Making someone self aware makes YOU their enemy

[Seth Walsh]

Making someone self-aware can make you their enemy because it forces them to confront uncomfortable truths about themselves that they may be unwilling or unprepared to face. Self-awareness often requires acknowledging flaws, weaknesses, or contradictions that people might prefer to ignore. When you challenge someone's self-perception, you're disrupting their sense of security and identity, which can lead to resentment or hostility towards you.

The power behind this statement lies in its ability to reveal the dynamics of human nature. People often resist change, especially when it comes to deeply ingrained beliefs or behaviors. By making someone self-aware, you're pushing them into a state of cognitive dissonance, where they must either change or defend their current self-image. Most will defend, and in doing so, they may perceive you as a threat rather than a help, turning you into their enemy. This truth underscores the delicate balance required in relationships and personal growth, where guiding someone to self-awareness must be done with great care, or it can backfire.

 

[PROMETHEUS]

Fully Agreed

The last girl I briefly dated was a feminist whose view of the world was completely warped and incorrect

Being intellectually superior, I explained to her in explicit detail how her feminist views have specifically affected her life negatively, such as her decision to be independent despite being past her prime

The last time I saw her, she told me she had recently been crying (I assume based on the fact that my comments made her re-evaluate her entire life)

Due to lacking empathy, I told her that crying is weak AF and left it there

She tried to meet up again but I cancelled last minute

This was 6 weeks ago

Haven’t messaged her since

 

[kaligula567]

Yeah @PROMETHEUS how do you feel sharing title with @enchanted_elixir

 

[PROMETHEUS]

Yeah @PROMETHEUS how do you feel sharing title with @enchanted_elixir

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I feel embarrassed to share what was once an honourable title with a shit-poster

 

[Seth Walsh]

Fully Agreed

The last girl I briefly dated was a feminist whose view of the world was completely warped and incorrect

Being intellectually superior, I explained to her in explicit detail how her feminist views have specifically affected her life negatively, such as her decision to be independent despite being past her prime

The last timeI saw her, she told me she had recently been crying (I assume based on the fact that my comments made her re-evaluate her entire life)

Due to lacking empathy, I told her that crying is weak AF and left it there

She tried to meet up again but I cancelled last minute

This was 6 weeks ago

Haven’t messaged her since

Let some guy who's not going to fuck a girl make her self aware. "If you keep doing this where do you think you'll end up in 5 years?". "Hey you can't walk around this apartment complex in those booty shorts, guys will get the wrong idea".

It's funny that introspective and intelligent guys will say stuff like this to a girl they're in love with, or a friend who they care for so much; but it's ALWAYS the wrong thing to do. Making anyone self aware in the slightest is an aspie trait. It's sad because most people who try to help others from a deeper point of view recognize themselves as being honest, helpful and caring; but it is ALWAYS perceived oppositely.

That's kinda why I made this thread. People need to be cautious about saying simple stuff that'd make another person more self aware or self conscious, even if it objectively seems like it's for the better.

 

[Seth Walsh]

Making someone self-aware can make you their enemy because it forces them to confront uncomfortable truths about themselves that they may be unwilling or unprepared to face. Self-awareness often requires acknowledging flaws, weaknesses, or contradictions that people might prefer to ignore. When you challenge someone's self-perception, you're disrupting their sense of security and identity, which can lead to resentment or hostility towards you.

The power behind this statement lies in its ability to reveal the dynamics of human nature. People often resist change, especially when it comes to deeply ingrained beliefs or behaviors. By making someone self-aware, you're pushing them into a state of cognitive dissonance, where they must either change or defend their current self-image. Most will defend, and in doing so, they may perceive you as a threat rather than a help, turning you into their enemy. This truth underscores the delicate balance required in relationships and personal growth, where guiding someone to self-awareness must be done with great care, or it can backfire.

Basically don't try to mog other guys either. Don't boast, be arrogant, or tell others where they can improve. EVEN if someone directly asks you how they can improve in a certain area, in anything; give a short answer and be light on the detail. If you don't make them more self aware too fast, they will like you more; and it's always better to have more allies and people who like you.

 

[PROMETHEUS]

Let some guy who's not going to fuck a girl make her self aware. "If you keep doing this where do you think you'll end up in 5 years?". "Hey you can't walk around this apartment complex in those booty shorts, guys will get the wrong idea".

