Making friends is hard for me because I expect people to approach me first

[Deleted member 2846]

All the friends I’ve made have either been through sports, people inviting me to hang with them, or getting “adopted” into a friend group

Making friends in college is hard for me bros

 

[Deleted member 2581]

yea you gotta go out and get it in college

join social clubs or groups frequent the cafe for any events and get involved in your schools community

if you want even join a fraternity

i sometimes use meetme or apps like that to meet people tbh

talk to people who seem chill in class its not high school people will actual be ok with you talking to them lol

 

[fukmylyf]

Same. I also wasted opportunities because I didn't feel cool enough to chill with the people who reached out to me.

 

[Deleted member 685]

All the friends I’ve made have either been through sports, people inviting me to hang with them, or getting “adopted” into a friend group

Making friends in college is hard for me bros

Wanna be friends?

 

[toolateforme]

I actually always approach. No matter girl or dude. I even talk on subway to random person. I just cant care less about those shit since I almost killed myself

 

[xit]

Yeah i almost never initiate conversation

 

[Deleted member 2846]

yea you gotta go out and get it in college

join social clubs or groups frequent the cafe for any events and get involved in your schools community

if you want even join a fraternity

i sometimes use meetme or apps like that to meet people tbh

Yeah, I know, I joined a spikeball club and there’s a practice today so I’m going to that. It’s hard because I heard all the people hanging out and chilling in their dorms but Im such an introvert at first it’s hard to get myself out there if there’s not an “excuse” to talk to people (like class, sports, clubs)

I suicide rushed the most popular frat here and I got invited to the “invite only” event but I legit didn’t talk to enough people because I thought I would get in because I knew the recruit president LOL. Plus, frats aren’t really my thing tbh.

 

[UnderCovrN0rmie]

i bet 99% of people think this way, just saying

 

[Deleted member 2581]

Yeah, I know, I joined a spikeball club and there’s a practice today so I’m going to that. It’s hard because I heard all the people hanging out and chilling in their dorms but Im such an introvert at first it’s hard to get myself out there if there’s not an “excuse” to talk to people (like class, sports, clubs)

I suicide rushed the most popular frat here and I got invited to the “invite only” event but I legit didn’t talk to enough people because I thought I would get in because I knew the recruit president LOL. Plus, frats aren’t really my thing tbh.

yeah man its rough the first year in it took me three months to build a sizable friend group but it just escalates after that cause people keep introducing me to people

your already taking steps just keep doing it till you find some people you actually like

 

[Deleted member 2846]

yeah man its rough the first year in it took me three months to build a sizable friend group but it just escalates after that cause people keep introducing me to people

your already taking steps just keep doing it till you find some people you actually like

Lol thing is I’m a sophomore jfl. I have some acquaintances but not an actual solid friend group ya know

 

[godsmistake]

i never initiate cause i don’t want to be ridiculed, i know my place

 

[Deleted member 2581]

Lol thing is I’m a sophomore jfl. I have some acquaintances but not an actual solid friend group ya know

oof yeah you gotta hope on that fast if your a sophomore cause you know how friend groups get built up during the first two years

 

[Deleted member 2846]

Wanna be friends?

I actually always approach. No matter girl or dude. I even talk on subway to random person. I just cant care less about those shit since I almost killed myself

Near death experiences change a lot of people. Good on you though

 

[MammothActuary]

Well you might remember from before but I was struggling to make friends in college. Now, I just started talking to people and asking to hang out and I have made around 10 friends that way. But the problem is I'm always the one asking to hang out and they don't ask me out.

 

[Jagged0]

Just ask then If they want to bonemass together

 

[Deleted member 2846]

Well you might remember from before but I was struggling to make friends in college. Now, I just started talking to people and asking to hang out and I have made around 10 friends that way. But the problem is I'm always the one asking to hang out and they don't ask me out.

That’s the thing. People don’t really ask to hang, I always do it. Maybe I’m not close enough with them yet for them to feel comfortable

 

[Deleted member 2119]

But the problem is I'm always the one asking to hang out and they don't ask me out.

Then they are not friends.

I actually always approach. No matter girl or dude. I even talk on subway to random person. I just cant care less about those shit since I almost killed myself

The eventual harassment charges will really push you to suicide.

 

[fukmylyf]

i bet 99% of people think this way, just saying

DED SRS?

 

[UnderCovrN0rmie]

DED SRS?

yeah, as well as everybody thinks that everybody knows about the ketchup stain on their pants, or everyone is staring at their acne

they're really not

 

[Butthurt Dweller]

Op is definitely a bottom. Wear shorter shorts you will make more "friends" soon

 

[Time Travel]

Same tbh.
It's not that I expect them to approach tho, it's more that I'm too shy to do it