Male BPD Is a Nightmare

[zerotohero]

I feel like I’m about to split on the Latina girl I’m meeting. She was so into me at first, and I purposely ignored her to avoid screwing it up by being pushy and obsessive like I was with my ex-oneitis earlier this year. Thought I was playing it smart, but I ended up sabotaging myself.

Now the tables have turned, and I’m the one obsessing over her. I see her online and not replying, and it’s driving me insane. My brain keeps jumping to the worst conclusions—like she’s already bored or found someone else.

Having BPD as a guy is an absolute bitch. I can’t stop these emotional swings, and it feels like I’m constantly stuck in a cycle of chasing and avoiding. I need to pull myself together before I ruin this completely.

 

[PsychoH]

I feel like I’m about to split on the Latina girl I’m meeting. She was so into me at first, and I purposely ignored her to avoid screwing it up by being pushy and obsessive like I was with my ex-oneitis earlier this year. Thought I was playing it smart, but I ended up sabotaging myself.

Now the tables have turned, and I’m the one obsessing over her. I see her online and not replying, and it’s driving me insane. My brain keeps jumping to the worst conclusions—like she’s already bored or found someone else.

Having BPD as a guy is an absolute bitch. I can’t stop these emotional swings, and it feels like I’m constantly stuck in a cycle of chasing and avoiding. I need to pull myself together before I ruin this completely.

i got it too, i feel you man. Hope good things come your way.

 

[zerotohero]

i got it too, i feel you man. Hope good things come your way.

Are you BPD?

 

[PsychoH]

Are you BPD?

BPD BP ASPD.

 

[Deleted member 64504]

My brain keeps jumping to the worst conclusions—like she’s already bored or found someone else.

as a fellow BPD men, she probably did.
women on average are very promiscuous and unloyal, so if she gives the smallest signs of being uninstered theres 99% chance she has other men. even if theres no signs still 80%+ nowadays.
its brutal but we got see reality for what it is, i gave up on dating cause its too much suffering for me

 

[iblamericky]

dating is really just too much suffering man, I posted a thread similar to this not even an hour ago so I totally get it, it sucks so fucking bad it’s genuinely fucking painful and I wouldn’t wish this upon my worst fucking enemy, my only hope is in surgery now to actually keep a fucking woman, I hope things go your way bro

 

[notalive]

It's all in your head

 

[Defeatist]

Just lock in