It's funny that introspective and intelligent guys will say stuff like this to a girl they're in love with, or a friend who they care for so much; but it's ALWAYS the wrong thing to do. Making anyone self aware in the slightest is an aspie trait. It's sad because most people who try to help others from a deeper point of view recognize themselves as being honest, helpful and caring; but it is ALWAYS perceived oppositely.

That's kinda why I made this thread. People need to be cautious about saying simple stuff that'd make another person more self aware or self conscious, even if it objectively seems like it's for the better.

I would give away all my earthy possessions if I could find out the objective truths about myself, since this will be my quickest path to overall life success

So, whenever I’m in a position to give someone else objective truth that is certain to significantly improve their life, I always feel it’s my moral obligation

Last guy from my work was a sub-5 ogre who lucked out by getting an attractive GF at a young age. She broke up with him now that they’re older since she now knows her value

Being blackpilled, I told him to forget about ever getting back with her and even went as far as to tell him that she’s been on a cock carousel since the weeks they’ve been apart

“No, she’s not like that. She’s been going to therapy and hasn’t been speaking with anyone”, he replied

That fool though an attractive woman is in bed all alone at 9pm on a friday

Needless to say that’s another person I haven’t kept in touch with

For people who I have very little opinion of, such as that feminist and that guy, I have no problems being brutally honest with them at the cost of friendship

Clearly, I wouldn’t exercise this level of honesty in a business setting where I actually care about maintaining a professional relationship for my own selfish benefit

 

[shizuku11111]

obv nigga, you basically just give them new insecurity

 

[Seth Walsh]

I would give away all my earthy possessions if I could find out the objective truths about myself, since this will be my quickest path to overall life success

So, whenever I’m in a position to give someone else objective truth that is certain to significantly improve their life, I always feel it’s my moral obligation

Last guy from my work was a sub-5 ogre who lucked out by getting an attractive GF at a young age. She broke up with him now that they’re older since she now knows her value

Being blackpilled, I told him to forget about ever getting back with her and even went as far as to tell him that she’s been on a cock carousel since the weeks they’ve been apart

“No, she’s not like that. She’s been going to therapy and hasn’t been speaking with anyone”, he replied

That fool though an attractive woman is in bed all alone at 9pm on a friday

Needless to say that’s another person I haven’t kept in touch with

For people who I have very little opinion of, such as that feminist and that guy, I have no problems being brutally honest with them at the cost of friendship

Clearly, I wouldn’t exercise this level of honesty in a business setting where I actually care about maintaining a professional relationship for my own selfish benefit

I feel you. Very similar stuff happened with me lol.

 

[PROMETHEUS]

I feel you. Very similar stuff happened with me lol.

Story

 

[Seth Walsh]

Story

Well I literally had the feminist debate with a chick who liked me too

Never told a guy that his gf is probably sleeping around but stuff in the past like even suggesting a friend that his failures on OLD was because "his pictures weren't good" (didn't even mention looks), instead of saying that he was running the wrong "opener", or that his mouthpiece wasn't crisp enough, led to him disliking me more and more. The sad thing is that my intentions were good willed, but they're never interpreted that way. That's why you need to never push your opinion if you want to be well liked. Just be phlegmatic and talk about things that don't make others more self aware. Pretty solid advice for aspies tbh.

 

[PROMETHEUS]

BTW this brutal honesty shit makes girls insecure and obsessed with you

DO NOT TRY IT PLZ

It is evil and makes them insecure

I was mega-autistic with my 1st gf and would constantly pick out everything that was wrong with her

I would call her fat and tell her she needed to lose weight

And constant question her life decisions

We dated for like 2 years and she still calls me out of the blue till today, years later

This is DARK GAME that works but you shouldn’t do since it’s evil

I was only brutally honest due to being autistic back then

 

[PROMETHEUS]

It basically conditions their mind to CRAVE your validation

 

[Deleted member 74669]

You got lucky with solona just like a lot of other people, your crypto knowledge is weak

 

[Seth Walsh]

You got lucky with solona just like a lot of other people, your crypto knowledge is weak

Nice bait JoinedMay 26, 2024

 

[enriquecel]

holy yapping

 

[Deleted member 74669]

Nice bait JoinedMay 26, 2024

This is not bait a lot of your calls have turned out horrible, I am not your enemy just making you self aware

 

[New Poster]

Lol. You're not making them self conscious. You're just being judgmental. You're trying to get them to take on your perspective about them. No one likes that shit. It positions you as the subject who gets to decide what's what, and it positions them as an object to be judged. No one should tolerate this shit.

