Mindset is underrated

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There is a user here, dont remember his name, who has made several threads about how he has wasted like 7 years of his life and tries to get it together despite everything.

And ik exactly that feeling. Because i wasted lots of time by clinging onto certain things. It took me years to understand that not everyone can do everything.

When i was 20-23, i was depressed because i wasn't getting laid in college. And i thought life was over, it was inconceivable to understand that there was a different path for me so i just rotted for years.

Partially due to bad IQ but also due to very bad environment. Parents that didnt understand me, bad influences in college, bad influences outside college.

I also was very reluctant to try out new things which also costed me a lot. It was hard to think outside of the box and letting go of certain things.

Im not gonna tell you im a mentalcel. But i wouldnt be here if i had a better brain+guidance. I had a vague sense of what i wanted to do but couldnt articulate it properly.
 
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turbocuck giving advice on mindset
 
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NT is law
 
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No mindset for your height
 
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No height for your mindset
 
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NT is law
the problem is that you have to find "NT" things that work for you. Not everyone will be an athlete, not everyone will be a slayer, not everyone will be a musician, so you gotta do something that you have an advantage at. I was good at studying and teaching yet NEVER took advantage of it
 
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the problem is that you have to find "NT" things that work for you. Not everyone will be an athlete, not everyone will be a slayer, not everyone will be a musician, so you gotta do something that you have an advantage at. I was good at studying and teaching yet NEVER took advantage of it
NT isnt about hobbies necessarily. Its more about social behavior. Also being a musician isnt really NT
 
Cope. Everything is about looks. Why did you have to be so ugly?
 
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The character development :feelsahh:
character development from realizing that my old itis is basically what i could have been if i played it smart lol
 
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Mindset is overrated

I’m have a positive mindset and I’m still a fucking khhv at 24
 
character development from realizing that my old itis is basically what i could have been if i played it smart lol
Just for clarity, I'm asking; what you could have been or what you could have been with?
 
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Mindset is overrated

I’m have a positive mindset and I’m still a fucking khhv at 24
Mindset is not everything. But it's not nothing.
 
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the problem is that you have to find "NT" things that work for you. Not everyone will be an athlete, not everyone will be a slayer, not everyone will be a musician, so you gotta do something that you have an advantage at. I was good at studying and teaching yet NEVER took advantage of it
cope

slayer or death
 
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what you could have been
this. because she immidiately started making money when she had the chance to and i didnt, i let the chance slip by. why? because i was too fixated on the fact that i couldnt get laid and failed to realize there were other things i for me. when she was working, i was rotting but what sucks is that i could have been working too :feelsbadman:. and i wouldnt have met her if i did so
 
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I know nigga but Chad is positive most of the time because of how easy he has it. Don’t think that makes him a fag
as a non chad you should be realistic not positive
 
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