Life in the West Isn’t What It Seems for Ethnics

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First of all, I want to say that I’m still grateful to have been born in the Netherlands. However, there are a lot of reasons why, in my opinion, it’s better to stay in the country you're originally from.

One of the main reasons is that when people immigrate or when their children are born in a different country they often deal with identity issues. They don’t really feel at home, and it’s hard to fully connect with others because they come from a completely different culture. But then when they go back to their "home" country, their family or community might see them as outsiders too. This creates a sort of identity crisis they end up feeling lost, like they don’t truly belong anywhere.

That’s why I believe a lot of ethnic minorities struggle to integrate, and 99% of ethnics even turn to crime (which ruin the white man countries) instead of learning about and adapting to the culture and norms of the country they’re in. I feel like that disconnection plays a big role in that.

Dating or marrying people from your own country is usually easier too, because they share the same background and values. For example, here in my home country, most of my uncles are LTN and their wives are HTN. This is partly because men here don’t focus much on looks it’s not considered manly while women do take care of themselves. Also, women here often prioritize financial stability over physical appearance. Back home, people are on your level. But in countries like the Netherlands, where you're surrounded by 6’5" blonde white guys who even pull girls from your own ethnicity, it can be tough to compete as an ethnic guy let’s be real.

On top of that, I just feel more at peace and relaxed when I'm around people of my own ethnicity. The living situation here also feels better. A lot of people don’t even work they just live off renting out property and chilling with no stress. Compare that to the Netherlands or other firstworld countries, where it’s the same boring routine every single day:

Wake up → work → go home → sleep → repeat.

For teens or kids, it’s just school instead of work. That lifestyle feels like a never ending rat race. It’s draining, and it gives you constant cortisol spikes.
 
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First of all, I want to say that I’m still grateful to have been born in the Netherlands. However, there are a lot of reasons why, in my opinion, it’s better to stay in the country you're originally from.

One of the main reasons is that when people immigrate or when their children are born in a different country they often deal with identity issues. They don’t really feel at home, and it’s hard to fully connect with others because they come from a completely different culture. But then when they go back to their "home" country, their family or community might see them as outsiders too. This creates a sort of identity crisis they end up feeling lost, like they don’t truly belong anywhere.

That’s why I believe a lot of ethnic minorities struggle to integrate, and 99% of ethnics even turn to crime (which ruin the white man countries) instead of learning about and adapting to the culture and norms of the country they’re in. I feel like that disconnection plays a big role in that.

Dating or marrying people from your own country is usually easier too, because they share the same background and values. For example, here in my home country, most of my uncles are LTN and their wives are HTN. This is partly because men here don’t focus much on looks it’s not considered manly while women do take care of themselves. Also, women here often prioritize financial stability over physical appearance. Back home, people are on your level. But in countries like the Netherlands, where you're surrounded by 6’5" blonde white guys who even pull girls from your own ethnicity, it can be tough to compete as an ethnic guy let’s be real.

On top of that, I just feel more at peace and relaxed when I'm around people of my own ethnicity. The living situation here also feels better. A lot of people don’t even work they just live off renting out property and chilling with no stress. Compare that to the Netherlands or other firstworld countries, where it’s the same boring routine every single day:

Wake up → work → go home → sleep → repeat.

For teens or kids, it’s just school instead of work. That lifestyle feels like a never ending rat race. It’s draining, and it gives you constant cortisol spikes.
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True but a lot of what you said applies to the locals too. Most people in western countries live rather routine and mundane lives
 
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Not really

All you said is true but since the us has so many immigrants from different countries it all cancels out.

Thats why the u.s is so nice tbh

Its just constant ropefuel living in europe unless you are rich or chad.
 
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True but a lot of what you said applies to the locals too. Most people in western countries live a rather routine and mundane lives
Yeah thats one of the disadvantages living in the west
 
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Not really

All you said is true but since the us has so many immigrants from different countries it all cancels out.

Thats why the u.s is so nice tbh

Its just constant ropefuel living in europe unless you are rich or chad.
Yes agreed,

living in U.S as a ethnic is fine as long as you arent indian and even then people dont rlly care. Europe is fucking shit tho, i wanna move out of this country asap.

I was just talking about ethnics from europe mainly in the thread
 
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First of all, I want to say that I’m still grateful to have been born in the Netherlands. However, there are a lot of reasons why, in my opinion, it’s better to stay in the country you're originally from.

