Me (30), my sister (31) and my brother (33) are all single.

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It was never meant to be. The more I think about why we are single the less it makes sense.
  • My sister was a Staceylite SMV for our race, super educated and earns mega bucks - she is the richest person under-40 I know. Never had a bf and just rotting at childhood home watching money pile up. She has rejected 100s of proposals.
  • My brother failed by pheno but didnt stop him. He was without doubt the most popular kid in his school (strongest and best footballer). He was also dating the best looking girl in his year group. Fucked a white girl early 20s, who divorced him 2 years later took the child and single since. How low he has fallen...
  • Then there's me, SecularIslamist. I was always in the middle compared to them. Looks wise quite good for race. Casual fuckery at uni and nothing else. Don't earn mega bucks, but quite good.
All three of us are single 30+ and realistically there is a pretty good chance all three of us will remain single rest of our lives. It's quite sad. I never imagined that this would have been us. All grown adults now but nothing has changed since we were children. We don't have anyone else but ourselves. Most people have started families now. They have others to carry on their legacies. We have no one.

I have two older sisters and they are married. They were a generation apart. Surprise suprise they got married at 18 and 19 to FOB guys 5+ and 8+ their age. They are living happy and stable lives.

@i_love_roosters I think you're right someone definitely put a curse on our family.
 
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Never been in a relationship = shitload of hookups and casual dating

Your sister mogs you and your brother out of existence
 
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I don’t understand what went wrong lol?
 
damn that’s crazy bro
 
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Never been in a relationship = shitload of hookups and casual dating

Your sister mogs you and your brother out of existence
No she hasn't. Idc if you don't believe me. My parents have always had her on lock. You don't understand curry culture. I'm pretty sure if my father was alive he would've forced her to marry by now.

Anyway you're right she does mog me and my brother. Tbh she has a right to go for top 5% guys. But ngl she really wasn't ever gonna find a guy on her looks level AND earning at least as much.

Last night she apparently broke down and confessed she probably isn't going to get married @JohnDoe
 
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Anyway you're right she does mog me and my brother. Tbh she has a right to go for top 5% guys. But ngl she really wasn't ever gonna find a guy on her looks level AND earning at least as much.

Last night she apparently broke down and confessed she probably isn't going to get married @JohnDoe
She gets the kind of guys she deserves so clearly she is aiming for guys who are not checking for her. Don’t the studies say that 50% of western women will be unmarried by 2030 JFL. Brootal let @JohnDoe marry her bhai
 
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btw what’s ur sisters @
 
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She gets the kind of guys she deserves so clearly she is aiming for guys who are not checking for her. Don’t the studies say that 50% of western women will be unmarried by 2030 JFL. Brootal let @JohnDoe marry her bhai
John is too young for her lmao..

But I'm serious Ill admit she hasn't been getting guys on her level. But REGARDLESS of that she has been getting top 10-5% guys. My parents have always known she was high value.

Btw Bengalis are the lowest earning and we have lowest SMV, so it was always a monumental task. I thought she would've settled for a rich (earns £50k+) 5'9 (above average for Bengali) and MTN by now but she hasn't yet. Her pool of men are infinitely small now. I overheard my mother and sisters talk about her prospects and it's just abject acceptance on their behalf they cannot find good enough guys for her anymore and they can't convince her to lower her standards.
 
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Btw Bengalis are the lowest earning and we have lowest SMV, so it was always a monumental task. I thought she would've settled for a rich (earns £50k+) 5'9 (above average for Bengali) and MTN by now but she hasn't yet. Her pool of men are infinitely small now. I overheard my mother and sisters talk about her prospects and it's just abject acceptance on their behalf they cannot find good enough guys for her anymore and they can't convince her to lower her standards.
What’s the best option she’s had so far ?
 
