looking good isn't enough to maintain a relationship

[whateverr]

as much as i hate talking about this subject because i sound like that negroid myron gaines .

but looking good won't help you maintain a relationship even if you looked like prime hernan drago if you can't provide money,a car.... , it will reach a point where your partner will eventually be bored out of sex and will actually start thinking about making changes in their lives and looking at other couples and comparing ,you will either get a breakup or if you look good enough you will be seen just as a sex object.

i had to face this reality last year when i got with this girl ,never took her out on dates ,never spent money on her or gave her gifts or anything of that matter, and whenever i asked her why she is staying with me she would tell me "you are hot, it doesn't matter", i did every red flag possible , made every mistake and still she wouldn't leave even after big fights.

at first i didn't think much of it but after a while i realised i was just being used and when i confronted her: she explained to me how i can never make her happy and provide the security and all the other material shit that girls want and that whenever i tried to break up with her and was fed up with her shit she would gaslight into staying just so we can keep having sex nothing more.


thats when i had the realisation that nowadays most girls think this way, because of tiktok ,being chronically online or autistic bilogical reaons i don't know... ,that's why they go with betabuxxers when they grow old and get used by chads and Tyrones in their early twenties.

if you are trying to lead a normal life this shit is actually super black pilled, and no matter how hard you looksmaxx or how good you look it won't be enough for "most" girls.

 

[RecessedCels]

Niggas first post and he thinks he's Aristotle

 

[Deusmaximus]

Every attractive young girl has access to handsome men. Its the absolute minumum to get considered human and visible by them. You also need playboy personality, non needyness, social circle, body, money.

 

[whateverr]

Every attractive young girl has access to handsome men. Its the absolute minumum to get considered human and visible by them. You also need playboy personality, non needyness, social circle, body, money.

absolutely right , spent most of my years thinking that looking good will just be enough , never had the time to develop all the other traits and now im facing the consequences , it's funny how most blackpill creators flame the redpill ideology while it has some truth to it .

 

[GhostBoySwag]

ngl just beat them if they threaten to leave
just kidding dont, accept and understand the reason why they leave
was for something stupid, but its okay bhai if she left you

she wasnt the one i guess
and a man should provide for his girl or family either ways anyways

 

[whateverr]

Niggas first post and he thinks he's Aristotle

, i usually keep these thoughts in my head , the only reason im sharing this is to help others

 

[RecessedCels]

and a man should provide for his girl or family either ways anyways

Fuck that

 

[Darkeningstar]

i had to face this reality last year when i got with this girl ,never took her out on dates ,never spent money on her or gave her gifts or anything of that matter, and whenever i asked her why she is staying with me she would tell me "you are hot, it doesn't matter", i did every red flag possible , made every mistake and still she wouldn't leave even after big fights.

at first i didn't think much of it but after a while i realised i was just being used and when i confronted her: she explained to me how i can never make her happy and provide the security and all the other material shit that girls want and that whenever i tried to break up with her and was fed up with her shit she would gaslight into staying just so we can keep having sex nothing more

I happened to do the same, plus I'm an outcast and it ended in a similar way.
The difference is that I went "er" and, fortunately, the possibility of being fuck buddies also vanished

 

[Clown Show]

Chad looks + dark triad + preselection + constant threat of cheating on her = the bitch will be hooked on you forever.

 

[autistic_tendencies]

I see girls with skinny twinks more than any type of guys

exactly, thats who they're in relationships with. cant be in a relationship with a guy thats highly impulsive, refuses to be in a relationship, gets a bunch of pussy and isnt naive. you have to have someone to talk to / a wallet to drain, who is naive enough to just be home on his computer while you are in the club or wherever cheating. bro i worked in a casino, i talked to women i been around whores i can tell your guys brain is so gone. girls literally bring random guys over the their bfs apartment to fuck them while bf isnt there. 18y old girls are getting fucked by 50y olds in the gym, all girls cheat on their bfs.

 

[whateverr]

Chad looks + dark triad + preselection + constant threat of cheating on her = the bitch will be hooked on you forever.

trust me it has nothing to do with attraction or constant threat of cheating because whenever i would go out with her ,most of her friends where constantly hitting on me and giving me compliments and she was always paranoid about this factor , in the end i actually broke up with her she never tried to leave ,she was so into me physically that she said super blackpilling horrible shit like ; "if i ever got married to another guy , i would cheat on my husband with you" , "im afraid of breaking up with you because i rarely find men attractive and i dont think i could do better than you"

 

[Sovvton]

but looking good won't help you maintain a relationship even if you looked like prime hernan drago if you can't provide money,a car.... , it will reach a point where your partner will eventually be bored out of sex and will actually start thinking about making changes in their lives and looking at other couples and comparing

H2O you can't just be one dimensional in one thing whether its looks, status, money you gotta have multiple things to not get cucked

you will be seen just as a sex object.

You're complaining about this?

i had to face this reality last year when i got with this girl ,never took her out on dates ,never spent money on her or gave her gifts or anything of that matter, and whenever i asked her why she is staying with me she would tell me "you are hot, it doesn't matter", i did every red flag possible , made every mistake and still she wouldn't leave even after big fights.

