Life is so unfair

[nsk4ll]

i see people with lots of friends, people who look like south asian ape and pretty much anyone, even people who are 5'4, yet i dont have any friends? i dont like this at all, i deserve friends too. i see stories of my classmates they are at the beach, in park, walking with their friends, having fun, some with girlfriends yet i dont have any of these. this is so unfair, why cant i be one of them. nobody accepts me. women show interest in wrong kind of men, their perception of love is deeply flawed. i am not loved or adored or even admired by any women in my school or anywhere else. i am not accepted by anyone. no girls like me, and i hate them all for it.

 

[perculezz]

 

[sofarsogood]

being non nt is brutal

 

[nsk4ll]

being non nt is brutal

unfortunately, i never understood how they are so confident and non awkward. i am very timid and awkward unfortunately, perhaps due to autism. but i know for a fact, there must be done something about it. its unfair, those people enjoy their lives while i cant.

 

[ascendingalways]

Fml lmao what was the point of being born with good looks if every time I'm making friends or smth good happens there's always some event that fucks my life up and changes everything? sigh

 

[nsk4ll]

Fml lmao what was the point of being born with good looks if every time I'm making friends or smth good happens there's always some event that fucks my life up and changes everything? sigh

nigga ur so attractive and ur tall afaik, what do you even have to complain about?
but yeah bro i get it, sorry for ya. btw r u doing alright after that incident that u posted abt?

 

[sofarsogood]

unfortunately, i never understood how they are so confident and non awkward. i am very timid and awkward unfortunately, perhaps due to autism. but i know for a fact, there must be done something about it. its unfair, those people enjoy their lives while i cant.

I used to be high inhibit your age too but I naturally become the opposite over time. It might come to you naturally just know they ain't any better than you and most people you'll meet ain't all that maybe caring about people's opinions is what's holding you back idk everyone's different

 

[maximuslaid]

i see people with lots of friends, people who look like south asian ape and pretty much anyone, even people who are 5'4, yet i dont have any friends? i dont like this at all, i deserve friends too. i see stories of my classmates they are at the beach, in park, walking with their friends, having fun, some with girlfriends yet i dont have any of these. this is so unfair, why cant i be one of them. nobody accepts me. women show interest in wrong kind of men, their perception of love is deeply flawed. i am not loved or adored or even admired by any women in my school or anywhere else. i am not accepted by anyone. no girls like me, and i hate them all for it.

Its brutal seeing everyone around you with a good social life while you rot at home doing nothing

 

[ascendingalways]

nigga ur so attractive and ur tall afaik, what do you even have to complain about?
but yeah bro i get it, sorry for ya. btw r u doing alright after that incident that u posted abt?

Doing a lot better now, thanks.

Yeah, I definitely have it better than most users here but my family situation and the abuse I've faced growing up (along with a lot of genetic personality disorders) makes it basically impossible to interact or form connections with anyone for very long. It's mostly my own fault but the coping mechanisms I chose to keep myself social and happy basically destroyed my life and my health and on top of the chronic illness and anorexia and stuff I struggled with I kind of just fucked myself. I'm on a better path now though and hopefully I wont stay a friendless loser for long.

 

[nsk4ll]

Its brutal seeing everyone around you with a good social life while you rot at home doing nothing

exactly, its so unfair i wish i could socialize too. looks matter a lot yes but talking abilities matter too, my ugly short brown classmates do alright because they have no inhib whatsoever.

 

[nsk4ll]

Doing a lot better now, thanks.