And it’s not over for you either you’re just a rotter who doesn’t try. It will be over after you’ve done everything in your power to find a wife that meets your standards and cant. Come and complain on the forum after you’ve been abusing pregab and done 1000 cold approaches
 
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What’s the best option she’s had so far ?
Exactly what I said above. Nowadays the best she can get is 5'9, earns £50k+ and high LTN. All the best guys have gone. Let's be real.

Previously like 8-9 years ago. She may have had a 6'0 guy, is a teacher (average job) and MTN. This is probably the best possible by the way.

There is absolutely no way she is getting a combination of HTN+, earns £80k and 6'0. The mathematical probability of that in the UK is just incredibly small - I'm not joking even 10 years ago it's probably single digits out of the tens of thousands of guys around her age. Now it's zero. The average Bengali is LTN, earns £22k and is 5'7.
 
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No she hasn't. Idc if you don't believe me. My parents have always had her on lock. You don't understand curry culture. I'm pretty sure if my father was alive he would've forced her to marry by now.

Anyway you're right she does mog me and my brother. Tbh she has a right to go for top 5% guys. But ngl she really wasn't ever gonna find a guy on her looks level AND earning at least as much.

Last night she apparently broke down and confessed she probably isn't going to get married @JohnDoe
Why does she reject men?

What do men have to be to date her?
 
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Nowadays the best she can get is 5'9, earns £50k+ and high LTN.
Brootal , whats her rating low MTB?
There is absolutely no way she is getting a combination of HTN+, earns £80k and 6'0.
Maybe in gandy heaven JFL
The average Bengali is LTN, earns £22k and is 5'7.
true Theyres not many good looking Bengali guys the foids mog the men. Earns 22k is brootal but Bengali’s are the poorest ethnics in the UK so makes sense. 5’7 stop larping JFL average Bengali is 5’5 max
 
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And it’s not over for you either you’re just a rotter who doesn’t try. It will be over after you’ve done everything in your power to find a wife that meets your standards and cant. Come and complain on the forum after you’ve been abusing pregab and done 1000 cold approaches
Haven't done a single cold approach and never will.

I am virgin + MTB+ only. Not budging in this. Because of this I have to look outside of my race and outside of this fucking country.

Why does she reject men?

What do men have to be to date her?
I've outlined above. But let me remind you of what average guys looks like our race:
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Yet she is fair skinned (even my parents haloed her for it) and rich. If you're not curry I don't think you'll understand. She wants a guy who looks like this, earns like she does. It's just not going to happen. That was a tiny chance it was going to happen 10 years ago. There is absolutely no chance it will happen now. If guys like that existed, they are surely out of the market now.

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Brootal , whats her rating low MTB?

Maybe in gandy heaven JFL
She is MTB now for sure. Even by this site standards. She still looks very good for 31 btw. All that rotting at home, and taking care of skin care like every desi has helped.
true Theyres not many good looking Bengali guys the foids mog the men. Earns 22k is brootal but Bengali’s are the poorest ethnics in the UK so makes sense. 5’7 stop larping JFL average Bengali is 5’5 max
In Bangladesh yes. In the UK they are all taller than parents.
 
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She wants dr.salludon only
No joke. I don't think she would accept Salludon if he wasn't at least above average earning 10 years ago. Salludon as a plumber or waiter is just not on 'her level'. Nothing to do with lools or height - which are big factors. She even calls me short JFL.
 
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Pathetic how so many of you simps are enquiring about my sister's life but not me and my brothers :lul::feelskek::feelskek:
 
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Why aren’t you cold approachmaxxing?
I live in a tiny town / village. I rot in my home. 70% of time WFH. I am Muslim only - btw the number of Muslim women I've spoken to that weren't my family in the last 15 years I could count using my fingers.

I never stood a chance. I'm not cold approaching some whore in a club. Although I'll admit the thought of not starting a haram LTR that would have ended in marriage crosses my mind. But it's too late now.
 
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I live in a tiny town / village. I rot in my home. 70% of time WFH. I am Muslim only - btw the number of Muslim women I've spoken to that weren't my family in the last 15 years I could count using my fingers.

