ChadL1te
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Im not kidding when I say music might be your way out. Girls will legit be so much more willing to talk to you if you like the same music as them. Dont believe me? Take their word for it
This all took 2 minutes to find btw, there's plenty more.
Research: So how do you take advantage of this? Well, you're gonna need to do some research. Start off by scrolling through her tiktok reposts, look up her name on spotify, look through her insta following to see what bands and artists she follows, and look at her fashion style. Ideally, by now you know what shes into(make sure to use a burner for everything if you can).
Frauding: For one, make sure to have like 5 Spotify accounts premade with different playlists for each genre so you can follow her on there(Yes this works). Spend some time listening to the artists and get a genuine memory/ understanding of the music, popular songs by them, the style etc. It isn't going to work if you don't know anything about the artists and you'll look like a poser. The next time you guys have a convo, ideally IRL, make sure you find a way to bring up music taste. If you're in a public setting. insult the generic music playing and segway into asking what she likes. This is important though, make sure to bring up a few artists she isn't a diehard fan of. You don't want to look like your taste is 100% the same, it will seem forced.
Bonus: Reccomend her something in the genre she likes and it'll give a good convo the next time you talk. If she takes the time and listens to it you're on the right track.
Endgame: Ideally, her music taste isn't god-awful. If its not, trust me you'll grow into it and maybe end up enjoying it. Worst case scenario? You like her, and this method helps you get a gf just for tolerating some music you don't like. You're gonna have to sell the part a bit at first but if she actually likes you for who you are eventually your music taste is gonna get less important to her. Music is a way to find something In common and have her think of you positvley because you associate with a similar culture.
Caveats: Obv im talking about a ltr here before u bp warlords start writing about muh chad, and if shes super shallow and boring it might be less effective. But that just means it wasn't worth it anyways.
This all took 2 minutes to find btw, there's plenty more.
Research: So how do you take advantage of this? Well, you're gonna need to do some research. Start off by scrolling through her tiktok reposts, look up her name on spotify, look through her insta following to see what bands and artists she follows, and look at her fashion style. Ideally, by now you know what shes into(make sure to use a burner for everything if you can).
Frauding: For one, make sure to have like 5 Spotify accounts premade with different playlists for each genre so you can follow her on there(Yes this works). Spend some time listening to the artists and get a genuine memory/ understanding of the music, popular songs by them, the style etc. It isn't going to work if you don't know anything about the artists and you'll look like a poser. The next time you guys have a convo, ideally IRL, make sure you find a way to bring up music taste. If you're in a public setting. insult the generic music playing and segway into asking what she likes. This is important though, make sure to bring up a few artists she isn't a diehard fan of. You don't want to look like your taste is 100% the same, it will seem forced.
Bonus: Reccomend her something in the genre she likes and it'll give a good convo the next time you talk. If she takes the time and listens to it you're on the right track.
Endgame: Ideally, her music taste isn't god-awful. If its not, trust me you'll grow into it and maybe end up enjoying it. Worst case scenario? You like her, and this method helps you get a gf just for tolerating some music you don't like. You're gonna have to sell the part a bit at first but if she actually likes you for who you are eventually your music taste is gonna get less important to her. Music is a way to find something In common and have her think of you positvley because you associate with a similar culture.
Caveats: Obv im talking about a ltr here before u bp warlords start writing about muh chad, and if shes super shallow and boring it might be less effective. But that just means it wasn't worth it anyways.