Lovey dovey irl and cold in chat

[PseudoMaxxer]

What does this suppose to mean? Why is she this way?

 

[fuxkdakikez]

whore

 

[Deleted member 52452]

how do you even start chatting to women

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

how do you even start chatting to women

I met her by luck, idek why is she still with me

whore

opposite

 

[socialcel]

tbh bro, idk bro

 

[Never Get Up]

I’m going through the same thing means she’s a whore

 

[Tylermax]

That's supposed to be your manipulative tactic idiot not hers

 

[try2beme]

U dont wanna know

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

That's supposed to be your manipulative tactic idiot not hers

I know, but if we both cold in chat it’ll die fast, we need to be opposites.

I’ll be warm in chat and cold irl.

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

U dont wanna know

Please, I do.

I’m going through the same thing means she’s a whore

She doesn’t seem like it.

I know she talks to other guys tho, But I talk to other hoes too.

 

[WayneBraaaah]

What does this suppose to mean? Why is she this way?

her dopamine receptors are just fried with every new TikTok and Insta notification

 

[try2beme]

Please, I do.

She doesn’t seem like it.

I know she talks to other guys tho, But I talk to other hoes too.

when u link she just firms it then gos back to unlimited attention/minimal effort, maybe texting will get better

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

when u link she just firms it then gos back to unlimited attention/minimal effort, maybe texting will get better

We already linked multiple times, irl she’s so cute and shows love for me but through text she’s a dick head.

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

her dopamine receptors are just fried with every new TikTok and Insta notification

never began for her

 

[Tylermax]

I know, but if we both cold in chat it’ll die fast, we need to be opposites.

I’ll be warm in chat and cold irl.

Being warm in chat is feminine and also will repulse her. You need to mirror behaviors not tryana play the opposite in something that will put you in an inferior position anyways. If you wanna play the "opposite" tactic you do this for her values and dumb female opinions (for example if she's pro LGBTQ and shit like that you tell her how it is, you're a conservative male) ---> this creates. hemistry and spices things up. By being the "female" in the relationship you ain't creating balance, you creating cuckening. If she's cold in chat, you stay cold too. Don't be scared that the interest will drop. If she truly likes you she will fold, she's a female they always do. If she doesn't fold, that's good too, you tested her interest and she's not that interested.

If you wanna make this more specific, when you have a Convo with her in chat, remember who was the one who initiated it. If she did then okay you send her something if you did and the convo ended, you don't open up the convo again yourself you wait for her no matter what. Now let's say you chatting, you vibe (I don't say to be cold from the get go) but if the vibe isn't reciprocating by her side, you shouldn't try more, in fact you should mirror her, in fact you should even show more indifference and coldness than her.

 

[Klasik616]

What does this suppose to mean? Why is she this way?

It's the opposite for me. What does this mean? How is she so cold in real life but in text she seems interested. Is she typing the words with a serious face? Probably she doesn't have anything more to do right.

 

[Tylermax]

Please, I do.

She doesn’t seem like it.

I know she talks to other guys tho, But I talk to other hoes too.

Actually forget it. I would cut her off if I knew that. Could never be me. You are a cuck little bro

 

[Tylermax]

It's the opposite for me. What does this mean? How is she so cold in real life but in text she seems interested. Is she typing the words with a serious face? Probably she doesn't have anything more to do right.

That is an attention whore my friend.

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

Being warm in chat is feminine and also will repulse her. You need to mirror behaviors not tryana play the opposite in something that will put you in an inferior position anyways. If you wanna play the "opposite" tactic you do this for her values and dumb female opinions (for example if she's pro LGBTQ and shit like that you tell her how it is, you're a conservative male) ---> this creates. hemistry and spices things up. By being the "female" in the relationship you ain't creating balance, you creating cuckening. If she's cold in chat, you stay cold too. Don't be scared that the interest will drop. If she truly likes you she will fold, she's a female they always do. If she doesn't fold, that's good too, you tested her interest and she's not that interested.