Niggas complaining that his girl didn't leave him while he was putting minimum effort jfl as long as shes faithful thats a dream situation

at first i didn't think much of it but after a while i realised i was just being used

Low T

and when i confronted her

Low T

she explained to me how i can never make her happy and provide the security and all the other material shit that girls want

1st of all hearing that and staying with her is crazy, 2nd of all you kinda brought it on yourself by not going on one single date with her , 3rd of all... its a bitter pill to swallow but Chad genuinely doesn't need to take her on dates to wife her bud

she would gaslight into staying just so we can keep having sex nothing more.

Low iq that you got gaslight and low T that you don't want sex

thats when i had the realisation that nowadays most girls think this way, because of tiktok ,being chronically online or autistic bilogical reaons i don't know... ,that's why they go with betabuxxers when they grow old and get used by chads and Tyrones in their early twenties.

The thing that makes up roughly 70% of the earth

if you are trying to lead a normal life this shit is actually super black pilled, and no matter how hard you looksmaxx or how good you look it won't be enough for "most" girls.

Someone who is completely normal/average in every possible aspect except being a chadlite lookswise lifemogs everyone to oblivion, looks only cant save you if your situation is super cucked; e.g. giga non nt, broke beyond belief, and even then if you're good looking enough your quality of life in those situations will still better than most people on the planet

FINAL VERDICT: DNR this water ass, Low T ass thread, OP you need to start a carnivore diet or something your testosterone is cooked

 

[whateverr]

H2O you can't just be one dimensional in one thing whether its looks, status, money you gotta have multiple things to not get cucked

You're complaining about this?

Niggas complaining that his girl didn't leave him while he was putting minimum effort jfl as long as shes faithful thats a dream situation

Low T

Low T

1st of all hearing that and staying with her is crazy, 2nd of all you kinda brought it on yourself by not going on one single date with her , 3rd of all... its a bitter pill to swallow but Chad genuinely doesn't need to take her on dates to wife her bud

Low iq that you got gaslight and low T that you don't want sex

The thing that makes up roughly 70% of the earth

Someone who is completely normal/average in every possible aspect except being a chadlite lookswise lifemogs everyone to oblivion, looks only cant save you if your situation is super cucked; e.g. giga non nt, broke beyond belief, and even then if you're good looking enough your quality of life in those situations will still better than most people on the planet

FINAL VERDICT: DNR this water ass, Low T ass thread, OP you need to start a carnivore diet or something your testosterone is cooked

i was obviously having sex and enjoying it but unlike you western degenrate inkwells i strive to have a fulfilling relationship with one partner that goes beyond sex , also Im a broke college student how tf can i take her out on dates .also she stayed she never tried to leave, i did but i can assure you that a psl god couldn't even maintain this relationship it doesn't really matter.

 

[Sovvton]

i was obviously having sex and enjoying it but unlike you western degenrate inkwells i strive to have a fulfilling relationship with one partner that goes beyond sex

Trust me I want that too, its just theres no need to complain

Keep having sex with her, then once you find a girl who you see a serious future with you break up with her and get with that other girl

also Im a broke college student how tf can i take her out on dates

Me too bud thats not an excuse. I take my girl on dates when I can, it doesn't have to be super expensive. Bowling, mini golf, baking together or a cheap lunch will do. As long as they're well adjusted, girls only care about the fact you planned something out for them and how they felt while on the date with you

If she likes you enough you don't even need to pay every time, they'll happily contribute every so often

i can assure you that a psl god couldn't even maintain this relationship it doesn't really matter.

Generally yes, if looks are the only thing you have ownership of in life, you're cooked long term, but no one is that one dimensional.

As long as they have a respectable job (not well paying, just respectable sounding), a place to live and they're nt, I guarantee you a 7 psl guy could get in a serious ltr with the majority of women

Thats just how humans are because it works the same when the roles are reversed, if a girl is attractive enough you wouldn't care at all about what she brings to the table

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Trust me I want that too, its just theres no need to complain

Keep having sex with her, then once you find a girl who you see a serious future with you break up with her and get with that other girl

Me too bud thats not an excuse. I take my girl on dates when I can, it doesn't have to be super expensive. Bowling, mini golf, baking together or a cheap lunch will do. As long as they're well adjusted, girls only care about the fact you planned something out for them and how they felt while on the date with you

If she likes you enough you don't even need to pay every time, they'll happily contribute every so often

Generally yes, if looks are the only thing you have ownership of in life, you're cooked long term, but no one is that one dimensional.

As long as they have a respectable job (not well paying, just respectable sounding), a place to live and they're nt, I guarantee you a 7 psl guy could get in a serious ltr with the majority of women

Thats just how humans are because it works the same when the roles are reversed, if a girl is attractive enough you wouldn't care at all about what she brings to the table

Taking your girl out on dates is only reserved for virgin non whore women
Not those who gave up their body on the first night to Tyrone
OP did the correct thing you don’t treat whore like a house wife!
Hhahahaba

 

[Sovvton]

Taking your girl out on dates is only reserved for virgin non whore women
Not those who gave up their body on the first night to Tyrone
OP did the correct thing you don’t treat whore like a house wife!
Hhahahaba

You shouldn't even think about a relationship with a woman unless shes hqnp