Left on delivered by girls consistently after them hitting on me in person. (How to fix)

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So, idk wtf it is but I find that h mtn girls will hit on me in person and are very open and touchy with me but the second I msg them once they give me there ig they leave me on delivered. Even if she seems super into me and our personalities seems super similar they still leave me on delivered 😭. This is like the second time this has happened to me (with a high value girl) idk wtf I’m doing wrong. Not sure if there just using me for attention or something but they never block me they just watch my stories and fucking ignore my texts. I refuse to open there stories as to not give them attention.

Bit of context I used to get no female attention but this year it’s been going really well as I’ve had a massive ascension but yes I am still working on my texting game my little Chad friend is helping me get better. He’s got like A40 blue eyes and black hair but he is actually teaching me how to chat up chicks online (or what works for him jfl the idea is to just text them like u want to use them 💀). I really struggle even with girls that I made out with to then msg them the next day and so it’s just easier to say nothing. Does any one have any tips or ideas or anything because it’s really fucking with my head. Especially with the high value girls not the sluts in clubs ect. Like I actually have never met up with the same chick twice (but once or twice we said we would meet up but life happened) 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. Kinda brutal
 
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Ain’t reading all that dog shit buddy. It’s simple, you lose and will have to fuck your hand until you’re 90. Sayonara 🫡🫡
 
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high value girls

Monday Night Raw Lol GIF by WWE
 
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So, idk wtf it is but I find that h mtn girls will hit on me in person and are very open and touchy with me but the second I msg them once they give me there ig they leave me on delivered. Even if she seems super into me and our personalities seems super similar they still leave me on delivered 😭. This is like the second time this has happened to me (with a high value girl) idk wtf I’m doing wrong. Not sure if there just using me for attention or something but they never block me they just watch my stories and fucking ignore my texts. I refuse to open there stories as to not give them attention.

Bit of context I used to get no female attention but this year it’s been going really well as I’ve had a massive ascension but yes I am still working on my texting game my little Chad friend is helping me get better. He’s got like A40 blue eyes and black hair but he is actually teaching me how to chat up chicks online (or what works for him jfl the idea is to just text them like u want to use them 💀). I really struggle even with girls that I made out with to then msg them the next day and so it’s just easier to say nothing. Does any one have any tips or ideas or anything because it’s really fucking with my head. Especially with the high value girls not the sluts in clubs ect. Like I actually have never met up with the same chick twice (but once or twice we said we would meet up but life happened) 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. Kinda brutal
Are you sure they're hitting on you in real life?😂
 
Are you sure they're hitting on you in real life?😂
Why would the give me there ig and touch me and get really close? But your right it could all be in my head
 
Why would the give me there ig and touch me and get really close? But your right it could all be in my head
If they are giving you their socials without you asking than maybe you are right but unless your messaging them like an absloute retard i dont see why they would ignore you, it doesn't make sense. Something is wrong.
 
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Why would the give me there ig and touch me and get really close? But your right it could all be in my head
THey either were touchy and got close to you or they didn't, tf you mean it could be in your head :lul:
 
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THey either were touchy and got close to you or they didn't, tf you mean it could be in your head :lul:
I mean like mby I remembered it wrong or it could have been accidental ect. The human brain is full of biases and can interpret things wrong
 
read only title, she is busy lil bro
 
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If they are giving you their socials without you asking than maybe you are right but unless your messaging them like an absloute retard i dont see why they would ignore you, it doesn't make sense. Something is wrong.
Nvm she replied just left me on delivered for like 1.5 days 💀 but sent four msgs just then might have overreacted a bit
 
So, idk wtf it is but I find that h mtn girls will hit on me in person and are very open and touchy with me but the second I msg them once they give me there ig they leave me on delivered. Even if she seems super into me and our personalities seems super similar they still leave me on delivered 😭. This is like the second time this has happened to me (with a high value girl) idk wtf I’m doing wrong. Not sure if there just using me for attention or something but they never block me they just watch my stories and fucking ignore my texts. I refuse to open there stories as to not give them attention.