If you wanna make this more specific, when you have a Convo with her in chat, remember who was the one who initiated it. If she did then okay you send her something if you did and the convo ended, you don't open up the convo again yourself you wait for her no matter what. Now let's say you chatting, you vibe (I don't say to be cold from the get go) but if the vibe isn't reciprocating by her side, you shouldn't try more, in fact you should mirror her, in fact you should even show more indifference and coldness than her.

holy shit, what a fucking advice.

Thank you so much bro, this made me less anxious. I know what to do now.

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

Actually forget it. I would cut her off if I knew that. Could never be me. You are a cuck little bro

She’s a nerd and a loser, she’s the typical femcel.

She has 2 guys that like her that keep texting her and she likes the attention but never meets with them.

 

[Tylermax]

She’s a nerd and a loser, she’s the typical femcel.

She has 2 guys that like her that keep texting her and she likes the attention but never meets with them.

So that's even more disrespectful to you. She goes out with you but still wants other dudes' attention? I'd cut her off yesterday especially if she's cold in text like you say. So she's going out with you, but she's cold in texts and texts other dudes as well? Lmao if I fucked already I would leave

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

So that's even more disrespectful to you. She goes out with you but still wants other dudes' attention? I'd cut her off yesterday especially if she's cold in text like you say. So she's going out with you, but she's cold in texts and texts other dudes as well? Lmao if I fucked already I would leave

Didnt fuck already, she’s 99.9% virgin so I need that pussy.

Once I hit, im done.

 

[Never Get Up]

Always copy what a woman does and she’ll want you if she likes you. You have to show you have OPTIONS and she can be replaced. Never give the woman power over you by you putting more effort into her than she does to you.

For example, if she doesn’t call or text you often, don’t call her.

Apply this for any situation with a female

 

[Deleted member 52946]

Being warm in chat is feminine and also will repulse her. You need to mirror behaviors not tryana play the opposite in something that will put you in an inferior position anyways. If you wanna play the "opposite" tactic you do this for her values and dumb female opinions (for example if she's pro LGBTQ and shit like that you tell her how it is, you're a conservative male) ---> this creates. hemistry and spices things up. By being the "female" in the relationship you ain't creating balance, you creating cuckening. If she's cold in chat, you stay cold too. Don't be scared that the interest will drop. If she truly likes you she will fold, she's a female they always do. If she doesn't fold, that's good too, you tested her interest and she's not that interested.

If you wanna make this more specific, when you have a Convo with her in chat, remember who was the one who initiated it. If she did then okay you send her something if you did and the convo ended, you don't open up the convo again yourself you wait for her no matter what. Now let's say you chatting, you vibe (I don't say to be cold from the get go) but if the vibe isn't reciprocating by her side, you shouldn't try more, in fact you should mirror her, in fact you should even show more indifference and coldness than her.

its not worth it if you have to do all these calculations bro lol

 

[Tylermax]

Didnt fuck already, she’s 99.9% virgin so I need that pussy.

Once I hit, im done.

Try to put a time limit to that as well my friend. You don't want to get dragged into this for too long. Trust me, thinking of wasted time trying to pursue, persuade, seduce lasts longer in your head than the short pleasure of fucking her

 

[Tylermax]

its not worth it if you have to do all these calculations bro lol

They are not calculations, it's simple logic. Simple logic. Think about it

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

Try to put a time limit to that as well my friend. You don't want to get dragged into this for too long. Trust me, thinking of wasted time trying to pursue, persuade, seduce lasts longer in your head than the short pleasure of fucking her

How tho, we are still not even officially boyfriend and girlfriend.

She’s very conservative and told me multiple times she believes in sex after marriage JFL.

I think the first step would be to make our relationship official, but how do I do that? Do you have some Idea?

I just know I don’t have to ask it, no way. I have to bring her to ask me “what are we” or sum like that, or to tell me that she’s in love.

 

[Deleted member 57464]

why cant i interact with girls?

 

[Tylermax]

How tho, we are still not even officially boyfriend and girlfriend.

She’s very conservative and told me multiple times she believes in sex after marriage JFL.

I think the first step would be to make our relationship official, but how do I do that? Do you have some Idea?

I just know I don’t have to ask it, no way. I have to bring her to ask me “what are we” or sum like that, or to tell me that she’s in love.

