Maybe dating co-workers is not such a bad idea

[Shahnameh]

Think about it:

Bars/Clubs---Generally no good and the odds are stacked against you because of ratios

Online Dating---Generally no good due to Ratios men outnumebr women 9:1 (unless you look like Tyler Maher) and any halfway decent looking woman is getting 100's possibly 1000's of messages a day.

Gym---Generally no good since the ratio is 80/20 guys and most women workout with headphones

Meetup.com---Generally no good since the ratio is not in your favour (atleast from the ones I have been to)

Church---Sausage fest in the younger age brackets, mostly older former sluts and single mums for the female side

This leaves you with two main options:

1.) Your social circle---Not a woman your best friends knows but usually a friend of a friend's girlfriend's friend (or something like that)

2.) Work---You see the woman frequently and get to know her in a less superficial setting. This is especially true for couples where the female is noticeably better looking. I guarantee they either met at work or their mutual social circle.


I am starting to think work should always be a viable option.

 

[Gonthar]

Great way to get fired...

 

[Clark69]

"never date co-workers" has always been propaganda created and spread by bosses. they want those young impressionable eager-for-promotion women for themselves

 

[Clown Show]

Maybe.

But if you get rejected once and the word spreads out, it is completely over for you in that workplace, happened to me.

 

[Clown Show]

"never date co-workers" has always been propaganda created and spread by bosses. they want those young impressionable eager-for-promotion women for themselves

And young retarded people fall for it.

 

[Shahnameh]

"never date co-workers" has always been propaganda created and spread by bosses. they want those young impressionable eager-for-promotion women for themselves

I honestly feel this, i feel like they are gas lighting men so they can eliminate the competition

Maybe.

But if you get rejected once and the word spreads out, it is completely over for you in that workplace, happened to me.

Did you ask out as soon as u met or did u build rapport for a few weeks first and gauge her interest levels?

 

[Clown Show]

Did you ask out as soon as u met or did u build rapport for a few weeks first and gauge her interest levels?

Was building rapport for few days but I should have been more aggressive, the bitch said that I was "too nice". Later she hooked up with some younger, slightly taller retard.

I think that other males have also sabotaged my chances with her.

If you decide to pursue a foid from work, just make sure that no one else knows it and you should be okay, as long as she likes your looks.

 

[Shahnameh]

Later she hooked up with some younger, slightly taller retard.

That kinda does prove that office romances do work out though

I think that other males have also sabotaged my chances with her.

Yeah 100% never trust other men, men are not assets or allies. They have no problem throwing their fellow man under the bus for some pussy. I feel like this is why they gas light

If you decide to pursue a foid from work, just make sure that no one else knows it and you should be okay, as long as she likes your looks.

Yeah thats what i plan to fo, keep it a secret and be very subtle about it and try to gauge interest levels over time.

I'm going to try the whole propinquity thing

 

[Clown Show]

Yeah 100% never trust other men, men are not assets or allies. They have no problem throwing their fellow man under the bus for some pussy. I feel like this is why they gas light

I received help with foids from other men only 2-3 times in 27 years of my life. Once was from a guy who already has a gf and he sees no problem with being a wingman, other time was from my very good friend in HS who is genuinely a good guy at least towards me.

Everything else has been a direct or indirect sabotage, even from my "closest" friends... Or even if they had a chance to help you with foids, they just decided not to...

 

[sub5outsider]

People date mainly thru social media,dating sites,social circle ,uni and work . I had people at my work dating .

 

[Shahnameh]

People date mainly thru social media,dating sites,social circle ,uni and work . I had people at my work dating .

Idk everyone acts like wormplace dating always leads to sexual harassment cases, lots of people meet their wives at work.

I received help with foids from other men only 2-3 times in 27 years of my life. Once was from a guy who already has a gf and he sees no problem with being a wingman, other time was from my very good friend in HS who is genuinely a good guy at least towards me.

Everything else has been a direct or indirect sabotage, even from my "closest" friends... Or even if they had a chance to help you with foids, they just decided not to...

I don't understand why men have this scarcity mindset and sabotage their fellow man like this. It's really scummy and it's the reason why western society is failing so hard

 

[Clown Show]

I don't understand why men have this scarcity mindset and sabotage their fellow man like this. It's really scummy and it's the reason why western society is failing so hard

Everywhere is like that.