LifeMaxxing Guide | Fixing your shit lyfe | big ahh thread

[killoldyou]

Word before: Every part of this will also have a tldr so if you have the attention span of a drugged goldfish this is good for you.
TLDR: there will be tldrs if you think this shit is obvious and you are doing it congrats, if you also think its obvious but dont do it, than ropemaxx

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LYFEMAXXING GUIDE | HOW TO BECOME A GOD AT LIVING LIFE

Understanding Your Life Enjoyment Stage​

First off, we need to understand what your "life enjoyment stage" is.

What is a "life enjoyment stage"?​

Its a term I made up that defines how much you're able to enjoy your life and be proud of yourself.

Why Should You Believe Me?​

Around the time I started high school, I turned my life around. I went from being a fat loser with 0 (and I truly mean zero) friends to a normal person who:

• Worked out at least 1 hour a day,
• Ate at least semi-healthy,
• Went outside with friends almost daily
• Took steps toward building his career.

Why Am I Talking in the Past Tense?​

Because I fell victim to the same shitty cycle again. Thankfully, I’m not unhealthy or fat this time, but I’ve become lazy again.

Now, I’m fixing my life for the second time, which is why I’m making this thread.

INTRODUCTION TLDRs​

1. Life Enjoyment Stage
A "life enjoyment stage" reflects how much you enjoy life and feel proud of yourself.

2. Why Believe Me?
I turned my life around in high school by exercising, eating better, making friends, and focusing on my career.

3. Why Past Tense?
I’ve slipped back into bad habits but am determined to fix my life again—and that’s why I’m sharing this.

SECTION ONE: Understanding Your Stage​

There are basically 5 stages of life enjoyment.

At the center, we have the Normie stage: not a bad life, but not a particularly good one either. From here, you can move down or up the levels:

These are the 5 stages of life enjoyment:

1. Roomcel: Life is unbearable, and so are you.
2. Sadcel: Functional but miserable.
3. Normie: Bare minimum functionality with some stability.
4. Normie+: Consistently productive and feeling accomplished.
5. Happy: You love productivity, fitness, and growth—it defines you.

SMALL VISUAL REPRESENTATION

SECTION 2: Difficulty of Fixing​

We need to understand one key principle:

The easier it is to start, the harder it is to ascend.

What Does That Even Mean?​

Let’s break it down:

• If you’re a Roomcel, it’s hard to find the motivation to start improving. But once you do, it’s relatively simple to take those initial steps—like using some soap, cleaning your room, and washing yourself.
• On the other hand, if you’re a Normie, you might find it easier to get started since you’re not a "useless blob of fat." However, reaching Happy—where you’re consistently productive and thriving—is way harder. Becoming really productive requires a much bigger effort than basic self-improvement.

TLDR:​

The easier it is to start improving your life, the harder it becomes to reach the next level.

• Roomcel → Sadcel: Hard to start but simple steps.
• Normie → Happy: Easier to start but requires a huge effort to ascend.

Why Would You Even Want to Fix Yourself?​

You might wonder, why bother?

The blackpill says, “Unless you have a sexy Chad face, it’s over.”

Well, yeah, but let’s think about it:

Would you rather:

• Get the motivation to fix anything you can about your face and live a happy life (even if you won’t get women)? You could enjoy other things, like someone with an actual personality.

OR

• Stay in your shit-filled room, posting racist stuff for internet likes for the rest of your LTN (low-tier normie) life?

The choice is yours.

Let’s Get to Actual Fixing​

If you’re a Sadcel or, God forbid, a Roomcel, there are 5 simple actions you can take to almost instantly start fixing your life:

1. Grab a Bar of Soap​

Take a shower. It might sound basic, but it’ll make you feel significantly better.

2. Clean Up Your Living Space​

A more organized space leads to a more organized mind.

3. Get a Haircut​

Improving your appearance boosts your confidence and motivation.

4. Listen to Gym Music (Without Working Out)​

Even if you’re not working out yet, gym music gets your blood pumping and your brain thinking.

5. Start Boxing Training (Alone)​

You don’t need friends to train. Feeling stronger and more powerful will help you believe you’re worth something.

What If You Somewhat Have a Life?​

Let’s say you’re close to Normie or already at that level. What do you do then?

I present to you: The 3 by 3 + 1 Rule.

The 3 by 3 + 1 Rule​

3 Focuses (50% of your time): These are your main goals or things you want to achieve. Examples: work out for at least 1 hour a day, study or work on self-improvement, or build skills like becoming a graphic designer.

Maintenance (35% of your time): This includes the basic things needed to function, like taking showers, washing clothes, going to school or work, eating decent food, and avoiding homelessness.

