looksmaxing will most likely never satisfy me

[Deleted member 1140]

4 years ago i had a friend who kept calling me ugly all the time, i was probably ugly considering i had acne, ugly hair and was 55kg at 176cm height. anyways i had low self esteem as fuck and it still triggers my bdd on and off

a few months after looksmaxing (not through this forum, just regular normie softmaxing like gym, skincare, fashionmaxing etc) i found my first gf at 18. i remember when i posted my pics on /soc/ to get rated, i just wanted to get rated average or 6/10 or smth because i always thought i was ugly.
i actually had decent results, got called 7/10 on most pics.

now 4 years later i get called good looking on a regular basis, got called psl 5.5 on my pics, 9/10 on reddit and approached on the street and im still not fucking satisfied. if i go out in the city or to the beach and dont get at least 2-3 iois by different girls it triggers my bdd so much and ill end up looking for surgeries and shit again

how to get happy guys help

 

[W0KESTMOTHF]

4 years ago i had a friend who kept calling me ugly all the time, i was probably ugly considering i had acne, ugly hair and was 55kg at 176cm height. anyways i had low self esteem as fuck and it still triggers my bdd on and off

a few months after looksmaxing (not through this forum, just regular normie softmaxing like gym, skincare, fashionmaxing etc) i found my first gf at 18. i remember when i posted my pics on /soc/ to get rated, i just wanted to get rated average or 6/10 or smth because i always thought i was ugly.
i actually had decent results, got called 7/10 on most pics.

now 4 years later i get called good looking on a regular basis, got called psl 5.5 on my pics, 9/10 on reddit and approached on the street and im still not fucking satisfied. if i go out in the city or to the beach and dont get at least 2-3 iois by different girls it triggers my bdd so much and ill end up looking for surgeries and shit again

how to get happy guys help

You can't do nothing, the damage was already done when you was ugly as a kid , we can fraud with surgeries and shit but inside we will still feel ugly because of our past

 

[Chad69]

Dn rd

 

[Deleted member 275]

You can't do nothing, the damage was already done when you was ugly as a kid , we can fraud with surgeries and shit but inside we will still feel ugly because of our past

mentalmaxxing

 

[OOGABOOGA]

1. You won’t be satisfied by looking good, but you can be satisfied by what good looks bring you. I’m talking about a wife and kids, not sluts from tinder

2. Develop gratitude and train yourself to think positively. In a journal every morning write 3 things you’re grateful for, try to keep coming up with new ones. Before bed write all the reasons that the day was a good one. Do this and eventually you’ll learn to take the good out of any situation and pretty much always be somewhat happy

 

[Deleted member 1140]

1. You won’t be satisfied by looking good, but you can be satisfied by what good looks bring you. I’m talking about a wife and kids, not sluts from tinder

2. Develop gratitude and train yourself to think positively. In a journal every morning write 3 things you’re grateful for, try to keep coming up with new ones. Before bed write all the reasons that the day was a good one. Do this and eventually you’ll learn to take the good out of any situation and pretty much always be somewhat happy

the problem is that i already got a gf for 4 years that wants to make kids and marry me (tells me daily)

tinder sloots would probably make me
happy rn

 

[Deleted member 2756]

the problem is that i already got a gf for 4 years that wants to make kids and marry me (tells me daily)

>white
>has a girlfriend who wants to make white babies
>isn't fucking happy

I want you dead.

 

[Incoming]

the problem is that i already got a gf for 4 years that wants to make kids and marry me (tells me daily)

tinder sloots would probably make me
happy rn

so you stayed with your first gf for 4 yrs?

If she was a virgin before you met her you might as well marry her

 

[OOGABOOGA]

the problem is that i already got a gf for 4 years that wants to make kids and marry me (tells me daily)

tinder sloots would probably make me
happy rn

Stay with her, develop gratitude and positivity, and yeah get her pregnant. Is she cute, loyal? How old are you both? Are you the only guy she’s been with?

 

[Vitruvian]

Think less

 

[Deleted member 1140]

so you stayed with your first gf for 4 yrs?

If she was a virgin before you met her you might as well marry her

Stay with her, develop gratitude and positivity, and yeah get her pregnant. Is she cute, loyal? How old are you both? Are you the only guy she’s been with?

yea, she was virgin when i met her 4 years ago. kinda regret that i met her now cuz she really is a good gf, i just wish she wasnt the first and only girl i fucked cuz now i think im missing out on smth.

22 and soon 19

 

[Incoming]

yea, she was virgin when i met her 4 years ago. kinda regret that i met her now cuz she really is a good gf, i just wish she wasnt the first and only girl i fucked cuz now i think im missing out on smth.

22 and soon 19

marry her bro

You won't find another like that

 

[OOGABOOGA]

yea, she was virgin when i met her 4 years ago. kinda regret that i met her now cuz she really is a good gf, i just wish she wasnt the first and only girl i fucked cuz now i think im missing out on smth.

22 and soon 19

Dude the whole missing out on something thing going on in the back of your head is exactly what “the Jews” want. Be a good man, marry your jb pair bonded wife, move to the country, and have a lot of babies. That’s the best life there is man. I’ve had drunken hook ups, that life isn’t worth shit

 

[Deleted member 1140]

Dude the whole missing out on something thing going on in the back of your head is exactly what “the Jews” want. Be a good man, marry your jb pair bonded wife, move to the country, and have a lot of babies. That’s the best life there is man. I’ve had drunken hook ups, that life isn’t worth shit

thanks ill keep that in mind next time the thoughts come up

 

[oldcell]

I am the same case and same height

How do u feel about your height? I think its my main flaw, 176 cm, but its ok for 80 percent of females and i never had problems pulling form club

I soft maxed myself but u always wanna better, hedonic tredmill

 

[OOGABOOGA]

thanks ill keep that in mind next time the thoughts come up

Good. And don’t wait too long you should breed this summer honestly. Idk you’re economic situation but empowered, moral poverty mogs hedonistic wealth to oblivion.

 

[Deleted member 1140]

I am the same case and same height

How do u feel about your height? I think its my main flaw, 176 cm, but its ok for 80 percent of females and i never had problems pulling form club

I soft maxed myself but u always wanna better, hedonic tredmill

height doesnt affect me much tbh. might be because i have longish legs and a lean, gymcelled body

i never get called short tbh