 

[Seth Walsh]

This is not bait a lot of your calls have turned out horrible, I am not your enemy just making you self aware

No shit, I can't predict the future and calls are pure bullshit.

You're not my enemy though, because you did not make me self aware.

 

[Seth Walsh]

holy yapping

I'm farming so hard with this thread

 

[PROMETHEUS]

Lol. You're not making them self conscious. You're just being judgmental. You're trying to get them to take on your perspective about them. No one likes that shit. It positions you as the subject who gets to decide what's what, and it positions them as an object to be judged. No one should tolerate this shit.

Yeah but I’m narcy and rightfully believe my judgement is right

But clearly this isn’t ideal for maintaining relationships, so gotta learn to hide the narciness better

 

[New Poster]

Yeah but I’m narcy and rightfully believe my judgement is right

I know

 

[Seth Walsh]

Yeah but I’m narcy and rightfully believe my judgement is right

But clearly this isn’t ideal for maintaining relationships, so gotta learn to hide the narciness better

Being narcy ain't good for anything to be honest. Emotional growth may need to be considered. But I don't want you to be my enemy, so I won't try to make you self aware.

 

[Deleted member 74669]

No shit, I can't predict the future and calls are pure bullshit

.

Yeah but I’m narcy and rightfully believe my judgement is right

But clearly this isn’t ideal for maintaining relationships, so gotta learn to hide the narciness better

When someone of higher status has judged me I wanted to earn their validation
But when someone inferior judged they became my enemy ngl

 

[enriquecel]

a

I'm farming so hard with this thread

tleast rep my post nigger

 

[Seth Walsh]

Andrew Tate cancelation is making girls spill the truth about blackpill [Brutal looks & genespill]

looksmax.org

 

[longjohnmong]

Fully Agreed

The last girl I briefly dated was a feminist whose view of the world was completely warped and incorrect

Being intellectually superior, I explained to her in explicit detail how her feminist views have specifically affected her life negatively, such as her decision to be independent despite being past her prime

The last time I saw her, she told me she had recently been crying (I assume based on the fact that my comments made her re-evaluate her entire life)

Due to lacking empathy, I told her that crying is weak AF and left it there

She tried to meet up again but I cancelled last minute

This was 6 weeks ago

Haven’t messaged her since

based

 

[stevielake]

Cognitive dissonance

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Fully Agreed

The last girl I briefly dated was a feminist whose view of the world was completely warped and incorrect

Being intellectually superior, I explained to her in explicit detail how her feminist views have specifically affected her life negatively, such as her decision to be independent despite being past her prime

The last time I saw her, she told me she had recently been crying (I assume based on the fact that my comments made her re-evaluate her entire life)

Due to lacking empathy, I told her that crying is weak AF and left it there

She tried to meet up again but I cancelled last minute

This was 6 weeks ago

Haven’t messaged her since

Pov: you're on 600mg of test

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

My friend became blackpilled asf and he's a mogger so he didn't mind

And I changed his overall worldview pretty significantly over summer

He knows of goy and simulation theory and various psychological ideologies I have from the Jewish math

 

[PROMETHEUS]

Pov: you're on 600mg of test

Not sure if I ever asked you but what’s your current stack?

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Not sure if I ever asked you but what’s your current stack?

Bull testicles and Bull semen as well as a majority animal based diet. Crow cum.

 

[PROMETHEUS]

Bull testicles and Bull semen as well as a majority animal based diet. Crow cum.

You mean you’re not actively running any synergistic compounds?

 

[PROMETHEUS]

@Rea @Imretarded?

Is @Gaygymmaxx one of you?

 

[Eriot Lodger]

If it's things you can change then it shouldn't be offensive. OP probably walks up to people and say "your maxilla is too flat" and expect them to bow down in gratitude.

 

[FutureSlayer]

Yeah but I’m narcy and rightfully believe my judgement is right

But clearly this isn’t ideal for maintaining relationships, so gotta learn to hide the narciness better

As a former “narcy” you’re just risking a Dunning Kruger which may impact your knowledge expansion ability.
The sooner you grow emotionally/mentally the better

 

[FutureSlayer]

Andrew Tate cancelation is making girls spill the truth about blackpill [Brutal looks & genespill]

looksmax.org

Yeah cool take. Normies aways implement the lookism in their overt insults only when the enemy tries to appear better in some kind of way

 

[FutureSlayer]

Fully Agreed

The last girl I briefly dated was a feminist whose view of the world was completely warped and incorrect

Being intellectually superior, I explained to her in explicit detail how her feminist views have specifically affected her life negatively, such as her decision to be independent despite being past her prime

The last time I saw her, she told me she had recently been crying (I assume based on the fact that my comments made her re-evaluate her entire life)

Due to lacking empathy, I told her that crying is weak AF and left it there

She tried to meet up again but I cancelled last minute

This was 6 weeks ago

Haven’t messaged her since

how old is she lmao

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

You mean you’re not actively running any synergistic compounds?