I never stood a chance. I'm not cold approaching some whore in a club. Although I'll admit the thought of not starting a haram LTR that would have ended in marriage crosses my mind. But it's too late now.
What do you even have to live for in life then JFL

Don’t say religion I’ll cage hard if you do
 
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I live in a tiny town / village. I rot in my home. 70% of time WFH. I am Muslim only - btw the number of Muslim women I've spoken to that weren't my family in the last 15 years I could count using my fingers.

I never stood a chance. I'm not cold approaching some whore in a club. Although I'll admit the thought of not starting a haram LTR that would have ended in marriage crosses my mind. But it's too late now.
Drive to Birmingham where they’re is plenty of Muslim foids. Take some pregab and get to fucking work. Who said club? Im saying bullring daytime coldapproach any hijabi any Muslim foid. Its not to late now your only 30 and low on dimorphism means you probs look 25-26 . It will be to late in another 10 years tho
 
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Drive to Birmingham where they’re is plenty of Muslim foids. Take some pregab and get to fucking work. Who said club? Im saying bullring daytime coldapproach any hijabi any Muslim foid. Its not to late now your only 30 and low on dimorphism means you probs look 25-26 . It will be to late in another 10 years tho
What have u been up 2 recently?
 
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Pathetic how so many of you simps are enquiring about my sister's life but not me and my brothers :lul::feelskek::feelskek:
Well, I asked because I wanted to know what standards I need to meet to date some one like her.

Now I know, I must pursue looks, and a high income, and move to a tiny village in some third world country like India.
 
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What do you even have to live for in life then JFL

Don’t say religion I’ll cage hard if you do
Islam yes :chad:

Drive to Birmingham where they’re is plenty of Muslim foids. Take some pregab and get to fucking work. Who said club? Im saying bullring daytime coldapproach any hijabi any Muslim foid. Its not to late now your only 30 and low on dimorphism means you probs look 25-26 . It will be to late in another 10 years tho
Yeah you're right. I need to do something drastic..but honestly I'm so put off by British women I want to geomaxxx. These British Muslim foids make me sick. I'm quite certain if I grew up in a Muslim area / city and not fucking Yorkshire where there are some schools literally 100% white I would've been better off.

Well, I asked because I wanted to know what standards I need to meet to date some one like her.

Now I know, I must pursue looks, and a high income, and move to a tiny village in some third world country like India.
We are not in third world.
 
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Islam yes :chad:


Yeah you're right. I need to do something drastic..but honestly I'm so put off by British women I want to geomaxxx. These British Muslim foids make me sick. I'm quite certain if I grew up in a Muslim area / city and not fucking Yorkshire where there are some schools literally 100% white I would've been better off.


We are not in third world.
CAGING
 
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I live in a tiny town / village. I rot in my home. 70% of time WFH. I am Muslim only - btw the number of Muslim women I've spoken to that weren't my family in the last 15 years I could count using my fingers.

I never stood a chance. I'm not cold approaching some whore in a club. Although I'll admit the thought of not starting a haram LTR that would have ended in marriage crosses my mind. But it's too late now.
Muslim's have mosques. Can you cold approach at a mosque? Or cold approach after she does the rug thing to pray during the day. Because she will be stopped so it should be easier to get her in conversation.

Also what about dating apps? And if your sister is rich, you could cold approach her servants.
 