One of the main reasons is that when people immigrate or when their children are born in a different country they often deal with identity issues. They don’t really feel at home, and it’s hard to fully connect with others because they come from a completely different culture. But then when they go back to their "home" country, their family or community might see them as outsiders too. This creates a sort of identity crisis they end up feeling lost, like they don’t truly belong anywhere.

That’s why I believe a lot of ethnic minorities struggle to integrate, and 99% of ethnics even turn to crime (which ruin the white man countries) instead of learning about and adapting to the culture and norms of the country they’re in. I feel like that disconnection plays a big role in that.

Dating or marrying people from your own country is usually easier too, because they share the same background and values. For example, here in my home country, most of my uncles are LTN and their wives are HTN. This is partly because men here don’t focus much on looks it’s not considered manly while women do take care of themselves. Also, women here often prioritize financial stability over physical appearance. Back home, people are on your level. But in countries like the Netherlands, where you're surrounded by 6’5" blonde white guys who even pull girls from your own ethnicity, it can be tough to compete as an ethnic guy let’s be real.

On top of that, I just feel more at peace and relaxed when I'm around people of my own ethnicity. The living situation here also feels better. A lot of people don’t even work they just live off renting out property and chilling with no stress. Compare that to the Netherlands or other firstworld countries, where it’s the same boring routine every single day:

Wake up → work → go home → sleep → repeat.

For teens or kids, it’s just school instead of work. That lifestyle feels like a never ending rat race. It’s draining, and it gives you constant cortisol spikes.
how many dutch teens /college students do u see obssess with looksmaxxing/bp eddits in netherlands bhai? just wanna know how much popular it is in netherlands
 
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Completely agree. I made a similar thread.

@JohnDoe you need to accept you don't belong in UK (or Pakistan for that). Just a lost ethnic like every diaspora group.
 
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The working culture of West is pretty solid
They have time to do other stuff and relax in the evening after working in the morning but it's not the same here in counties that come under the category of 'developing' nations
 
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how many dutch teens /college students do u see obssess with looksmaxxing/bp eddits in netherlands bhai? just wanna know how much popular it is in netherlands
It’s not seen as a serious thing here its just the avg tiktok bs.

Yo i mog look at my jaw (does the tiktok pose)

Ye im mewing rn.

That kind of shit, not really bp
 
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It’s not seen as a serious thing here its just the avg tiktok bs.

Yo i mog look at my jaw (does the tiktok pose)

Ye im mewing rn.

That kind of shit, not really bp
r u in school /college?
 
The working culture of West is pretty solid
They have time to do other stuff and relax in the evening after working in the morning but it's not the same here in counties that come under the category of 'developing' nations

Yesterday i went with my dad to a local real estate building here, and the owner there was a swedish kurdish guy who lived in sweden for 20 years, he moved back home with his kids and his wife for around 5 months now and he said “The west is all a lie, you will just have the same routine there everyday, you wake up, work, and immediately go back home as a rat and sleep and do the same thing again. He said even though hes still working back home, he doesn’t feel like he is actually working if that makes sense.

I really don’t see anyone here working as extreme as people do in the west,
 
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Only ethnics know the feeling of being heightmogged by Chads/Tyrones everywhere you go
 
r u in school /college?
bro the netherlands schooling system is so retarded and fucked i cant even explain it to you. i finished highschool and im still studying so i guess college would be the appropriate term. I still have a year left then im moving to spain with a friend of mine and will be continuing to study there.
 
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It's better for a turk to stay in germany
 
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It's better for a turk to stay in germany
yeah i do agree turkey is worse to live in due to it economically being super bad rn, it used to not be like this.

ts kinda sad tbh.. erdogan ruined it
 
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Can confirm, I’m considered a foreigner in The Netherlands despite having been born and raised here. However back in my ancestral country, I’m considered to be a foreigner as well. In fact they call me “Chinese” or “white” because of this. And honestly, I don’t even speak the language, nor do I know the unwritten rules of the country. It’s true, I’m practically a stranger. The Netherlands or the western world feels more at home, though I think using this as an excuse to justify the inclination towards crime isn’t a real argument. At least those communities have a large community here in the west, there’s so many MENA people here. They can feel at home around and be accepted by these people, however in my case there’s barely any South Asians here. And the ones who are here I just can’t connect to, they’re usually dickbags. Yet I don’t turn to crime. There’s no excuse for committing crime in a welfare state.
 
