
kurd
𝐂𝐀𝐈 𝐂𝐫𝐞𝐰 𝐌𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫
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First of all, I want to say that I’m still grateful to have been born in the Netherlands. However, there are a lot of reasons why, in my opinion, it’s better to stay in the country you're originally from.
One of the main reasons is that when people immigrate or when their children are born in a different country they often deal with identity issues. They don’t really feel at home, and it’s hard to fully connect with others because they come from a completely different culture. But then when they go back to their "home" country, their family or community might see them as outsiders too. This creates a sort of identity crisis they end up feeling lost, like they don’t truly belong anywhere.
That’s why I believe a lot of ethnic minorities struggle to integrate, and 99% of ethnics even turn to crime (which ruin the white man countries) instead of learning about and adapting to the culture and norms of the country they’re in. I feel like that disconnection plays a big role in that.
Dating or marrying people from your own country is usually easier too, because they share the same background and values. For example, here in my home country, most of my uncles are LTN and their wives are HTN. This is partly because men here don’t focus much on looks it’s not considered manly while women do take care of themselves. Also, women here often prioritize financial stability over physical appearance. Back home, people are on your level. But in countries like the Netherlands, where you're surrounded by 6’5" blonde white guys who even pull girls from your own ethnicity, it can be tough to compete as an ethnic guy let’s be real.
On top of that, I just feel more at peace and relaxed when I'm around people of my own ethnicity. The living situation here also feels better. A lot of people don’t even work they just live off renting out property and chilling with no stress. Compare that to the Netherlands or other firstworld countries, where it’s the same boring routine every single day:
Wake up → work → go home → sleep → repeat.
For teens or kids, it’s just school instead of work. That lifestyle feels like a never ending rat race. It’s draining, and it gives you constant cortisol spikes.
One of the main reasons is that when people immigrate or when their children are born in a different country they often deal with identity issues. They don’t really feel at home, and it’s hard to fully connect with others because they come from a completely different culture. But then when they go back to their "home" country, their family or community might see them as outsiders too. This creates a sort of identity crisis they end up feeling lost, like they don’t truly belong anywhere.
That’s why I believe a lot of ethnic minorities struggle to integrate, and 99% of ethnics even turn to crime (which ruin the white man countries) instead of learning about and adapting to the culture and norms of the country they’re in. I feel like that disconnection plays a big role in that.
Dating or marrying people from your own country is usually easier too, because they share the same background and values. For example, here in my home country, most of my uncles are LTN and their wives are HTN. This is partly because men here don’t focus much on looks it’s not considered manly while women do take care of themselves. Also, women here often prioritize financial stability over physical appearance. Back home, people are on your level. But in countries like the Netherlands, where you're surrounded by 6’5" blonde white guys who even pull girls from your own ethnicity, it can be tough to compete as an ethnic guy let’s be real.
On top of that, I just feel more at peace and relaxed when I'm around people of my own ethnicity. The living situation here also feels better. A lot of people don’t even work they just live off renting out property and chilling with no stress. Compare that to the Netherlands or other firstworld countries, where it’s the same boring routine every single day:
Wake up → work → go home → sleep → repeat.
For teens or kids, it’s just school instead of work. That lifestyle feels like a never ending rat race. It’s draining, and it gives you constant cortisol spikes.