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You didn’t answer my question

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He’s thinking of a cope reply JFL. @SecularIslamist you need to fix up big man your age just sitting around rotting not even fucking trying is just pathetic and I’m saying this out of brotherly love for another curry bhai. If I was in your situation best believe I would be sending 10 DMs a day on instagram and approaching 10 foids a day and be swiping on all dating apps
 
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He’s thinking of a cope reply JFL. @SecularIslamist you need to fix up big man your age just sitting around rotting not even fucking trying is just pathetic and I’m saying this out of brotherly love for another curry bhai. If I was in your situation best believe I would be sending 10 DMs a day on instagram and approaching 10 foids a day and be swiping on all dating apps
Muslim god complex :feelskek:
 
Muslim's have mosques. Can you cold approach at a mosque? Or cold approach after she does the rug thing to pray during the day. Because she will be stopped so it should be easier to get her in conversation.
People go to the mosque to pray lol. And actually in curry Muslim cultures and schools of thoughts women are less likely to go. Still it's possible if you ask the imam. I just wouldn't do this. And tbh I'm not that religious anyway.
Also what about dating apps?
I've documented this since joining this website. Going on OLD I arrogantly thought I would do well with my stats and being an ethnic. Soon I realised it was absolutely over on there too. Not just for me but everybody else.
And if your sister is rich, you could cold approach her servants.
???
 
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Muslim's have mosques. Can you cold approach at a mosque? Or cold approach after she does the rug thing to pray during the day. Because she will be stopped so it should be easier to get her in conversation.

Also what about dating apps? And if your sister is rich, you could cold approach her servants.
Masjid is segregated by gender but he can still stand outside the masjid and cold approachmax
 
He’s thinking of a cope reply JFL.
I just didn't see his post.
@SecularIslamist you need to fix up big man your age just sitting around rotting not even fucking trying is just pathetic and I’m saying this out of brotherly love for another curry bhai. If I was in your situation best believe I would be sending 10 DMs a day on instagram and approaching 10 foids a day and be swiping on all dating apps
I haven't swiped right on a girl in the UK in about six months JFL. I rarely even bother looking.

I've never had any social media growing up either.... Honestly I don't even think it's my looks, height. Even that seems like a cope to blame. It's just really bad circumstances and my own self-sabotage.
 
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I just didn't see his post.

I haven't swiped right on a girl in the UK in about six months JFL. I rarely even bother looking.

I've never had any social media growing up either.... Honestly I don't even think it's my looks, height. Even that seems like a cope to blame. It's just really bad circumstances and my own self-sabotage.
commute to work for your job atleast you can take a small step they’re. Hopefully you get some IOI on the way to work and back. Do you get IOI out in public?
 
commute to work for your job atleast you can take a small step they’re. Hopefully you get some IOI on the way to work and back. Do you get IOI out in public?
Yeah I do commute. And actually I commute through some curry areas - but all the currys get off before I get to work tho.

Wdym by an IOI? Nobody is giving an IOI on public transport. Have you been on the TfL network in London. It's basic etiquette to get on the train with face down and look face down on your phone until your stop.

I've gotten glances. They could mean anything. I look around too.
 
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People go to the mosque to pray lol. And actually in curry Muslim cultures and schools of thoughts women are less likely to go. Still it's possible if you ask the imam. I just wouldn't do this. And tbh I'm not that religious anyway.

I've documented this since joining this website. Going on OLD I arrogantly thought I would do well with my stats and being an ethnic. Soon I realised it was absolutely over on there too. Not just for me but everybody else.
You should Try:
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  • Bumble
  • Happn
  • Ok Cupid
  • QuackQuauck
  • Badoo
  • TrulyMadly
  • TanTan
  • Jeevansathi
  • Ludo
Those are the most used dating apps in India according to the internet.

If you want to meet a girlfriend or partner you have to treat in like a job. That means at least an hour a day, of swiping/messaging/working on your photo's and profile, everyday until you're no longer single.

servents are like slaves that you pay.

I heard the light skinned people in India are usually the rich class and they have servants.
 
