you make it clear you wanna date them they will typically go into play hard to get mode and also the time to get in a relationship takes way longer. It also seems more forced and organized rather than just natural. Relationships are supposed to feel natural.
Tbh your intentions shouldnt even be dating her wnyways it should really just be fucking her. If ur a celibatecel just make out with her and treat her like a gf but dont ask her to be ur gf. She will pull the “what are we” and will drive her crazy
Also if ur just tryna fuck obviously dont say that unless ur chad jfl
8. Respond fast
Responding slow doesnt increase your aura or make her like you more. Sure chad responds slower but thats not by choice. Also she likes chad more if he responds fast than slow. On top of that your not chad so you cant do the same things
Theres actually nothing good that will come of responding slow. Thats actuslly how my last relationship ended i took like 3 days to respond jfl and i did one word replies
9. You dont need to try so hard
Just get this concept in your head. Stop trying so hard to keep the convo going. Im not saying you shouldnt put in effort. Ovviously you need to do that if shes not already obsessed with you, but what im saying is if it gets to the point where ur tripple texting, thinking of all the topics, esrablishing every linkup, etc then it will go nowhere in the long run
Chances are if ur ever googling what to say or overthinking it then ur trying too hard. Thats actuslly bitch looks at hr text for 2 sexonds and says whatever comes to her mind
If the convo dies you can always just text her when u wanna hangout or just later on.
10. Caling is better than texting
Calling makes you more personal than the millions of guys on her phone. Of course ur not the only one shes calling dont get shit twisted but it will atleast put you ahead of the game
11. Remember the mere exposure effect
Simply being exposed to her irl will make her like you its a real concept in psychology so you need to prioritize face to face interaction
Inb4 the “just be chad” retards.
No fucking shit you dont need this guide if your chad if you were chad you wouldnt even be on this forum this guide is for the general public so they can maximize the ammount of women they get
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