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Idk i view anyone that looks decent on the face and has a good body as HTB :sneaky:
You were saying their wives are HTN, but HTN is used for men only. :feelsmega:
 
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Where I live, white people are the most dangerous people to be around.
 
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Can confirm, I’m considered a foreigner in The Netherlands despite having been born and raised here. However back in my ancestral country, I’m considered to be a foreigner as well. In fact they call me “Chinese” or “white” because of this. And honestly, I don’t even speak the language, nor do I know the unwritten rules of the country. It’s true, I’m practically a stranger. The Netherlands or the western world feels more at home, though I think using this as an excuse to justify the inclination towards crime isn’t a real argument. At least those communities have a large community here in the west, there’s so many MENA people here. They can feel at home around and be accepted by these people, however in my case there’s barely any South Asians here. And the ones who are here I just can’t connect to, they’re usually dickbags. Yet I don’t turn to crime. There’s no excuse for committing crime in a welfare state.
Yeah iget where you’re coming from, and I wasn’t tryna say crime is justified or anything. I’m just saying when people grow up feeling like they don’t belong anywhere not here, not back home some of them end up lost and take the wrong path. Obviously not everyone goes that route, and props to you for staying solid despite all that. But not everyone has the same mindset or support system. And yeah MENA communities might be big here, but that doesn’t mean every person in those groups feels accepted either. Just wanted to share how it affects some people differently.
 
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Yeah iget where you’re coming from, and I wasn’t tryna say crime is justified or anything. I’m just saying when people grow up feeling like they don’t belong anywhere not here, not back home some of them end up lost and take the wrong path. Obviously not everyone goes that route, and props to you for staying solid despite all that. But not everyone has the same mindset or support system. And yeah MENA communities might be big here, but that doesn’t mean every person in those groups feels accepted either. Just wanted to share how it affects some people differently.
IMO they take the wrong path because the wrong path is being idolized. They listen to music that promote such lifestyles and whatnot, so it’s no surprise they’re doing that. I’ve never been into that kinda music so maybe that’s why I managed to avoid idolizing a lifestyle like that.
 
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Completely agree. I made a similar thread.

@JohnDoe you need to accept you don't belong in UK (or Pakistan for that). Just a lost ethnic like every diaspora group.
Had no clue he was ethnic
 
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Problem is your reputation is tied to your people. If an Indian does something bad most people have alarm bell ringing for other Indians even if you were born and raised in the west.
 
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Completely agree. I made a similar thread.

@JohnDoe you need to accept you don't belong in UK (or Pakistan for that). Just a lost ethnic like every diaspora group.
Brotal
 
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IMO they take the wrong path because the wrong path is being idolized. They listen to music that promote such lifestyles and whatnot, so it’s no surprise they’re doing that. I’ve never been into that kinda music so maybe that’s why I managed to avoid idolizing a lifestyle like that.
All of these tools on the opp block watch it get poppin like mary

Big rambo tryna shave man chest but I don't give a fuck if it hairy

Step in moose or canada goose big coat tryna hide this shank

Ching man brain now he got both hands on his head like a migraine skank
 
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All of these tools on the opp block watch it get poppin like mary

Big rambo tryna shave man chest but I don't give a fuck if it hairy

Step in moose or canada goose big coat tryna hide this shank

Ching man brain now he got both hands on his head like a migraine skank
dont show us yo dick nigg
 
Not really

All you said is true but since the us has so many immigrants from different countries it all cancels out.

Thats why the u.s is so nice tbh

Its just constant ropefuel living in europe unless you are rich or chad.
Unless ur a black immigrant, then its not nice
 
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Unless ur a black immigrant, then its not nice
Nicer than europe

All ethnics have it nicer in the us, if you disagree then youve never been to europe/lived there
 
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Nicer than europe

All ethnics have it nicer in the us, if you disagree then youve never been to europe/lived there
I have lived there all my life, Europe is bad for ethnics in general, but USA specifically hates black immigrants more than anyone due to how much they hate blacks as a whole
 
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I have lived there all my life, Europe is bad for ethnics in general, but USA specifically hates black immigrants more than anyone due to how much they hate blacks as a whole
Depends if the black guy is attractive or not
 
Depends if the black guy is attractive or not
Cope, racism goes beyond the blackpill, and there are say attractive blacks right now that still got treated like crap whilst they were young teens before their glowup into fully grown men
 
I have lived there all my life, Europe is bad for ethnics in general, but USA specifically hates black immigrants more than anyone due to how much they hate blacks as a whole
Black kids are the most popular in schools and if they make good decisions (not join gangs and such) they can have it good. Not to mention all the support from the goverment and money.

