Let's have an honest discussion. Why is it so hard to get a gf these days?

[Deleted member 2527]

I know even high value decent looking men having issues

I have noticed ratios in clubs are abysmal these days and only getting worse every year.

I can get ONS every now and then but girls do not seem interested in dating and tbh my friends seem to be experiencing the same thing

what's going on?

Is 80/20 rule actually legit and a small group of men dating all the women?

Are women just getting all the validation they need from social media so they dont need to meet guys IRL?


Are men and women all just FAs these days addicted to technology and not meeting real people?


WTF is actually happening


Post your theories
My honest answer would be yeah, tinder social media and ONS culture has allowed both men and women to cycle through new partners faster in the last 10 years than any other time in our 300,000 year existence as a species.

Our minds are not used to this and as a result both men and women have become jaded - It seems like no one is really putting in any effort these days and as soon as someone sees a flaw with a potential new partner they immediately just drop them and move onto the next one.

Porn has done to men's dopamine receptors what social media has done to women's. Both genders are fucked.

Men and women both do this. Incels are shooting for women out of their league and 6/10 women are trying to get chad. Even ill admit my standards are hella higher than they were 10 years ago it's because of this.

 

[wolfgaiden]

As time progresses, there is less need for women to be with a man in a long term relationship sort of deal. These days women are able to get jobs way more easily than men, and are paid more then men after university, until they get impregnated and then take time off work and expect to get paid the same as the male coworkers. The state is replacing men, as their financial support needs, the need for men in their lives is diminishing to just sexual satisfaction and emotional validation. Social media and dating apps now provides them with constant validation, the only desire they need met is sexual satisfaction. Now the only men that they will choose to satisfy their sexual satisfaction are the top 20% men in society. The rest of the men, are pretty much fked at this point, left to be a backup, as an emotional tampon, when she's having a really bad day. Some countries in which men are still appreciated, include asian countries, pretty much where ever feminism isn't taking over.

 

[Petsmart]

How it should be

Subhuman Female + Subhuman Male

Normie Female + Normie Male

Stacy + Chad

How it is

Subhuman male + no one

Subhuman female + Normie Male

Normie Female + Chad

Stacy + Chad

 

[Deleted member 2527]

As time progresses, there is less need for women to be with a man in a long term relationship sort of deal. These days women are able to get jobs way more easily than men, and are paid more then men after university, until they get impregnated and then take time off work and expect to get paid the same as the male coworkers. The state is replacing men, as their financial support needs, the need for men in their lives is diminishing to just sexual satisfaction and emotional validation. Social media and dating apps now provides them with constant validation, the only desire they need met is sexual satisfaction. Now the only men that they will choose to satisfy their sexual satisfaction are the top 20% men in society. The rest of the men, are pretty much fked at this point, left to be a backup, as an emotional tampon, when she's having a really bad day. Some countries in which men are still appreciated, include asian countries, pretty much where ever feminism isn't taking over.

surely women would prefer some kind of relationship as opposed to just having ONS all the time though?

Why dont women want relationships these days? Even if they dont need money surely its nice to be with someone

How it should be

Subhuman Female + Subhuman Male

Normie Female + Normie Male

Stacy + Chad

How it is

Subhuman male + no one

Subhuman female + Normie Male

Normie Female + Chad

Stacy + Chad

I know normies and chadlites that are FA besides picking up some drunk club sloot every few weeks.

 

[Peachy]

I guess social media does the job of fulfilling people's social and belonging needs. It certainly doesn't do the job for me, but I don't really know how normies feel about it.

 

[rockndogs]

Jesus christ not a single letter

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Jesus christ not a single letter

didnt even read your profile photo

 

[rockndogs]

didnt even read your profile photo

profiles me

 

[Deleted member 2119]

80/20 rule was in effect the last 2 decades or so, with the 2nd wave of feminism with females feeling they need to have careers and taking the majority in universities...

Shit's worse now, a lot worse. 100% of cunts are constantly on their phones. If you don't meet their sky high standards in looks, you have no chance at all.

 

[Deleted member 2527]

80/20 rule was in effect the last 2 decades or so, with the 2nd wave of feminism with females feeling they need to have careers and taking the majority in universities...

Shit's worse now, a lot worse.

so you really believe there are guys dating 5 women at a time and this happens often

 

[Deleted member 2119]

so you really believe there are guys dating 5 women at a time and this happens often

I know that Chad has a steady rotation of whores that will fuck him for status, and sub-6 guys are fighting for scraps as betabux.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

You’re not willing to accept your looksmatch yet

 

[BrettyBoy]

Feminism destroyed society.

 

[StoicNihilist]

The movement of women into the workforce and the resulting sexual revolution.

Women no longer need a man to provide them with thier necessities. So naturally, they stopped pairing with sub 7/10 men, leading to hypergamy.

 

[Adrenochrome]

I said it before and I'll say it again...

