Making friends or joining social circles after school is so fucking hard.

[Hozay]

My only type of social interaction I have now is discord, xbox online friends, and this forum. Everyone is so closed off and won't let you join their social circle irl. its brutal, doesn't matter if you're good looking either, because i've had girlfriends but when you missed out on making social circles in school YOU'RE FUCKED. I should of social circled maxxed in highschool but instead I was skipping too much and stayed home/turned away offers. My only hope is getting a girlfriend and making friends through her. It would be awkward as fuck messaging my old good friends from HS to hang out, out of nowhere after not hanging out for years. It's over for me

 

[Deleted member 6095]

You are gonna have to make an effort to literally strike up conversations with everyone ngl.

 

[Deleted member 9699]

Last year I started hanging out a bit with this group of guys. They knew each other for 8 years while I just met them.

I thought we were close, but slowly I began to feel as though I'm no one's friend. Sad shit ngl but its impossible to join an already established group of friends.

 

[Hozay]

Last year I started hanging out a bit with this group of guys. They knew each other for 8 years while I just met them.

I thought we were close, but slowly I began to feel as though I'm no one's friend. Sad shit ngl but its impossible to join an already established group of friends.

Yeah because you don't understand all the inside jokes and shit, ppl just aren't welcoming if you weren't there from the start

 

[Hozay]

You are gonna have to make an effort to literally strike up conversations with everyone ngl.

Thats whats its gonna have to come down to bro, i'm introverted but it would be nice to hang out with a group of friends that you relate to. Desperate times call for desperate measures

 

[Deleted member 8771]

Legit, i'm an international student and i was litechad in my country with decent social circle but here i just rot all day inside because i couldn't make any real friends in uni, no one talks to each other and things are getting even worse because of the virus

 

[Hozay]

Legit, i'm an international student and i was litechad in my country with decent social circle but here i just rot all day inside because i couldn't make any real friends in uni, no one talks to each other and things are getting even worse because of the virus

it's over for us bro. At this point we just need to pray to god we get lucky or something ngl

 

[Matthias8272]

Yea you have to get invited to parties or it's over

 

[Deleted member 8771]

it's over for us bro. At this point we just need to pray to god we get lucky or something ngl

Legit tbh, if anyone here have any tips on how to start from zero i'm listening because it's already been one full year of loneliness for me and i don't wanna end up roping .

 

[Deleted member 6217]

you dont need friends and i dont even want them i have always rejected hanging out with them

 

[sytyl]

I'm glad I am still tight with my highschool friends. Nobody I made "friends" with in uni or work are actual worthwhile friends. Are you not friends with anyone at all at your workplace?

 

[Matthias8272]

Last year I started hanging out a bit with this group of guys. They knew each other for 8 years while I just met them.

I thought we were close, but slowly I began to feel as though I'm no one's friend. Sad shit ngl but its impossible to join an already established group of friends.

You can join, I invited a fatcel into my group because I felt bad for him, he looksmaxxed and became more established than me after 5 years in social circle, then broke contact after he got status. It's better to just not let people in social circle

 

[Looks234]

Cap

 

[Lux]

Exact same situation. My only hope is to looksmax & lsd max & get a fresh start in college.

 

[sytyl]

get a fresh start in college

easiest time to do it, join a frat unironically

 

[Hozay]

Exact same situation. My only hope is to looksmax & lsd max & get a fresh start in college.

Goodluck in college dude fr, socialmaxx fucking hard no matter what. Hopefully I make some good friends when I join the military otherwise its fucking over for us.

 

[Hozay]

I'm glad I am still tight with my highschool friends. Nobody I made "friends" with in uni or work are actual worthwhile friends. Are you not friends with anyone at all at your workplace?

Don't have a real job atm, joining the army, thats my last hope to make good life long friends.

 

[Hozay]

you dont need friends and i dont even want them i have always rejected hanging out with them

Yeah i honestly don't want many, i'm introverted like i said, but having a few at most 4 close irl friends would be pretty nice ngl.

 

[Deleted member 6186]

How can you honestly be friends with people you met after 20?

Most of the interesting stuff that happens in a person's life is up to their early 20s. And you weren't a part of it nor there to even witness it.

