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So I met this girl through a student organization we’re both in. We went to a club together, and from the start, she was showing interest. She told me her mom is from the same country as mine, which felt like a way to build a connection. When we got to the club, she insisted on going in with me, like she wanted to make sure we were together.
Inside, I had my arm around her shoulders and waist throughout the night. When we were leaving, she held my hand and grabbed it in a way that felt intentional, not just casual. It felt good, like there was something there.
Now, I wasn’t only with her the whole time. There was another girl in the group, and at times I had my arm around her too, but like more friendly. Dont know what she would think abt that.
Later, we ended up at a friend’s place, and when it was time to go home, she and I were the only ones left waiting for a train. She mentioned her place was just a 5-minute walk away from the train station and said I could come with her to make sure she comes home safe and Uber from there home. But when I checked, the Uber was way too expensive for me, so I decided not to. I made sure that shes comfortable going home alone, she said yes bc its only 5 minutes.
In the night, I texted her asking if she got home okay. She replied, ‘Yes, sorry, I directly fell asleep.’ , not really engaged imo.
Did I fumble her, bc she didnt do an indication to kiss so I just left it like that?
What to do next time when I see her, or should I text her sth?
Im kinda confused rn. Those things are always Reasons why I fumble.
Inside, I had my arm around her shoulders and waist throughout the night. When we were leaving, she held my hand and grabbed it in a way that felt intentional, not just casual. It felt good, like there was something there.
Now, I wasn’t only with her the whole time. There was another girl in the group, and at times I had my arm around her too, but like more friendly. Dont know what she would think abt that.
Later, we ended up at a friend’s place, and when it was time to go home, she and I were the only ones left waiting for a train. She mentioned her place was just a 5-minute walk away from the train station and said I could come with her to make sure she comes home safe and Uber from there home. But when I checked, the Uber was way too expensive for me, so I decided not to. I made sure that shes comfortable going home alone, she said yes bc its only 5 minutes.
In the night, I texted her asking if she got home okay. She replied, ‘Yes, sorry, I directly fell asleep.’ , not really engaged imo.
Did I fumble her, bc she didnt do an indication to kiss so I just left it like that?
What to do next time when I see her, or should I text her sth?
Im kinda confused rn. Those things are always Reasons why I fumble.