Alright I understand the situation and I take into consideration that you and the girl are propably young and it's perfectly fine but always remember that just like there is this girl that she's a virgin at the same time there's a girl next door, her age, who's taking dick back and forth like there's no tomorrow. So if she tries to play the tactic of demonizing sex or selling it to you as something that is sacred and special and should be saved till marriage don't fall for it. Actually imo you shouldn't even have conversations with her about sex. I don't know how long you been dating her, if it was me I would escalate sex (if I could bring her over or get to her place) or at least something more advanced (handjob, blowjob even in public) at least at the 3rd time I'm seeing her. It's completely normal and justifiable to want sex and wanna escalate this and don't fall for the bullshit of "it's too soon". Actually just because it's too soon it makes sense, if you don't fuck in the beginning where the attraction is high and you both are excited do you think waiting till fucking marriage the sex will be any better? It makes no fucking sense lmao. I wouldn't wanna argue about her for that, as I said I would escale, if she stopped me I would be chill and careless but I would still pull back from messaging her etc. 9/10 she will text you asking why you pull back, if you're smart you will manipulate her by telling her "I don't think we match as I thought we did, I want something different) you won't cut her off completely but you will show your disinterest.

About the relationship thing you asking, what makes you think if you two get into one she will open her legs? Also you proposing that is a no no. What has she made to make you ask for a relationship? Wanting a relationship from her is the ultimate validation in her eyes. You just told me she's cold in texts, she hasn't even sucked your dick and you thinking that going for a relationship is a good idea? Bro i know not everyone has many options and I know having a girl's interest is a good validation and a nice thing but realize that you want things to go logically no matter what. Don't get into emotional thoughts

 

[Tylermax]

why cant i interact with girls?

Tell me your situation I'll try to help

 

[Deleted member 56659]

why cant i interact with girls?

I relate to u , we dont have sexhaver problems like this

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

Alright I understand the situation and I take into consideration that you and the girl are propably young and it's perfectly fine but always remember that just like there is this girl that she's a virgin at the same time there's a girl next door, her age, who's taking dick back and forth like there's no tomorrow. So if she tries to play the tactic of demonizing sex or selling it to you as something that is sacred and special and should be saved till marriage don't fall for it. Actually imo you shouldn't even have conversations with her about sex. I don't know how long you been dating her, if it was me I would escalate sex (if I could bring her over or get to her place) or at least something more advanced (handjob, blowjob even in public) at least at the 3rd time I'm seeing her. It's completely normal and justifiable to want sex and wanna escalate this and don't fall for the bullshit of "it's too soon". Actually just because it's too soon it makes sense, if you don't fuck in the beginning where the attraction is high and you both are excited do you think waiting till fucking marriage the sex will be any better? It makes no fucking sense lmao. I wouldn't wanna argue about her for that, as I said I would escale, if she stopped me I would be chill and careless but I would still pull back from messaging her etc. 9/10 she will text you asking why you pull back, if you're smart you will manipulate her by telling her "I don't think we match as I thought we did, I want something different) you won't cut her off completely but you will show your disinterest.

About the relationship thing you asking, what makes you think if you two get into one she will open her legs? Also you proposing that is a no no. What has she made to make you ask for a relationship? Wanting a relationship from her is the ultimate validation in her eyes. You just told me she's cold in texts, she hasn't even sucked your dick and you thinking that going for a relationship is a good idea? Bro i know not everyone has many options and I know having a girl's interest is a good validation and a nice thing but realize that you want things to go logically no matter what. Don't get into emotional thoughts

You are absolutely right about everything.

We’ve been seeing each other for more than 1 month now, no sex but i’m escalating slowly. This saturday we slept together on the same bed and she hopped over me and we made out, gave her a massage and I was touching her boobs and ass all the time (before she was even shy to do that).

I like her ngl, I just hate the fact That we can see each others only once (or twice if I sleep less on one day due to work) a week, and that when we talk during the week she’s cold.

We even wanted to do a FT call but I told I was not gonna call her first, no way. I’ve been putting way more effort than her because she’s “shy”, i’ve texted her first and shit.