3 Fun Shits (10% of your time): Fun activities like gaming, going out with friends (even if you don’t have any), or doing legal substances.

1 Side Activity: This is something specific that you pour your all into when doing it. Examples include looksmaxxing or learning how to fight.

But Shouldn’t You Spend More Time Having Fun?​

Some online influencers might say, "If you don’t do fun things, you’ll ropemaxx." The truth is, too much fun stops being fun.

I realized this when I used to go out with my friends every single day. It wasn’t as fun as when I went out every 4 days.

Why? NOVELTY.​

Novelty makes things special and awesome.

TLDR:​

If you’re close to Normie level, follow the 3 by 3 + 1 Rule:

1. 3 Focuses (50%): Work on goals like fitness, studying, or career.
2. Maintenance (35%): Handle the essentials (hygiene, food, work/school).
3. 3 Fun Shits (10%): Do things you enjoy but keep them limited.
4. 1 Side Activity: Dedicate yourself to a specific personal project.

Too much fun kills its novelty. Balance your life for consistent enjoyment.

How to Actually Manage Doing It​

Now that I’ve told you what to do, here’s how to actually manage it:

Working Out: Watch something while you work out. It’s 2025, so you probably have a smart TV. Watch stuff on the web or Netflix while exercising. For example, I binge-watch anime and do cardio for 3 hours.

Being Productive: Reward yourself afterward. If you’re addicted to gooning, only allow yourself to goon after finishing your chores. Like doing legal substances? Only do them after completing what you need to do.

Another Tip: Hating Yourself
Self-hatred is the most powerful force inside you (yeah, freaky ahh force—why is it even inside you?). Use it as motivation to make changes.

TLDR:​

1. Working Out: Watch something entertaining while you exercise to stay engaged.
2. Being Productive: Treat yourself after finishing tasks (e.g., gooning or other rewards).
3. Self-Hatred: Use it as a powerful force to push yourself toward improvement.

EXTRAS:​

1: How to Mimic Being NT​

Stop caring. Really act like you’re the center of the universe. You might think that’s cocky and leads to a bad personality, but in reality, if you don’t care, there’s no reason to be sad or a bad person. This approach can make people like you, and it helps you become genuinely interested in anything. When you show interest in someone’s "bullshit," it naturally makes them like you more.

2: How to Talk to Foids Without Folding​

The same concept from #1 applies here. Start treating women like you would treat a small child. Make silly jokes that only kids would laugh at. Show some interest in their conversation, but always do it with the mindset of, “I know I’m superior to you, but I’ll lower myself to your level to make you feel entertained and comfortable.” Just don’t make it look unnatural, simpy, or like you care too much.

TLDR:​

1. Mimic Being NT: Act like you’re the center of the universe, mimic caring about people's bullshit, and it’ll make people like you.
2. Talking to Foids: Treat women like kids—make jokes, show interest without appearing desperate or too caring.

 

[aspiringexcel]

Water nigger

 

[killoldyou]

Water nigger

may be, but sometimes only if you see what is obvious will you truly get it - probably some dude before

 

[Fine]

I went from Sadcel to Happy+ and loving my life in like a year.

Biggest change for me was realizing that social time fulfills me so I went from introverted to extremely extroverted. Confidence was the most important quality to get that. The best way of getting confidence for me was going to the gym consistently (and talking to a bunch of people), always great hygiene, getting a haircut, changing clothing style, success in business (went viral on social media), after a few months of gym asking a 10/10 perfect girl out for the first time and getting into a relationship (biggest confidence boost ever probably) and lastly starting to get attention from girls and becoming social.

 

[killoldyou]

I went from Sadcel to Happy+ and loving my life in like a year.

Biggest change for me was realizing that social time fulfills me so I went from introverted to extremely extroverted. Confidence was the most important quality to get that. The best way of getting confidence for me was going to the gym consistently (and talking to a bunch of people), always great hygiene, getting a haircut, changing clothing style, success in business (went viral on social media), after a few months of gym asking a 10/10 perfect girl out for the first time and getting into a relationship (biggest confidence boost ever probably) and lastly starting to get attention from girls and becoming social.

happy for you, I am currently at a semi normie state i guess (used to be normie+ but life had other plans) but now im tryna get back at normie+ and than go for happy. I did this once so I can do it again( and nnow ion even have to lose weight so its easier)

 

[looks>books]

Yeah this is very generic and water

Good effort tho

 

[Fine]

happy for you, I am currently at a semi normie state i guess (used to be normie+ but life had other plans) but now im tryna get back at normie+ and than go for happy. I did this once so I can do it again( and nnow ion even have to lose weight so its easier)

You got this man. You actually feel like a human being at the happy stage and you will never want to go back to anything below. 100% stay consistent no matter what, trust.