Bit of context I used to get no female attention but this year it’s been going really well as I’ve had a massive ascension but yes I am still working on my texting game my little Chad friend is helping me get better. He’s got like A40 blue eyes and black hair but he is actually teaching me how to chat up chicks online (or what works for him jfl the idea is to just text them like u want to use them 💀). I really struggle even with girls that I made out with to then msg them the next day and so it’s just easier to say nothing. Does any one have any tips or ideas or anything because it’s really fucking with my head. Especially with the high value girls not the sluts in clubs ect. Like I actually have never met up with the same chick twice (but once or twice we said we would meet up but life happened) 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. Kinda brutal
Dont over think things, everyone has their reasons for doing things you dont understand :/ Sometimes they are avoidant and dont know what to respond with and dont want to ruin things, sometimes they loss interest there is NOTHING you can do but hold frame ;3
 
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Dont over think things, everyone has their reasons for doing things you dont understand :/ Sometimes they are avoidant and dont know what to respond with and dont want to ruin things, sometimes they loss interest there is NOTHING you can do but hold frame ;3
from my experience there are things to do to gain back interest instead of giving up even if theyre extreme or not always work. thing is they might work
 
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It’s pretty simple man, sometimes even girls that approach you flake. They might have a bf, talking to another etc.

Get this red pill bs outta ur head “muh texting game.” I’ve texted hundreds of girls, the best method is being direct.
You want nudes? Sexualise convo asap
You want to fuck/date? Organise meetup asap
 
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from my experience there are things to do to gain back interest instead of giving up even if theyre extreme or not always work. thing is they might work
ok explain the methods
 
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ok explain the methods
what ive done is uncontrollably persist (not as a tactic, i couldnt stop). show a lot of interest and sometimes what happens is they click with something you said and you gain a small opportunity. but yeah just persistence with luck, the way/style depends on the person and in most cases it wont work. cant go in my details as theyre generally described by persistence. but some cases definitely turn if you persist a lot. dont know if thats helpful, its kind of hard to find the point where u should absolutely stop sometimes, because with a bit more persistence things could turn and you really want this person. ive seen it
 
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So, idk wtf it is but I find that h mtn girls will hit on me in person and are very open and touchy with me but the second I msg them once they give me there ig they leave me on delivered. Even if she seems super into me and our personalities seems super similar they still leave me on delivered 😭. This is like the second time this has happened to me (with a high value girl) idk wtf I’m doing wrong. Not sure if there just using me for attention or something but they never block me they just watch my stories and fucking ignore my texts. I refuse to open there stories as to not give them attention.

Bit of context I used to get no female attention but this year it’s been going really well as I’ve had a massive ascension but yes I am still working on my texting game my little Chad friend is helping me get better. He’s got like A40 blue eyes and black hair but he is actually teaching me how to chat up chicks online (or what works for him jfl the idea is to just text them like u want to use them 💀). I really struggle even with girls that I made out with to then msg them the next day and so it’s just easier to say nothing. Does any one have any tips or ideas or anything because it’s really fucking with my head. Especially with the high value girls not the sluts in clubs ect. Like I actually have never met up with the same chick twice (but once or twice we said we would meet up but life happened) 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭. Kinda brutal
if they ignore you then sadly i just think they're feeling amused or something they flirt then dump you to fuel their egos i think
 
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ok explain the methods
regarding women, some can definitely get turned on (implied theyre not so much before) when they receive a vibe that you would legitimately do anything to fuck/get them. this is why i feel uneasy giving up with the first few IODs, because while its not the good sign ive experienced so many instances where they suddenly turned after persistence. more than if i show disinterest too, why because 500 other men wait in line to get them they dont care

some can switch if you abandon them in a way so it depends. my argument isnt persistence is the best but that it works sometimes
 
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