The Observant One
If it's good, don't ask why ... Ask when.
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"Muh muh, normiez juz gotta vibez & you appearzz NT."
No. One of the dead giveaways of being non-NT - you don't know WHAT TO SAY.
You don't have the quick-fire timing & transmitters.
This is basically what being non-NT is -- you don't "respond correctly."
There is always a correct social response -- you just don't know what it is.
There is always a "right answer" -- you just give wrong ones.
You keep your mouth shut not because you "can't relate" -- it's because you don't know what to say.
You don't match others' energy, sure -- but there is always a correct pattern.
There is always a "good response" -- you just have to time & say it right.
This is what separates the NTs from the non-NTs -- what they choose to say.
The non-NT says the wrong thing at the right time or the right thing at the wrong time.
You have to be quick, keep up, match the flow of others & time/say everything right.
It's dead easy to tell who is struggling to keep up socially or who is out of the correct "social caliber."
The non-NTs ALWAYS are "off" somehow -- it's always easy for the NTs to see.
Even if you try to "fake being NT" it's still obvious you are out of sync with others.
It also sucks at your soul to put up this facade as it never works as if you'd be truly NT.
If you don't know what the right thing is, you're non-NT.
If you don't know when to say the right thing, you're non-NT.
If you don't match the "vibe" of those around you, you're non-NT.
And if people find you "weird" then, sorry -- you're non-NT (& probably ugly too).
No. One of the dead giveaways of being non-NT - you don't know WHAT TO SAY.
You don't have the quick-fire timing & transmitters.
This is basically what being non-NT is -- you don't "respond correctly."
There is always a correct social response -- you just don't know what it is.
There is always a "right answer" -- you just give wrong ones.
You keep your mouth shut not because you "can't relate" -- it's because you don't know what to say.
You don't match others' energy, sure -- but there is always a correct pattern.
There is always a "good response" -- you just have to time & say it right.
This is what separates the NTs from the non-NTs -- what they choose to say.
The non-NT says the wrong thing at the right time or the right thing at the wrong time.
You have to be quick, keep up, match the flow of others & time/say everything right.
It's dead easy to tell who is struggling to keep up socially or who is out of the correct "social caliber."
The non-NTs ALWAYS are "off" somehow -- it's always easy for the NTs to see.
Even if you try to "fake being NT" it's still obvious you are out of sync with others.
It also sucks at your soul to put up this facade as it never works as if you'd be truly NT.
If you don't know what the right thing is, you're non-NT.
If you don't know when to say the right thing, you're non-NT.
If you don't match the "vibe" of those around you, you're non-NT.
And if people find you "weird" then, sorry -- you're non-NT (& probably ugly too).
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