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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
 
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I'm sorry OP.
i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
my advice is:
You should just go with the flow. Since she started talking to you again it means that she has some interest in you. Let time do it's thing.
 
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pray
 
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I'm sorry OP.

my advice is:
You should just go with the flow. Since she started talking to you again it means that she has some interest in you. Let time do it's thing.
thats what i was thinking im scared af tho:forcedsmile:
 
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thats what i was thinking im scared af tho:forcedsmile:
dont be scared, the possibility of you fucking things up will be higher
 
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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
White BVLL DNRs this
 
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Honestly man, a woman only leaves you when she feels like she can do better than you. It’s in their nature. To find the best mate they can and then “trap” them with marriage and kids.

She left you and realized that she couldn’t do better. She could’ve slept with countless other men, gone on dates, maybe even told another man she loved him during that time apart (she will never admit any of this by the way, and if she does it will be downplayed heavily). She went back to you because she knew you would taker her back and make her feel special.

She’s playing you, the sad truth man. It fucking sucks don’t get me wrong. It’s happened to me. So I feel for you. Leave her alone man, all she’ll do is spike your cortisol and keep you tied up like a dog. It’s gonna hurt like hell man, but at the end of the day, it’ll make you stronger.
 
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And I say this as a man who “gets bitches” and has “game”. This is an incel forum, so a lot of the advice you receive from other guys are from people simply just not experienced in circumstances with women. Respect your last name, know your worth and walk away.
 
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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
Don't

She's lovebombing you and taking advantage of your vulnerability

You have to ask the question on why she came back to you

Clearly she left because she lost feelings, but where did she go next? Probably to another fuckin guy

From my interpretation of this, she probably came back because you're the only one giving her attention, or who's treated her well, but does she deserve that after she left you to pursue another guy, then realised she's a disgusting piece of shit, so she returned to u

this is love-bombing 101

- Why would she tell you not to fall in-love with her if she "caught feelings again". Obviously because she's guilty, and knows what she's going to do. Just like you masked your comment as a joke, she's done the same

Also just returning and flooding you with all this attention out of absolutely nowhere. All signs point to manipulation my guy.

Do what you want, but it'll end poorly if you play into her bullshit
 
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Don't

She's lovebombing you and taking advantage of your vulnerability

You have to ask the question on why she came back to you

Clearly she left because she lost feelings, but where did she go next? Probably to another fuckin guy

From my interpretation of this, she probably came back because you're the only one giving her attention, or who's treated her well, but does she deserve that after she left you to pursue another guy, then realised she's a disgusting piece of shit, so she returned to u

this is love-bombing 101

- Why would she tell you not to fall in-love with her if she "caught feelings again". Obviously because she's guilty, and knows what she's going to do. Just like you masked your comment as a joke, she's done the same

Also just returning and flooding you with all this attention out of absolutely nowhere. All signs point to manipulation my guy.

Do what you want, but it'll end poorly if you play into her bullshit
thank you man
 
Honestly man, a woman only leaves you when she feels like she can do better than you. It’s in their nature. To find the best mate they can and then “trap” them with marriage and kids.

She left you and realized that she couldn’t do better. She could’ve slept with countless other men, gone on dates, maybe even told another man she loved him during that time apart (she will never admit any of this by the way, and if she does it will be downplayed heavily). She went back to you because she knew you would taker her back and make her feel special.

She’s playing you, the sad truth man. It fucking sucks don’t get me wrong. It’s happened to me. So I feel for you. Leave her alone man, all she’ll do is spike your cortisol and keep you tied up like a dog. It’s gonna hurt like hell man, but at the end of the day, it’ll make you stronger.
thank you genuenly
 
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Manipulation scheme.
Don't fall for it brotha.
 
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Я был с одной девушкой, назовем ее Эмма.
Я встречался с Эммой год, и я очень-очень сильно влюбился в неё, но мы расстались, потому что в какой-то момент она перестала меня любить.
Целый год мы не общались, и вдруг Эмма написала мне сообщение 1 или 2 недели назад.
Просто чтобы вы знали, я до конца не смирилась с этим до сих пор.
Я была в шоке, но в то же время счастлива. Мы переписывались и решили встретиться примерно в час ночи.
С часа до пяти утра у нас был очень глубокий разговор, и я снова почувствовал к ней чувства.
Разговор включал в себя ее плач, признание мной моих прошлых ошибок и т.д.
Честно говоря, это было очень трогательно.
Поэтому мы переписывались каждые несколько дней, но не могли встретиться из-за Нового года и всего остального.
И она заметила, что у меня снова появились чувства.
Она говорит, что у нее нет ко мне ребенка и что ей нравится со мной разговаривать.
Она говорит, что есть шанс, что мы вернемся.
Но я никак не могу этого понять. Она то начинает флиртовать, то переходит к формальным разговорам чуть ли не каждый вечер.
Она говорит, что теперь я "шедевр", потому что исправила все свои ошибки в характере (единственное, что я сделала, это немного повзрослела, ха-ха).
Замаскировав это под шутку, я сказал, что у меня есть предчувствие, что я снова влюблюсь в неё, и что она разобьёт мне сердце, а она ответила: «Не делай этого, бла-бла, не влюбляйся в меня».
Я не знаю, что она делает, мне нужен совет.
Как ты думаешь, какие у неё планы? Что бы ты посоветовал мне сделать?
She wants to cheat on you or something like that. If you don't leave her, you're a complete idiot, bro.
 