To say blacks have it bad in america than lets say curries is delusion. The U.S. is one of the best places for blacks, especially mixed/mulattos
 
No life is not easier in any developing country unless you are from a rich family or have a stable family business
 
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Black kids are the most popular in schools and if they make good decisions (not join gangs and such) they can have it good. Not to mention all the support from the goverment and money.

To say blacks have it bad in america than lets say curries is delusion. The U.S. is one of the best places for blacks, especially mixed/mulattos
Blacks have it worse than curries, they are the poorest race in america, Indians are the richest
 

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Very real, I don’t feel British or afghan, I’m just a guy.
 
Its not always about money.
When u are poor like that then it definitely is, that's like an average sub poverty line for an American household vs upper-middle class
 
When u are poor like that then it definitely is, that's like an average sub poverty line for an American household vs upper-middle class
Thats mostly mindset.

Most blacks in the U.S just do bad stuff and drugs all day.

Trust me i lived there

If a black guy really tried he could achieve more than any curry.

Not to mention 2nd-3rd highest smv and you got yourself a pretty good life
 
Thats mostly mindset.

Most blacks in the U.S just do bad stuff and drugs all day.

Trust me i lived there

If a black guy really tried he could achieve more than any curry.

Not to mention 2nd-3rd highest smv and you got yourself a pretty good life
where do u livve now
 
Blacks have it worse than curries, they are the poorest race in america, Indians are the richest
I think a distinction needs to be made between African Americans who are descendants of slaves and African Americans whose parents are African immigrants.

The biggest issue with all this data is that the latter is misrepresented or entirely unrepresented and this leads to data that doesn't paint the whole picture.
 
I think a distinction needs to be made between African Americans who are descendants of slaves and African Americans whose parents are African immigrants.

The biggest issue with all this data is that the latter is misrepresented or entirely unrepresented and this leads to data that doesn't paint the whole picture.
Yeah, but the failo is still gonna hit u even if ur an African middle class immigrant or a middle class African American
 
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First of all, I want to say that I’m still grateful to have been born in the Netherlands. However, there are a lot of reasons why, in my opinion, it’s better to stay in the country you're originally from.

One of the main reasons is that when people immigrate or when their children are born in a different country they often deal with identity issues. They don’t really feel at home, and it’s hard to fully connect with others because they come from a completely different culture. But then when they go back to their "home" country, their family or community might see them as outsiders too. This creates a sort of identity crisis they end up feeling lost, like they don’t truly belong anywhere.

That’s why I believe a lot of ethnic minorities struggle to integrate, and 99% of ethnics even turn to crime (which ruin the white man countries) instead of learning about and adapting to the culture and norms of the country they’re in. I feel like that disconnection plays a big role in that.

Dating or marrying people from your own country is usually easier too, because they share the same background and values. For example, here in my home country, most of my uncles are LTN and their wives are HTN. This is partly because men here don’t focus much on looks it’s not considered manly while women do take care of themselves. Also, women here often prioritize financial stability over physical appearance. Back home, people are on your level. But in countries like the Netherlands, where you're surrounded by 6’5" blonde white guys who even pull girls from your own ethnicity, it can be tough to compete as an ethnic guy let’s be real.

On top of that, I just feel more at peace and relaxed when I'm around people of my own ethnicity. The living situation here also feels better. A lot of people don’t even work they just live off renting out property and chilling with no stress. Compare that to the Netherlands or other firstworld countries, where it’s the same boring routine every single day:

Wake up → work → go home → sleep → repeat.

For teens or kids, it’s just school instead of work. That lifestyle feels like a never ending rat race. It’s draining, and it gives you constant cortisol spikes.
you're right in some points and WRONG in some other ones. For start if you're at least lower than MTN then it's over but if you were higher you may slay some LTBs then get a girl from you're own ethnic group but still I doubt that you'll get some stacy or pretty one. As for now it starts to change even here as women get their own money too so she'll just sees you a ride up to EU.
About money and life quality you're so delusional thinking it's not that same as in the whole world. if you're poor you'll find no healthcare, no solid education.... Plus you'll be met with expectations from your low IQ culture
 

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