Eärendil
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To every short guy out there — listen up.
I’m 5’4”, Indian, and married to a 6’1” German woman. So believe me when I say: height isn’t the problem.
Back in college, I didn’t rely on apps. I showed up in real life. I was funny, outgoing, and unafraid to approach women. I asked for numbers, made real connections, and yeah — I dated, had girlfriends, even friends with benefits. That was 15 years ago.
Here’s the truth: Online dating is brutal if you’re short. Most people — not just women — swipe based on superficial stats. They’ll skip over a great personality the moment they see your height.
So my advice? Get off dating apps. They’re toxic and shallow, and they’re not made for guys like us. Instead:
• Dress well • Build your confidence • Learn how to actually talk to women • Watch free videos, read books, get coaching if you need to
It’s all out there — and most of it is free.
If you want proof, message me. I’ll tell you exactly how I ended up with a woman who could’ve easily ignored me — but didn’t. Why? Because I showed up. Confident. Real. Present.
Stop chasing validation online. Show up in real life. That’s how you win.
@Chadeep @Lonenely sigma @greycel @pfl @St.TikTokcel
I’m 5’4”, Indian, and married to a 6’1” German woman. So believe me when I say: height isn’t the problem.
Back in college, I didn’t rely on apps. I showed up in real life. I was funny, outgoing, and unafraid to approach women. I asked for numbers, made real connections, and yeah — I dated, had girlfriends, even friends with benefits. That was 15 years ago.
Here’s the truth: Online dating is brutal if you’re short. Most people — not just women — swipe based on superficial stats. They’ll skip over a great personality the moment they see your height.
So my advice? Get off dating apps. They’re toxic and shallow, and they’re not made for guys like us. Instead:
• Dress well • Build your confidence • Learn how to actually talk to women • Watch free videos, read books, get coaching if you need to
It’s all out there — and most of it is free.
If you want proof, message me. I’ll tell you exactly how I ended up with a woman who could’ve easily ignored me — but didn’t. Why? Because I showed up. Confident. Real. Present.
Stop chasing validation online. Show up in real life. That’s how you win.
@Chadeep @Lonenely sigma @greycel @pfl @St.TikTokcel