 

[Lux]

Hopefully I make some good friends when I join the military otherwise its fucking over for us.

hope things work out bro. I could never do the military after watching full metal jacket.

 

[Hozay]

How can you honestly be friends with people you met after 20?

Most of the interesting stuff that happens in a person's life is up to their early 20s. And you weren't a part of it nor there to even witness it.

It's a fucking wrap for me

 

[Deleted member 3299]

lmfao at that kane video

 

[Hozay]

lmfao at that kane video

jfl cracks me up everytime

 

[Deleted member 9355]

I have friends from hs but all incels. One just told me about reading ERs manifesto jfl
I just want some normal friend. Normal

 

[Hozay]

I have friends from hs but all incels. One just told me about reading ERs manifesto jfl
I just want some normal friend. Normal

rather have incels then no one LMAO

 

[Deleted member 9355]

rather have incels then no one LMAO

How can you even have noone tbh I don't know anyone like that

 

[Gonthar]

How old are you, you could always go to college/university and make new friends there.
Making friends at the workplace is tricky, many already have a circle of friends or they are married, older, there could be a competition and rivalry in work, only certain workplaces where mostly young people work are suitable for making new friends.

 

[Hozay]

How old are you, you could always go to college/university and make new friends there.
Making friends at the workplace is tricky, many already have a circle of friends or they are married, older, there could be a competition and rivalry in work, only certain workplaces where mostly young people work are suitable for making new friends.

21, Joining the army, thats my best bet to join a new social circle tbh

 

[Hozay]

How can you even have noone tbh I don't know anyone like that

I had good friends in highschool, i have them on snapchat and shit, but its not like im gonna message them out of nowhere and be "yo wanna hang out" after years of not chilling. it'll just be awkward tbh, and i do have one friend but we're not really close like that.

 

[Deleted member 9355]

I had good friends in highschool, i have them on snapchat and shit, but its not like im gonna message them out of nowhere and be "yo wanna hang out" after years of not chilling. it'll just be awkward tbh, and i do have one friend but we're not really close like that.

May god floppa help you son. I'll try to make friends when uni starts fresh shit

 

[Hozay]

May god floppa help you son. I'll try to make friends when uni starts fresh shit

Thank you bro. You should be good in uni, i heard its harder in college because everyone is so closed off, fucking coronavirus just makes everything worse right now too.

 

[Deleted member 9355]

Thank you bro. You should be good in uni, i heard its harder in college because everyone is so closed off, fucking coronavirus just makes everything worse right now too.

Yeah corona had to be a thing when I'm about to start uni jfl. I thought uni and college were the same thing btw

 

[Hozay]

Yeah corona had to be a thing when I'm about to start uni jfl. I thought uni and college were the same thing btw

ye same shit lol

 

[Gonthar]

21, Joining the army, thats my best bet to join a new social circle tbh

There are only guys there...

 

[Deleted member 3997]

Last year I started hanging out a bit with this group of guys. They knew each other for 8 years while I just met them.

I thought we were close, but slowly I began to feel as though I'm no one's friend. Sad shit ngl but its impossible to join an already established group of friends.

Same shit man, it's tearing me up at college/uni.

 

[TUSSELEIF]

It is tbh. And it is lonely af. I hope I can make some friends soon, someone who accepts me and doesn’t throw me in the fucking trashcan like all other scum in the past have

 

[Hozay]

It is tbh. And it is lonely af. I hope I can make some friends soon, someone who accepts me and doesn’t throw me in the fucking trashcan like all other scum subhuman people

id be your friend irl man

 

[TUSSELEIF]

id be your friend irl man

Thanks bro

 

[Deleted member 9837]

I’m lucky because I still have high school social circle and my college circle

if anything corona made my high school social circle tighter from everyone staying in their hometown and not going to college. So it’s funnily high school basically again.

I’ve met a few people off discord actually a ton are in my area.

Besides that since I’m luckily extroverted I usually find people to talk to just out and about Got a few friends I still hang with from that.

 

[Deleted member 9837]

Op do you have your own place? This helped me socially a LOT

 

[Deleted member 4612]

yeah you literally need to have a perfect start to life or its over

 

[MammothActuary]

PM me if anyone wants to chat

 

[TheChosenChad]

Its tough nigga