Might be over

[Tomer Solomon]

Everyone's getting into relationships, going to parties, having tons of friends,
high quality of life

and there's me...

Just a side character in everyone's life, no love for me, no excitement for me
just pain and suffering over and over again.

It's so over for my autistic self

 

[iblamechico]

0 friends. 0 social life. 0 gfs. idc tbh.

 

[Tomer Solomon]

0 friends. 0 social life. 0 gfs. idc tbh.

Mirin

 

[Outlander]

I was a complete outcast in high school too, and that really fucks you up into adulthood. How old are you OP

 

[Tomer Solomon]

I was a complete outcast in high school too, and that really fucks you up into adulthood. How old are you OP

17

 

[Outlander]

17

Still a lot younger than me but if you're a total outcast at that age it's rough trying to make connections. Only things I could tell you is softmaxx all you can (lose weight if you need to), and have a good diet and good sleep because looking better will make people act nicer to you. Try to not be a total shut in if you can help it and socialize when you can, just don't become a jestermaxxer who goes out of their way for others and gets nothing in return

 

[Tomer Solomon]

Still a lot younger than me but if you're a total outcast at that age it's rough trying to make connections. Only things I could tell you is softmaxx all you can (lose weight if you need to), and have a good diet and good sleep because looking better will make people act nicer to you. Try to not be a total shut in if you can help it and socialize when you can, just don't become a jestermaxxer who goes out of their way for others and gets nothing in return

I got like 3 good friends but I'm not popular, fully softmaxxed as well.
Just so crazy to me how easy it is for everyone to live their lives and get into relationships and actually enjoy their lives.
Always seemed to be a problem in my case

 

[lowtiersubhuman]

Everyone's getting into relationships, going to parties, having tons of friends,
high quality of life

and there's me...

Just a side character in everyone's life, no love for me, no excitement for me
just pain and suffering over and over again.

It's so over for my autistic self

Over for us subhumans

 

[Outlander]

I got like 3 good friends but I'm not popular, fully softmaxxed as well.
Just so crazy to me how easy it is for everyone to live their lives and get into relationships and actually enjoy their lives.
Always seemed to be a problem in my case

Don't take those friends for granted if they are actual good ones. I had absolutely zero friends in high school in addition to no gf and it's very easy to spiral downhill if you don't have any form of social life

 

[qxdr]

Same, it’s genuinely over for me I hate my incel life

 

[Tomer Solomon]

Don't take those friends for granted if they are actual good ones. I had absolutely zero friends in high school in addition to no gf and it's very easy to spiral downhill if you don't have any form of social life

I don't, I appreciate them being my friends but I'm no one's first option I'm the second or third, still grateful tho.
I didn't have any friends like a year ago, then with time after focusing on myself they started getting closer to me cause I guess I seemed interesting to them or something.

 

[Outlander]

I don't, I appreciate them being my friends but I'm no one's first option I'm the second or third, still grateful tho.
I didn't have any friends like a year ago, then with time after focusing on myself they started getting closer to me cause I guess I seemed interesting to them or something.

Yeah it sucks when the friendship means more to you than it does to them but at least from what you say they are ok friends. Far better than being totally alone