This is a direct result of the cultural Marxist social experiment of feminism which contributed to the decimation of pair-bonding.

Let's just face the facts, Western women generally are damaged goods. They're no go's. They generally have daddy issues, they're narcissistic, have delusions of grandeur, and they barely have any valuable skills.

Let the western women die as lonely cat lady spinsters; still single, childless and buying kitty litter in bulk.

A used up, overly ripened, rotten piece of flesh from her 20's, that has spun around the carousel enough times to hear the squeaking sound of her legs when opening: to a washed up soul from her careerist 30's with dead eggs.

There is no solution without a patriarchy. Sure you can convince an older woman her choices were mistakes ("muh freedom" i.e. slept around with 60+ guys and now going to die alone without children). But try and convince any young female that Feminism is going to destroy her life, and nope they simply will not hear it.

Why? Because women are biologically incapable of logic and reason on their own. Like children, the only way they can learn it before causing permanent damage to themselves is by being subject to a man. The only other way for them to learn is by suffering excruciating pain from the long term consequences of following their illogical emotional whims.

Brothers... listen... you don't want these women from this toxic culture... do you really think they're going to be good girlfriends or make good wives, or more importantly; good mother's of your offspring? (if you so choose the route of marriage which is a delicate dance in this age).

There are other options out there for good women, seek them.

 

[buflek]

its not that hard jfl im in a relationship since 3 years with a looksmatched girl while i looked like shit back then (bad haircut, not much muscle, glasses etc) and that in germany, a Country where cold approaching is considered very hard cuz the bitches are arrogant and defensive


and no im no chad...i was max 5.5 psl back then

 

[Pietrosiek]

It's easy to be emotional tampon, but it's hard to slay

 

[Deleted member 2745]

My ipd is too narrow for my face.

 

[Pietrosiek]

My small is too narrow for my face.

Your small Is to small?

 

[Deleted member 773]

You guys are just ugly

 

[Vitruvian]

Cause every girl thinks there's someone better when they look at our normie faces

 

[Lil_KINJA]

Cause every girl thinks there's someone better when they look at our normie faces

at the back of her head is always an ideal. A Chad that will make her pussy tingle. They aren't even whores anymore, just about 80% of men make them frigid.

 

[Deleted member 2854]

I don't see it as being hard at all in general.
Getting a below average looking / average GF is easy, but finding one that's attractive is a completely different ballgame.

I think more people need to make this distinction.

 

[Deleted member 2527]

I don't see it as being hard at all in general.
Getting a below average looking / average GF is easy, but finding one that's attractive is a completely different ballgame.

I think more people need to make this distinction.

true. I think I do have high standards and would never settle for a girl that I am not proud of.

 

[asiannickghur]

Its not hard though

 

[UglyMan]

Its not hard though

That’s cause you look good,fool

 

[MammothActuary]

I know even high value decent looking men having issues

I have noticed ratios in clubs are abysmal these days and only getting worse every year.

I can get ONS every now and then but girls do not seem interested in dating and tbh my friends seem to be experiencing the same thing

what's going on?

Is 80/20 rule actually legit and a small group of men dating all the women?

Are women just getting all the validation they need from social media so they dont need to meet guys IRL?


Are men and women all just FAs these days addicted to technology and not meeting real people?


WTF is actually happening


Post your theories
My honest answer would be yeah, tinder social media and ONS culture has allowed both men and women to cycle through new partners faster in the last 10 years than any other time in our 300,000 year existence as a species.

Our minds are not used to this and as a result both men and women have become jaded - It seems like no one is really putting in any effort these days and as soon as someone sees a flaw with a potential new partner they immediately just drop them and move onto the next one.

Porn has done to men's dopamine receptors what social media has done to women's. Both genders are fucked.

Men and women both do this. Incels are shooting for women out of their league and 6/10 women are trying to get chad. Even ill admit my standards are hella higher than they were 10 years ago it's because of this.

That doesn't seem to be the case. Maybe your sample size and experiences are biased because you find women in bars, clubs, online dating. Of course they are sluts. Try different locations like churches, universities, jobs etc.

 

[Andromeda88]

fuck ltr, cum and dump

 

[asiannickghur]

That’s cause you look good,fool

Thanks, you too

 

[Deleted member 275]

I don't see it as being hard at all in general.
Getting a below average looking / average GF is easy, but finding one that's attractive is a completely different ballgame.

I think more people need to make this distinction.

This.

 

[fOreVER]

cope

We are just ugly.

Oh and we need shariah law

 

[MajinBuu]

it's because you're ugly

why complicate things when they're easy to answer and understand

do you get pleasure from coping or what

 

[Depressed Twink]

Feminism destroyed society.

Hedonism + feminism = the reason for degeneracy.

What do we need?
Islam. The only religion that can stop degeneracy. However the imagine of muslims is fucked thanks to low iq islamic extremists that bomb themselves and make ppl think that islam is a bad religion. Fuck that shit.