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pajeet03
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relationships are men trying to act like the lesbian woman and it never works
in straight couples the guy ends up doing all the girlfriend stuff. he listens to her feelings all the time. remembers tiny details about her life. checks in on her mood. gives constant comfort and reassurance. handles most of the planning for dates birthdays chores. stays emotionally open when she wants it but tough when she needs protection. makes sure she finishes first because he knows most women dont with men. proves hes safe and different from other guys every day.
thats the exact role women play for each other in lesbian relationships. its natural there. both do it back and forth. no one begs for it or performs or worries it will kill attraction.
but the straight guy does all that girlfriend labor for a woman who usually gives way less back. she wants him to be her emotional best friend plus provider plus exciting sex plus fixer plus therapist. meanwhile she saves the easy real connection for her female friends or maybe a side thing. hes trying so hard to be the woman she actually wants to love but he cant because hes a man with different wiring and no shared female experience.
lesbian couples just do it symmetrically. both handle emotions. both care about the others pleasure. no forced roles where one always leads or pays. attraction doesnt fade from one person slacking. kids come from buying sperm when they want. no permanent male roommate needed.
the guy in straight dating is cosplaying as the perfect lesbian partner but failing because he isnt one. thats why its exhausting. hes not built for it. the whole setup expects him to try anyway.
lesbian relationships are the true relationships in modern society.
men only impregnate. everything else is them failing at being the woman she wants.
in straight couples the guy ends up doing all the girlfriend stuff. he listens to her feelings all the time. remembers tiny details about her life. checks in on her mood. gives constant comfort and reassurance. handles most of the planning for dates birthdays chores. stays emotionally open when she wants it but tough when she needs protection. makes sure she finishes first because he knows most women dont with men. proves hes safe and different from other guys every day.
thats the exact role women play for each other in lesbian relationships. its natural there. both do it back and forth. no one begs for it or performs or worries it will kill attraction.
but the straight guy does all that girlfriend labor for a woman who usually gives way less back. she wants him to be her emotional best friend plus provider plus exciting sex plus fixer plus therapist. meanwhile she saves the easy real connection for her female friends or maybe a side thing. hes trying so hard to be the woman she actually wants to love but he cant because hes a man with different wiring and no shared female experience.
lesbian couples just do it symmetrically. both handle emotions. both care about the others pleasure. no forced roles where one always leads or pays. attraction doesnt fade from one person slacking. kids come from buying sperm when they want. no permanent male roommate needed.
the guy in straight dating is cosplaying as the perfect lesbian partner but failing because he isnt one. thats why its exhausting. hes not built for it. the whole setup expects him to try anyway.
lesbian relationships are the true relationships in modern society.
men only impregnate. everything else is them failing at being the woman she wants.