So as of now, I want to get in a relationship with her, but as you said this makes no sense. She didn’t give me anything concrete (other than the fact that she likes me and she told me that) that would make me want a relationship from her.

I even believe I’m almost in love with her (or I was), but everytime she does this bullshit of being cold and showing no interest I get the ick. If she showed me more i’d like her more, but like now I didn’t text her this morning and she still didn’t, JFL i’m gonna wait till noon when she realizes i’m not texting her and she’ll text (already happened).

And I believe that being officially together would make the idea of sex better in her mind “sex with my boyfriend” opposed to “hooking up with a guy i’m seeing”. But that could just be my inexperience.

 

[Tylermax]

You are absolutely right about everything.

We’ve been seeing each other for more than 1 month now, no sex but i’m escalating slowly. This saturday we slept together on the same bed and she hopped over me and we made out, gave her a massage and I was touching her boobs and ass all the time (before she was even shy to do that).

I like her ngl, I just hate the fact That we can see each others only once (or twice if I sleep less on one day due to work) a week, and that when we talk during the week she’s cold.

We even wanted to do a FT call but I told I was not gonna call her first, no way. I’ve been putting way more effort than her because she’s “shy”, i’ve texted her first and shit.

So as of now, I want to get in a relationship with her, but as you said this makes no sense. She didn’t give me anything concrete (other than the fact that she likes me and she told me that) that would make me want a relationship from her.

I even believe I’m almost in love with her (or I was), but everytime she does this bullshit of being cold and showing no interest I get the ick. If she showed me more i’d like her more, but like now I didn’t text her this morning and she still didn’t, JFL i’m gonna wait till noon when she realizes i’m not texting her and she’ll text (already happened).

And I believe that being officially together would make the idea of sex better in her mind “sex with my boyfriend” opposed to “hooking up with a guy i’m seeing”. But that could just be my inexperience.

Alright bro I've read everything you say. But see through the contradiction of this situation. You telling me that she saves sex till marriage yet she's still doing sexual things with you like hopping on you on the bed and letting you touch her sexually. Realistically how far and how different is that from just opening her legs? Not so much. If she legit wanted to save herself till marriage (which is a bullshit cope imo, I can only think of girls who seriously believe that is a very very tiny minority, most likely nuns or church girls) she wouldn't even put herself into this place of being in a bed with you and being seduced, she would just let you take her out for walks in the park and shit like that. Honestly I believe she's just making you wait just for the fun and sake of it and it is not bad because sex on itself is a whatever thing but it's actually bad for the sole reason of playing with your common sense in a way. A relationship can't advance if you haven't taken it to the next level (sex) and also showing that you want it isn't bad as well. Don't demonize sex into your brain and don't let her do that to you as well.

The last thing you say even if I understand your point of view I can rephrase it as such : if she does want to have sex with you and her only restriction is that this thing you two have isn't something "official" so therefore she don't wanna be labeled as a whore (even though that's stupid cuz most girls nowadays fuck without even in a relationship anyway) she still should be the one who has to ask for the relationship, NOT YOU. You don't have a problem fucking without having a relationship therefore why you should ask for one? Again you trying to do things and think things you don't want just to satisfy her desires (which can be hypothetical anyway). All in all in my opinion you should just do what you wanna do, stop thinking what she would like and do what you want in the moment, if she stops you be respectful but still pullback and show disinterest and hopefully she will open up to take it to the next level if she doesn't realize you just saved your time and she wouldn't be down for sex even if you tried the cuck approach. Because it's a cuck approach to go for something actually serious (relationship) for something that isn't serious and shouldn't be (sex)

 

[chadmanlet04]

Low T

imagine being lovey dovey to a girl who slurped cock and was involved in gangbangs where men disrespected every hole of hers

lovey dovey pill is only for virgins, which doesn’t exist after women turn 14

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

Low T

imagine being lovey dovey to a girl who slurped cock and was involved in gangbangs where men disrespected every hole of hers

lovey dovey pill is only for virgins, which doesn’t exist after women turn 14

I agree

 

[moreroidsmoredates]

What does this suppose to mean? Why is she this way?

Means she is talking with other guys

 

[PseudoMaxxer]

Means she is talking with other guys

I know