I take test and low dose ai

Test is low at like 125mgs per week (I weight like 115 pounds 5"6)

Gonna go up to 250 but my acne is fuvked right now. Keeping perfect diet for a while to make sure I can get it under control then start a higher cycle

When I took AI alone in puberty it significantly increased test, so even without sides I'd go be using it imo

 

[PROMETHEUS]

I take test and low dose ai

Test is low at like 125mgs per week (I weight like 115 pounds 5"6)

Gonna go up to 250 but my acne is fuvked right now. Keeping perfect diet for a while to make sure I can get it under control then start a higher cycle

When I took AI alone in puberty it significantly increased test, so even without sides I'd go be using it imo

52kg

I didn’t know you were a twink but I accept you

 

[PROMETHEUS]

As a former “narcy” you’re just risking a Dunning Kruger which may impact your knowledge expansion ability.
The sooner you grow emotionally/mentally the better

Why former?

 

[FutureSlayer]

Why former?

I now listen to everybody and implement their thoughts in my reasoning double checking everytime so i can grow my mental model faster and better

 

[anthony111553]

I now listen to everybody and implement their thoughts in my reasoning double checking everytime so i can grow my mental model faster and better

you still have a jackson moon avi, god bless

 

[FutureSlayer]

you still have a jackson moon avi, god bless

Truth be told I get an impulse to change it from time to time but i persist

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

52kg

I didn’t know you were a twink but I accept you

I took hgh and all it gave me were joint problems

 

[PROMETHEUS]

I now listen to everybody and implement their thoughts in my reasoning double checking everytime so i can grow my mental model faster and better

Ah I see

You’re optimising your mental model for what makes you see reality clearest

Not me tho

The ability to delude yourself is the greatest superpower which I will teach to @MoggerGaston the prodigal son upon his return

People like Gaston and I require a mindset software that’s deliberately geared towards narciness to compensate for abused dog origin

Too long to explain and not willing to debate, but you get the gist

 

[incel194012940]

Well I literally had the feminist debate with a chick who liked me too

Never told a guy that his gf is probably sleeping around but stuff in the past like even suggesting a friend that his failures on OLD was because "his pictures weren't good" (didn't even mention looks), instead of saying that he was running the wrong "opener", or that his mouthpiece wasn't crisp enough, led to him disliking me more and more. The sad thing is that my intentions were good willed, but they're never interpreted that way. That's why you need to never push your opinion if you want to be well liked. Just be phlegmatic and talk about things that don't make others more self aware. Pretty solid advice for aspies tbh.

can i ask what the point is of having these type of friends where you can't say the most obvious things even to help? i understand if you are extracting value from them but I wouldn't fuk with people like that on a personal level or just to hang out

 

[FutureSlayer]

Ah I see

You’re optimising your mental model for what makes you see reality clearest

Not me tho

The ability to delude yourself is the greatest superpower which I will teach to @MoggerGaston the prodigal son upon his return

People like Gaston and I require a mindset software that’s deliberately geared towards narciness to compensate for abused dog origin

Too long to explain and not willing to debate, but you get the gist

Yea I get what you mean but still, all this delusion will backfire.
You want to improve, be better and mog others with physical actions and such, not with a delusional mindset. May as well follow christiancuckism and believe all non believers will go to hell just to feel better with urself

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Ah I see

You’re optimising your mental model for what makes you see reality clearest

Not me tho

The ability to delude yourself is the greatest superpower which I will teach to @MoggerGaston the prodigal son upon his return

People like Gaston and I require a mindset software that’s deliberately geared towards narciness to compensate for abused dog origin

Too long to explain and not willing to debate, but you get the gist

Could you briefly describe your upbringing

 

[PROMETHEUS]

Could you briefly describe your upbringing

Lack of bond & attachment as a child

Hence why I don’t bond with people now

Muted empathy also

Hence why I told that girl her crying is weak AF