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I've spent so much energy on women and OLD and etc and literally just rotted. Imagine if i spent that time and energy on my career and myself. I'm not saying I would slay but with tough times financially, it makes sense to focus on my career and money. My goal is this year is to save for a mortgage and continue my PhD and focus on that. I'm not saying i won't browse here or still rot, but a future where i'm financially stable etc and becoming (hopefully) a doctor is much brighter than doing nothing.
Sometimes the best is to accept you won't be chad and focus on making the best of your life. Why waste your energy on if a slut would fuck a chad within 5 mins when you could be focusing on improving yourself? Like what worth does she have anyway? Do you really want a girlfriend like that? Do you really want a girlfriend anyway?? Like when us rotters think of a girlfriend we only see the positives i.e. sex but not the constant nagging, bitchiness etc...
This is something that i need to seriously reflect on. Women can only have power over you if you let them I guess.
This will sound like cope etc but oh well.... I just made this thread to say to anyone reading that you are probably capable of doing a lot and being chad isn't in truth the be all and end all. You will get mogged, and rejected, but at least you will be financially independent and respected within your career. Plus if you careermaxx, you'll be status and money maxxed, and can use this to your advantage when women try to use you for betabuxx by tricking them JFL.
I just thought i'd post this as most stuff is normally negative in nature on this site like i.e. that it's over which I usually post
but maybe it isn't...
Although, tbh, I and you probs still need to keep coping and this is probs all utter cope.
Sometimes the best is to accept you won't be chad and focus on making the best of your life. Why waste your energy on if a slut would fuck a chad within 5 mins when you could be focusing on improving yourself? Like what worth does she have anyway? Do you really want a girlfriend like that? Do you really want a girlfriend anyway?? Like when us rotters think of a girlfriend we only see the positives i.e. sex but not the constant nagging, bitchiness etc...
This is something that i need to seriously reflect on. Women can only have power over you if you let them I guess.
This will sound like cope etc but oh well.... I just made this thread to say to anyone reading that you are probably capable of doing a lot and being chad isn't in truth the be all and end all. You will get mogged, and rejected, but at least you will be financially independent and respected within your career. Plus if you careermaxx, you'll be status and money maxxed, and can use this to your advantage when women try to use you for betabuxx by tricking them JFL.
I just thought i'd post this as most stuff is normally negative in nature on this site like i.e. that it's over which I usually post
but maybe it isn't...Although, tbh, I and you probs still need to keep coping
and this is probs all utter cope.
