let's settle this, do y'all think men and women can be "just friends" why or why not

[bananabrick]

 

[LTNUser]

Yea they can because it isn't really a problem to be friends

 

[first snow]

Yea they can because it isn't really a problem to be friends

what do you get from being friends with a woman, realistically

 

[looksmaxxed]

yes, but it's not natural. if you have to suppress your t and fight your urges, is it really friendship or a form of cuck orbitership?

 

[otal_duu]

depends.

personally speaking, 90% of my female friends are women who've shown me IOI in the past, we've managed to chat / interact without the conversation running stale, and remain amical. i am unsure of their sentiments towards me currently though, but there was definitely tension in the past which leads me to believe they would not object if we weren't "just friends"

the other 10% aren't attracted to men.

thoughts?

 

[LTNUser]

what do you get from being friends with a woman, realistically

I wouldn't know because I never been friends with a girl
But I assume we can learn certain things from them like you know get to know the female nature better

 

[first snow]

I wouldn't know because I never been friends with a girl
But I assume we can learn certain things from them like you know get to know the female nature better

girls are nothing interesting to talk to at all, that's the point
if you get lucky to find one that matches your vibe (if you are here you are nerd most likely so the probability of that happening is extra low)
you'll say otherwise

 

[pprimus43]

No, either FWB or Orbiter

 

[LTNUser]

girls are nothing interesting to talk to at all, that's the point
if you get lucky to find one that matches your vibe (if you are here you are nerd most likely so the probability of that happening is extra low)
you'll say otherwise

No girl finds me interesting tbh and yea I also think that they ain't that interesting to talk to

 

[CookieGuy]

It’s fine if you have a female friend as long as she had a crush on you or still has a crush on you. You guys can be friends as long as she crushes on you. Finding out if she does or not is night and day

 

[emeraldglass]

90% of the time, no. You can have a girl you chill with, but you’ll still want to sleep with her. The only way this could work is if you genuinely treated her more like a sister than a friend or if she looks like shit.

 

[CookieGuy]

It’s fine if you have a female friend as long as she had a crush on you or still has a crush on you. You guys can be friends as long as she crushes on you. Finding out if she does or not is night and day

@emeraldglass thoughts on my take?

 

[voluptuousness]

no because god made the woman so the man could make kids

 

[CookieGuy]

no because god made the woman so the man could make kids

Nah I ain’t bringing kids into this society. Screw that. It’s fucked

 

[emeraldglass]

@emeraldglass thoughts on my take?

I’d say her having a crush on you makes things more awkward. She’ll likely feel entitled to a clear answer and might act differently around you. If you end up sleeping together but then drop her because you wanted something casual while she wanted a relationship, the friendship will likely end since she’ll feel used and betrayed.

 

[Saint Casanova]

If she’s anywhere close to your type then no

 

[voluptuousness]

Nah I ain’t bringing kids into this society. Screw that. It’s fucked

 

[CookieGuy]

I’d say her having a crush on you makes things more awkward. She’ll likely feel entitled to a clear answer and might act differently around you. If you end up sleeping together but then drop her because you wanted something casual while she wanted a relationship, the friendship will likely end since she’ll feel used and betrayed.

I suppose when you grow up. But in my case where we are young and have strict parents and all that it’s optimal. Especially cuz I have a crush too and I just haven’t told, I think I like how it is. A friendship where you play videogames and then Cuddle Hug.

 

[CookieGuy]

If she’s anywhere close to your type then no

If she has a crush on you that makes it better, no?

 

[CookieGuy]

If she’s anywhere close to your type then no

2 people having a crush on each other doesn’t amount to automatic GF BF. Just edge it as long as possible if you wish to have a friendship with said girl

 

[voluptuousness]

I suppose when you grow up. But in my case where we are young and have strict parents and all that it’s optimal. Especially cuz I have a crush too and I just haven’t told, I think I like how it is. A friendship where you play videogames and then Cuddle Hug.

drop her and start an alcoholic career

 

[emeraldglass]

I suppose when you grow up. But in my case where we are young and have strict parents and all that it’s optimal. Especially cuz I have a crush too and I just haven’t told, I think I like how it is. A friendship where you play videogames and then Cuddle Hug.

I’d say it’s ideal if you capitalize on it, but if it turns into a wasted opportunity, you’ll probably look back on that friendship as torture.

 

[CookieGuy]

drop her and start an alcoholic career

I’m 15 dawg. Let me experience “Teen Iove” or whatever they call it. I know it’s cope technically, but I won’t need Iove any other time in my life

 

[CookieGuy]

I’d say it’s ideal if you capitalize on it, but if it turns into a wasted opportunity, you’ll probably look back on that friendship as torture.

Genuinely I wish to live alone in the future. I’m just riding a wave. I’m already schizophrenic and stuff. Nothing really hurts me. But that’s good to note for people who wish to flllow my advice

 

[voluptuousness]

It’s fine if you have a female friend as long as she had a crush on you or still has a crush on you. You guys can be friends as long as she crushes on you. Finding out if she does or not is night and day

you are right ngl cuz the social relationship in this case is more of a perversion of what you actually desire . imo there is literally no point in wasting energy and time with a girl if you cant make a relationship possible cuz biologically theres no way you can act like she doesnt attract you at all . normies that mainly have females friends are either homosexual or they just be drooling for attention and actually getting it in some type of way . i might be wrong but i dont think one can enjoy spending time with a woman by just talking about hobbies / daily life / circumstantial events or whatever

 

[Clark69]

westermarck effect is the only possible way men and women can be friends

 

[voluptuousness]

Genuinely I wish to live alone in the future. I’m just riding a wave. I’m already schizophrenic and stuff. Nothing really hurts me. But that’s good to note for people who wish to flllow my advice

just dont become a ted bundy and you will be fine

 

[voluptuousness]

westermarck effect is the only possible way men and women can be friends

ong

 

[CookieGuy]

you are right ngl cuz the social relationship in this case is more of a perversion of what you actually desire . imo there is literally no point in wasting energy and time with a girl if you cant make a relationship possible cuz biologically theres no way you can act like she doesnt attract you at all . normies that mainly have females friends are either homosexual or they just be drooling for attention and actually getting it in some type of way . i might be wrong but i dont think one can enjoy spending time with a woman by just talking about hobbies / daily life / circumstantial events or whatever

Play Videogames + Get Cuddles. I’m living it rn

 

[hypernormie]

I mean yeah but why tf would you want to be friends with a chick you aren’t fucking?

 

[h111]

No. you should realistically minimize how much you talk to foids unless you are dating her, men and women are not meant to be friends. Id never even small talk with a foid.

I always see them being friends with each other and its just disgusting and low IQ trait

 

[Gabriel2005]

what do you get from being friends with a woman, realistically

Nothing unless its 2 kids being friends with each other. If not then nothing tbh

 

[Gabriel2005]

Yea they can because it isn't really a problem to be friends

I wouldn't know because I never been friends with a girl
But I assume we can learn certain things from them like you know get to know the female nature better

Ive been friends with girls. It only gets you something if you are both kids if not then nothing.

 

[Gabriel2005]

what do you get from being friends with a woman, realistically

It only gets you something if you are both kids if not then nothing

 

[Aladin]

yes, but it's not natural. if you have to suppress your t and fight your urges, is it really friendship or a form of cuck orbitership?

Agreed.