Maturing is realizing that dating is randomized and there is no real “strategy”.

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Doesn't matter if your Bluepill, Redpill, Blackpilled. Women will leave you on read even if the conversation goes smoothly. Women will ghost you even if everything goes right. Go outside and you will see variations of couples that are looks-matched or not looks-matched. Go on dating youtube channels and it’s a bunch of different opinions all baring different results. Today I was at Walmart and I heard a girl on the phone talk to her friend about her guy friend who confessed feelings and she reciprocated, while I did everything right for my oneitis and nothing worked.

What I thought I’d find while studying RP/BP was a certainty that would give me results… what I find is even the girls who like me first on tinder don’t respond back. Some girls i’m intentionally dry with seem to hold convos. And my irl options tend to be way better than my tinder.

It’s all just random, there is no guide. Only thing I could say is just look presentable enough and understand where you’re at in terms of smv put yourself out there and something is bound to happen.
 
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Numbers game, just get as good looking as u can and go outside and talk to girls
 
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true
 
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Doesn't matter if your Bluepill, Redpill, Blackpilled. Women will leave you on read even if the conversation goes smoothly. Women will ghost you even if everything goes right. Go outside and you will see variations of couples that are looks-matched or not looks-matched. Go on dating youtube channels and it’s a bunch of different opinions all baring different results. Today I was at Walmart and I heard a girl on the phone talk to her friend about her guy friend who confessed feelings and she reciprocated, while I did everything right for my oneitis and nothing worked.

What I thought I’d find while studying RP/BP was a certainty that would give me results… what I find is even the girls who like me first on tinder don’t respond back. Some girls i’m intentionally dry with seem to hold convos. And my irl options tend to be way better than my tinder.

It’s all just random, there is no guide. Only thing I could say is just look presentable enough and understand where you’re at in terms of smv put yourself out there and something is bound to happen.
Very legit.
 
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Ok and randomness is just the ignorance of causes, it doesn't mean what u think it means (that there's no strategy), it does encapsulate the fact it's out of your reach tho and that's why you probably think you said something of substance
 
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Legit, the only way to escape this is by having giga status + mogger looks so that you have a array of women to chose from every night for a ONS
Really you have as much chance of winning the lottery as being someone who doesnt have to suffer the annoyances and inconsistencies of the dating market
 
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Ok and randomness is just the ignorance of causes, it doesn't mean what u think it means (that there's no strategy), it does encapsulate the fact it's out of your reach tho and that's why you probably think you said something of substance
I’m assuming what you mean a person lack of understanding is what causes the randomness? Correct me if I’m wrong.

But it dosent really matter either way the “ignorance of causes” comes down to your genetics, you can do all the stratagy you want to but it was already pre determined what women would like you and what women wouldn’t like you the second you were born. You can’t convince a woman who doesn’t like you to like you.

In other words you can’t raise a woman’s interest, but you can definitely lower it.
 
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Try saying this to the 16 yos here
 
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I’m assuming what you mean a person lack of understanding is what causes the randomness? Correct me if I’m wrong
No, i'm saying you attribute a definite fatalist value to "it's random" making it seem un-understandable, i'm saying it is possibly understandable i.e. women mate choices follow some laws that we have yet to unveil, however only our intellect would appreciate said understanding, it wouldn't change the fact we aren't free/predetermined, etc.

It's not genetics, etc but ye I agree that it's deeper than what the popular pills propose 🥹🙏, hope u understand
 
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No, i'm saying you attribute a definite fatalist value to "it's random" making it seem un-understandable, i'm saying it is possibly understandable i.e. women mate choices follow some laws that we have yet to unveil, however only our intellect would appreciate said understanding, it wouldn't change the fact we aren't free/predetermined, etc.

It's not genetics, etc but ye I agree that it's deeper than what the popular pills propose 🥹🙏, hope u understand
That’s interesting, if there were laws that dictated how women pick there partners would you say that if we found them you could in theory have a 100% succes rate with whatever woman you want?
 
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Doesn't matter if your Bluepill, Redpill, Blackpilled. Women will leave you on read even if the conversation goes smoothly. Women will ghost you even if everything goes right. Go outside and you will see variations of couples that are looks-matched or not looks-matched. Go on dating youtube channels and it’s a bunch of different opinions all baring different results. Today I was at Walmart and I heard a girl on the phone talk to her friend about her guy friend who confessed feelings and she reciprocated, while I did everything right for my oneitis and nothing worked.

What I thought I’d find while studying RP/BP was a certainty that would give me results… what I find is even the girls who like me first on tinder don’t respond back. Some girls i’m intentionally dry with seem to hold convos. And my irl options tend to be way better than my tinder.

It’s all just random, there is no guide. Only thing I could say is just look presentable enough and understand where you’re at in terms of smv put yourself out there and something is bound to happen.
Ngl I am inclined to agree somewhat, one of my friends who is good looking was going out with an LTB who was obsessing over him and then one day she ‘just lost feelings’. There’s a very rng aspect to dating.
 
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a 100% succes rate with whatever woman you want?
Probably not, I said :
however only our intellect would appreciate said understanding, it wouldn't change the fact we aren't free/predetermined, etc.
We're just conscious beings riding blind uncontrollable elephants
 
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Doesn't matter if your Bluepill, Redpill, Blackpilled. Women will leave you on read even if the conversation goes smoothly. Women will ghost you even if everything goes right. Go outside and you will see variations of couples that are looks-matched or not looks-matched. Go on dating youtube channels and it’s a bunch of different opinions all baring different results. Today I was at Walmart and I heard a girl on the phone talk to her friend about her guy friend who confessed feelings and she reciprocated, while I did everything right for my oneitis and nothing worked.

What I thought I’d find while studying RP/BP was a certainty that would give me results… what I find is even the girls who like me first on tinder don’t respond back. Some girls i’m intentionally dry with seem to hold convos. And my irl options tend to be way better than my tinder.

It’s all just random, there is no guide. Only thing I could say is just look presentable enough and understand where you’re at in terms of smv put yourself out there and something is bound to happen.
Not a white pill for cel but I've seen even the cute PSL7 guys get dumped by bitches without mere explanation or their relationships are a complete storm product of the daily bullshit tests they impart on them. I've suddenly learned to appreciate the loneliness of being a low mtn, I don't know how I could deal with falling in love with a FOID and having it be reciprocated and then going through a breakup, even many times Chad falls apart. We men love on a totally unhinged level while bitches will leave you for a fag who has millimeters more jaw Screening than you.
 
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There is no clear strategy to ANYTHING.

No team wins every game.

No army wins every war.

But if you’re tall, rich, white (and NT for you personality copers) you have an edge over everyone else who isnt.
 
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its true theres certainly no equation. well unless youre super attractive then the chances sky rocket to around 90% which most of us wont be regardless
 
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It's more mature to not give a fuck about any of this stupid bullshit
 
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