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When people ask me if the things I say about women applies to all women, my answer is yes. My little sister had finished eating her food, I had nearly finished eating (1 bite left). My mum asks my little sister if she wants more food, she replied no. The food was burritos so it takes a while to prepare and wrap up so she was obviously willing to allocate a certain amount of time for my sister. Because my sister refused, I asked if I could have one, she ignores me and goes to the kitchen and prepares burritos for my grandparents (who hadn't eaten yet). At the time I assumed she was also making one for me, she clearly didn't when she served everyone other than me. I asked her why I never got one she just said 'when do I eat'? Which is fine except why tf would she offer for my sister then not do it for me. The act of not making the burrito is insignificant but the difference in treatment between me and my sister is disgusting. It was in front of my grandparents so I couldn't really call her out an start an argument so I just make myself a bowl of rice and beef because I'm to lazy to do all the gay burrito shit. I put the beef in my plate then my mum says I took too much and said I don't think about others. I proceeded to ask everyone in the room if they wanted some of the untouched beef in plate (other than my sister who was in her room and who had refused more food). Everyone said no other than my mum. She hands me a little bowl to put it in and I refused, I said I would put it in the plate she had ate in, she said no, I asked why, she said its for your sister. I said fine because again, I didn't want to start an argument in front of my grandparents. You guys probably imagine my mum just wants me to eat less so I could loose weight or something of the sort, in caring way to improve my health. No. I am 5'11 60kg which is pretty severely underweight. Not only that but, I am in the process of recovering from severe weight loss due to my medical condition (I involuntarily went from 68kg to 54kg in the span of 3 months) she is aware of all this yet proceeds to take what little food I had out of my plate. I don't want to put into words how this favouritism makes me feel. This is obviously off the basis of my looks. My sister goes out every day after school, sometimes arriving home at 1 in the morning (probably after getting fucked) ON A WEEKDAY. She is extremely disrespectful to my mum and acts aggressively towards her. She's been excluded from secondary school more times than she can count (self admittedly). She is extremely ungrateful. She lies repeatedly to mum. My parents have seen video and physical evidence of my sister vaping, drinking alcohol and doing illegal drugs. Just as a note, she's never ever been punished for any of this. Me on the other hand has never been caught doing drugs, I've never been excluded, I never do anything degenerate other than listen to music (with headphones so they don't even know), I have no friends so I can't even go out meaning I only go to the gym and do martial arts in my free time. This event just reflects the dynamic in a clear way. You can read the studies which show parent favouritism, and say something like 'muh, these studies don't apply to me', but in reality, if you are unattractive, not even your parents can love you. My own parents treat me like a subhuman. You're probably thinking I'm being sensitive and the burrito is not a big deal. In a vacuum you are right but this reflects the overall differential treatment, coming from my own mother. I'm tired.
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