Looking back, I can't believe there was a time when i ACTUALLY thought that personality was the only thing that mattered for getting girls

[browncurrycel]

This was when I was a retarded 15 year old guy

I would sit and mentally list out personality traits that guys with girlfriends had.

I genuinely believed that if i somehow copied their behaviour I would start to pull girls. Jfl.

 

[Helvetier]

ong

 

[Deleted member 136057]

This was when I was a retarded 15 year old guy

I would sit and mentally list out personality traits that guys with girlfriends had.

I genuinely believed that if i somehow copied their behaviour I would start to pull girls. Jfl.

For short term fun personality is important. You know being social, good at talking and approaching as many girls as possible.

But for ltr theres not much use pretending. It all comes out eventually. This is a bad thing for me.

 

[browncurrycel]

For short term fun personality is important. You know being social, good at talking and approaching as many girls as possible.

But for ltr theres not much use pretending. It all comes out eventually. This is a bad thing for me.

Agreed

 

[Urfavoritendltn]

This was when I was a retarded 15 year old guy

I would sit and mentally list out personality traits that guys with girlfriends had.

I genuinely believed that if i somehow copied their behaviour I would start to pull girls. Jfl.

Looks are just the starter if ur ugly you won’t get the girl but if you have a shittt personality the girl will eventually leave you

 

[Deleted member 136057]

Looks are just the starter if ur ugly you won’t get the girl but if you have a shittt personality the girl will eventually leave you

I used to believe this also but not anymore. One of the girls i fell in love with i thought was ugly until we got more close and her personality was so good. We matched well.

After realising that, i think personality has a way bigger impact (if ur a normie) than most people think.

You just need the time to show it, but it has to be natural. If youre trying to fake it and match her, it wont be the same as clicking naturally.

 

[Urfavoritendltn]

I used to believe this also but not anymore. One of the girls i fell in love with i thought was ugly until we got more close and her personality was so good. We matched well.

After realising that, i think personality has a way bigger impact (if ur a normie) than most people think.

You just need the time to show it, but it has to be natural. If youre trying to fake it and match her, it wont be the same as clicking naturally.

I agree

 

[Philalethes]

They aren't
Confidence and charisma may place you 0.05 % ahead but 99.95 % of attraction is looks

Once a plastic surgeon told me I shouldn't look for "perfection beauty", "swedish beauty" because it's not longer fashionable. "People want a flaw but a charismatic flaw, like as big nose or a big chin".

I replied that if I still needed charisma after the surgery, I'm not paying him

 

[Theapeking]

They aren't
Confidence and charisma may place you 0.05 % ahead but 99.95 % of attraction is looks

Once a plastic surgeon told me I shouldn't look for "perfection beauty", "swedish beauty" because it's not longer fashionable. "People want a flaw but a charismatic flaw, like as big nose or a big chin".

I replied that if I still needed charisma after the surgery, I'm not paying him

Biggest cope ever

 

[Theapeking]

Personality > looks