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It was never meant to be. The more I think about why we are single the less it makes sense.
  • My sister was a Staceylite SMV for our race, super educated and earns mega bucks - she is the richest person under-40 I know. Never had a bf and just rotting at childhood home watching money pile up. She has rejected 100s of proposals.
  • My brother failed by pheno but didnt stop him. He was without doubt the most popular kid in his school (strongest and best footballer). He was also dating the best looking girl in his year group. Fucked a white girl early 20s, who divorced him 2 years later took the child and single since. How low he has fallen...
  • Then there's me, SecularIslamist. I was always in the middle compared to them. Looks wise quite good for race. Casual fuckery at uni and nothing else. Don't earn mega bucks, but quite good.
All three of us are single 30+ and realistically there is a pretty good chance all three of us will remain single rest of our lives. It's quite sad. I never imagined that this would have been us. All grown adults now but nothing has changed since we were children. We don't have anyone else but ourselves. Most people have started families now. They have others to carry on their legacies. We have no one.

I have two older sisters and they are married. They were a generation apart. Surprise suprise they got married at 18 and 19 to FOB guys 5+ and 8+ their age. They are living happy and stable lives.

@i_love_roosters I think you're right someone definitely put a curse on our family.
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Bruh, your robot mogs, ngl
 
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You should Try:
  • Tinder
  • Bumble
  • Happn
  • Ok Cupid
  • QuackQuauck
  • Badoo
  • TrulyMadly
  • TanTan
  • Jeevansathi
  • Ludo
Those are the most used dating apps in India according to the internet.

If you want to meet a girlfriend or partner you have to treat in like a job. That means at least an hour a day, of swiping/messaging/working on your photo's and profile, everyday until you're no longer single.
Thanks for the advice. I'm not trying any of these. If I was going to try them I would have tried ages ago.

The only OLD app I've tried is Muzz. I've also tried tandem language learning app. I get way better girls there. But it's almost impossible to start a relationship when they can't construct a sentence.
servents are like slaves that you pay.

I heard the light skinned people in India are usually the rich class and they have servants.
You've been reading too much folktales on a the internet.
 
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Wdym by an IOI? Nobody is giving an IOI on public transport. Have you been on the TfL network in London. It's basic etiquette to get on the train with face down and look face down on your phone until your stop.

I've gotten glances. They could mean anything. I look around too.
Over if you think foids don’t give IOI on the tube. When I was leaner I was farming IOI on the tube everyday it was giga lifefuel. I get serious IOI on the tube I had one girl staring at me for 15mins and when I looked back she looked away and then came and sat right next to me. My autistic ass obvs didn’t do anything tho JFL. I do agree that most are looking at they’re phones tho.
I've gotten glances. They could mean anything. I look around too.
You just have to riskmax and approach
 
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Perhaps it is time to return to the mother country and use your western status to have arranged marriage with a htb
 
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My sister was a Staceylite SMV for our race, super educated and earns mega bucks - she is the richest person under-40 I know. Never had a bf and just rotting at childhood home watching money pile up. She has rejected 100s of proposals.

Send her my way G, I'll take one for the team
 
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Over if you think foids don’t give IOI on the tube. When I was leaner I was farming IOI on the tube everyday it was giga lifefuel. I get serious IOI on the tube I had one girl staring at me for 15mins and when I looked back she looked away and then came and sat right next to me. My autistic ass obvs didn’t do anything tho JFL. I do agree that most are looking at they’re phones tho.

You just have to riskmax and approach
I've never seen anyone give anybody else an IOI. Unless this was like a Friday or Saturday night?

Definitely not a morning commute.
 
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I've never seen anyone give anybody else an IOI. Unless this was like a Friday or Saturday night?

Definitely not a morning commute.
It was in the morning in fact I have gotten most IOI on the tube in the morning. Rarely on the way back as the tube is packed and I’m standing up I get height mogged. Im a bidelt mogger so sat down I’m giga mogging. It was like a Tuesday on the way to work nothing special. Your right tho I haven’t seen many other guys get IOI I also have seen guys who mog me back to Mumbai on the tube not getting IOI in London its weird. Do you were smart fitted clothes ?
 
your sister is rejecting hundreds of guys, she is single by choice.

can't be compared to being single as a man.
 
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