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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
What did she do while you two were separated. Could explain why she reached out to you in the first place.
 
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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
DNR

IF SHE ISNT SUCKING UR COCK REINCARNATE AS CHAD
 
What did she do while you two were separated. Could explain why she reached out to you in the first place.
well she had no boyfriend and thats confrimed cause when me and her were tg i got super close with her friends some of which i share classes today with and they all told me she didnt have no one only 1 guy before me. but i see why that would be truth she is really intoverted and doesnt approach dudes like someo other cock wanting foids and she had no intrest ig
 
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Хороший человек, но откуда ты знаешь, что она хочет изменить?
ДFriend, I've been in similar situations more than once, this is the most common outcome, they just want to deceive you or cheat you into something
 
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ДFriend, I've been in similar situations more than once, this is the most common outcome, they just want to deceive you or cheat you into something
thanks man i will think everything trough
 
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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
She’s playing you. Girls laugh about this thing, fuck her
 
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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
She’s leading u on bruh. But there is a way u can still switch it round on her so u can get back together if u wanna know
 
i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
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U gotta attract her back. Try to not seem interested in her, be dry over text, leave her on delivered for hours, talk about other girls ur talking to (even if they’re made up), rarely compliment her, most of the time half insult her, put her on an emotional roller coaster (like be rly rude to her and rly nice to her in the same minute), don’t be afraid of anything with her, don’t shy away from any subject, tell her things straight up with no shame, if she disrespects u get mad at her but not over text (over text u seem desperate and emotional, while in real life u seem dominant). All this may sound like it might put her off but trust me it won’t. Girls don’t like to be treated like this but it always works because it exploits their biology that they can not do anything about. Have u been doing any of these already?
 
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U gotta attract her back. Try to not seem interested in her, be dry over text, leave her on delivered for hours, talk about other girls ur talking to (even if they’re made up), rarely compliment her, most of the time half insult her, put her on an emotional roller coaster (like be rly rude to her and rly nice to her in the same minute), don’t be afraid of anything with her, don’t shy away from any subject, tell her things straight up with no shame, if she disrespects u get mad at her but not over text (over text u seem desperate and emotional, while in real life u seem dominant). All this may sound like it might put her off but trust me it won’t. Girls don’t like to be treated like this but it always works because it exploits their biology that they can not do anything about. Have u been doing any of these already?
w advice dude couldnt have dreamt of this,i get bitches i got rated hmtn on here and im tall so she know i get that attention it will be even more helpful only thing is she is something special to me so it will not be easy btw can tou jus specify the half insult thing
 
w advice dude couldnt have dreamt of this,i get bitches i got rated hmtn on here and im tall so she know i get that attention it will be even more helpful only thing is she is something special to me so it will not be easy btw can tou jus specify the half insult thing
For example if she compliments u, u can reply to her “yeah ur alright” it’s not a full insult but it doesn’t feel like a compliment
 
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For example if she compliments u, u can reply to her “yeah ur alright” it’s not a full insult but it doesn’t feel like a compliment
i love you for this thanks bro
 
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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
Love isnt real, your brain is tricking you
 
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I'm sorry OP.

my advice is:
You should just go with the flow. Since she started talking to you again it means that she has some interest in you. Let time do it's thing.
W advice.
Be open and honest where you can :ogre:
 
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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
DNR, you're just not attractive enough
 
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i was with one girl lets call her emma
i was with emma for one year and i really really fell in love with her but we broke up cause she lost feelings at one point
for a year we were in no contact and emma suddenly wrote me a message 1 or 2 weeks ago
just so yk i didnt fully move on until now
so i was shocked but happy and we were texting and decided to meet up at around 1am
from 1 to 5 in the morning we were having the deepest talk and i got the feelings for her again
the talk involved her crying me admitting my previous mistakes etc
it was really touching ngl
so we kept on texting every few days couldnt really meet up cause of the new years eve and all
and she caught onto me catching feelings again
she says she does not have aby for me and that she loves talking to me
she says that there is a chance we get back tg
but i cant wrap my head around it fr she is switching up from flirting to just formal talknig every other night
she says that now im a "masterpice" because i fixed up all of my mistakes in my personality(only thing i did is mature a bit lol)
masking it as a joke i said that i have a gut feeling that i will fall in love with her again and that she will break my heart and she replid to it saying dont do that bla bla dont fall in love with me
so i dont know what she is doing i need advice
what do you think her plans are what would you say is best for me to do
your asking for love advice from incels my nigga
 
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Oh buddy boyo…

Foids are perfect psychopathic manipulators she is just telling you exactly what you want to hear but being on a string just in case she finds something better last minute, but has you on a leash for fallback. The fact that you were unable to realise this on your own makes me think you might need to just cut your dick off for your own safety as you can not fend for yourself against foids.
 
U gotta attract her back. Try to not seem interested in her, be dry over text, leave her on delivered for hours, talk about other girls ur talking to (even if they’re made up), rarely compliment her, most of the time half insult her, put her on an emotional roller coaster (like be rly rude to her and rly nice to her in the same minute), don’t be afraid of anything with her, don’t shy away from any subject, tell her things straight up with no shame, if she disrespects u get mad at her but not over text (over text u seem desperate and emotional, while in real life u seem dominant). All this may sound like it might put her off but trust me it won’t. Girls don’t like to be treated like this but it always works because it exploits their biology that they can not do anything about. Have u been doing any of these already?
Who let fitxfearless on here :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO:. OP please do not listen to this slop and cut contact.
 

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