Yeah, I definitely have it better than most users here but my family situation and the abuse I've faced growing up (along with a lot of genetic personality disorders) makes it basically impossible to interact or form connections with anyone for very long. It's mostly my own fault but the coping mechanisms I chose to keep myself social and happy basically destroyed my life and my health and on top of the chronic illness and anorexia and stuff I struggled with I kind of just fucked myself. I'm on a better path now though and hopefully I wont stay a friendless loser for long.

good luck bruv

 

[chinkcel]

i see people with lots of friends, people who look like south asian ape and pretty much anyone, even people who are 5'4, yet i dont have any friends? i dont like this at all, i deserve friends too. i see stories of my classmates they are at the beach, in park, walking with their friends, having fun, some with girlfriends yet i dont have any of these. this is so unfair, why cant i be one of them. nobody accepts me. women show interest in wrong kind of men, their perception of love is deeply flawed. i am not loved or adored or even admired by any women in my school or anywhere else. i am not accepted by anyone. no girls like me, and i hate them all for it.

its because your a your an autistic inkwell

 

[maximuslaid]

exactly, its so unfair i wish i could socialize too. looks matter a lot yes but talking abilities matter too, my ugly short brown classmates do alright because they have no inhib whatsoever.

I see subhumans at school hanging out with attractive girls every day while Im in the corner watching them talk and joke around.

Im still working on talking and socializing with more females each day to get rid of this social autism tho

 

[nsk4ll]

I see subhumans at school hanging out with attractive girls every day while Im in the corner watching them talk and joke around.

Im still working on talking and socializing with more females each day to get rid of this social autism tho

unfortunately thats the reality
ive never talked to a female peer since 13

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

i used to feel like that at 13 - 14 too, then halfway through 8th grade i made some friends

and became popular in highschool

didnt really changed anything or actively pursued friends though, it just happened

 

[ascendingalways]

good luck bruv

Thanks man. I honestly don't know what I'd do without the love and support from so many people on this forum.

 

[maximuslaid]

unfortunately thats the reality
ive never talked to a female peer since 13

Well try to speak to more female. Set a goal of speaking to 1 girl a day or smth

If you dont speak to them youll never be able to communicate with them. At first you might blurt out some random stupid bullshit because of the years of not speaking to female, but over time your brain will be recalibrated like a normies brain and socializing will come naturally

 

[nsk4ll]

Well try to speak to more female. Set a goal of speaking to 1 girl a day or smth

If you dont speak to them youll never be able to communicate with them. At first you might blurt out some random stupid bullshit because of the years of not speaking to female, but over time your brain will be recalibrated like a normies brain and socializing will come naturally

where tho? if i do it in school i will be embarrassed for life. i will see them everyday

 

[maximuslaid]

where tho? if i do it in school i will be embarrassed for life. i will see them everyday

I mean who gives a shit what they think?

I like to speak to ugly ltb girls at school as a kind of social lubrication to get comfortable before trying to socialize w more intimidating good looking attractive girls

You have to put yourself in a mindset where your main goal is to be more socially confident and you only view female as practice toward that goal not as actual human being

 

[sofarsogood]

where tho? if i do it in school i will be embarrassed for life. i will see them everyday

rejection it's not that bad honestly if they're normal. they will most likely just tell their friend they rejected some random guy and move on. I think is best to not move too forward at first and first talk about something general or in common you may have and see if she's friendly or enganing in the conversation as much as you. just don't do it to ALL the foids at school and too quick since that might give you a reputation

 

[nsk4ll]

rejection it's not that bad honestly if they're normal. they will most likely just tell their friend they rejected some random guy and move on. I think is best to not move too forward at first and first talk about something general or in common you may have and see if she's friendly or enganing in the conversation as much as you. just don't do it to ALL the foids at school and too quick since that might give you a reputation

i will try to make conversation with one then tmrw

 

[sofarsogood]

i will try to make conversation with one then tmrw

if it doesn't come too naturally and you're anxious to talk don't rush it, you have plenty of days ahead of you
make it come as naturally as you can it doesn't have to be only foids tho try talking to guys too so you can be a part of their friend group slowly and meet more people that way

 

[buddhistking]

i used to feel like that at 13 - 14 too, then halfway through 8th grade i made some friends

and became popular in highschool

didnt really changed anything or actively pursued friends though, it just happened