Looksmaxxing has broke my self confidence (demanding perfection)

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Just want to throw this out there for the hell of it to see if anyone can relate but since discovering looksmaxxing I feel as if I demand perfection out of my self. I constantly feel unattractive despite being called hot by women directly to my face. I can’t stand the way I look in certain lighting and photos. It is getting to the point where my appearance is the only thing I care about. I have this fascination of being the best looking guy at all times.
 
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Yeah it's normal and happens with almost everyone after learning this

But it will probably pass
 
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you’re one of many victims Iv claimed
 
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Welcome to the club
It should go away in some years.
 
Just want to throw this out there for the hell of it to see if anyone can relate but since discovering looksmaxxing I feel as if I demand perfection out of my self. I constantly feel unattractive despite being called hot by women directly to my face. I can’t stand the way I look in certain lighting and photos. It is getting to the point where my appearance is the only thing I care about. I have this fascination of being the best looking guy at all times.
kinda feel the same sometimes but once i get women validation it goes out the window because thats who i do it for
 
Just want to throw this out there for the hell of it to see if anyone can relate but since discovering looksmaxxing I feel as if I demand perfection out of my self. I constantly feel unattractive despite being called hot by women directly to my face. I can’t stand the way I look in certain lighting and photos. It is getting to the point where my appearance is the only thing I care about. I have this fascination of being the best looking guy at all times.
Attached are pics in case you wanna know more what I look like
 

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Attached are pics in case you wanna know more what I look like
at this point there's not much more you can do bro , you look good and most likely won't be that lonely , stop stressing about it
 
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at this point there's not much more you can do bro , you look good and most likely won't be that lonely , stop stressing about it
Thank you for the compliments this ideology is so fucked up and brutal however there is undeniable truth to it
 
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Thank you for the compliments this ideology is so fucked up and brutal however there is undeniable truth to it
100% once you get into it you can't go back to a normal view of the world. it's a brutal reality so it's hard to live it in a healthy way i definitely feel you
 
100% once you get into it you can't go back to a normal view of the world. it's a brutal reality so it's hard to live it in a healthy way i definitely feel you
It’s very weird and I don’t want to say this from a condescending point of view but I am grateful for the positive attributes that I have. I sometimes look at others whom don’t have as mush as I and think how much that would suck. However they seem to live much happier lives maybe I’m just in my own head too much. Sorry I’m just venting
 
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It’s very weird and I don’t want to say this from a condescending point of view but I am grateful for the positive attributes that I have. I sometimes look at others whom don’t have as mush as I and think how much that would suck. However they seem to live much happier lives maybe I’m just in my own head too much. Sorry I’m just venting
nah i feel you , nowadays i feel much more empathy towards guys who got genuinely fucked by their genetics , i don't think it's condescending tbh it's just life . and yea i think anyone who doesn't get into the blackpill lives a much happier life than someone who does . sometimes ignorance is a gift that you regret losing , i wish i never clicked on a wheat waffles video lmao
 
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nah i feel you , nowadays i feel much more empathy towards guys who got genuinely fucked by their genetics , i don't think it's condescending tbh it's just life . and yea i think anyone who doesn't get into the blackpill lives a much happier life than someone who does . sometimes ignorance is a gift that you regret losing , i wish i never clicked on a wheat waffles video lmao
I will say my appearance has improved significantly since discovering this shit so it’s not all negative. It just made me develop a more negative view of my self which sucks bc improving looks should be positive but ultimately I only want more
 
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I will say my appearance has improved significantly since discovering this shit so it’s not all negative. It just made me develop a more negative view of my self which sucks bc improving looks should be positive but ultimately I only want more
yea it's never enough sadly you'll always want more . i think to get out this mentality you gotta accept at some point you've reached your ceiling and be okay with it , i think i accepted that and i've been looking at life better ever since
 
yea it's never enough sadly you'll always want more . i think to get out this mentality you gotta accept at some point you've reached your ceiling and be okay with it , i think i accepted that and i've been looking at life better ever since
I’m glad to hear that. I hope I’m short I’m I can never return to this hell hole
 
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