Mode one - the only dating advice you need

[Deleted member 12234]

So many dudes falling for these cringe ass "red pill" coaches and pickup artists. Meanwhile, it all comes down to looks and charisma and if a woman isn't feeling you from the get-go, it's time to move on. This is the "mode one" approach, in a nutshell. I'd advise you all to check out alan roger currie and his "Mode one" and "Upfront and Straightforward" books (find it online for free if you don't wanna buy it). Alot of common sense nuggets when it comes to dating (but common sense isn't so common nowadays). Don't waste time following these red pill dudes. Just looksmaxx, get money, and follow the advice from the book.

 

[alexis]

Alan Roger Currie is legit.

 

[.👽.]

Exmples from the book?

 

[eduardkoopman]

Back in 2010 or whatever. Muh pua days. That dude, Alan |Roger Currie was around, also already.

What an idiot.

I recall having a discussion with him, back than. On puahate.com forum.
He had this stupid ass 4 typoe of scenario's, and how one would find out the woman that was there out of those 4. Whom was into you, and not the other 3 whom was there to manipulate you.

He assumed, women would tell the truth, and the scammers wouldn't lie oin worlds. And to not focus on actions, or whatever. |

It was so dumb.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Back in 2010 or whatever. Muh pua days. That dude, Alan |Roger Currie was around, also already.

What an idiot.

I recall having a discussion with him, back than. On puahate.com forum.
He had this stupid ass 4 typoe of scenario's, and how one would find out the woman that was there out of those 4. Whom was into you, and not the other 3 whom was there to manipulate you.

He assumed, women would tell the truth, and the scammers wouldn't lie oin worlds. And to not focus on actions, or whatever. |

It was so dumb.

Nothing he's saying is false though. He right that there are basically a few types of women. The only difficult part is spotting them. And if you let women know what you want straight up, than it's her choice to reciprocate. If she doesn't, you either string her along or let her go. It's that simple.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Nothing he's saying is false though. He right that there are basically a few types of women. The only difficult part is spotting them. And if you let women know what you want straight up, than it's her choice to reciprocate. If she doesn't, you either string her along or let her go. It's that simple.

that idiot, debated with me. That physical actions, was a bad way to weed out the pretender women, women disinterested in you but staying around for money or attention or whatever. \Physical contact, always the best signal.
He said there was some magical questons to ask, to a liar woman or something. wtf.


He was so coping, that asif all that matters is what one says.

Never did he say anything about looks and so on.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

that idiot, debated with me. That physical actions, was a bad way to weed out the pretender women, women disinterested in you but staying around for money or attention or whatever. \Physical contact, always the best signal.
He said there was some magical questons to ask, to a liar woman or something. wtf.


He was so coping, that asif all that matters is what one says.

Never did he say anything about looks and so on.

I'm only going based on the book, not your personal encounter with him.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I'm only going based on the book, not your personal encounter with him.

I dunno how he is now. But back in 2010, in that brutals and famous forum Puahate. He was kinda odd, and I can't remember likeing his suggestions. I also couldn't see it practically.
I recall it was kinda verbally aggressive, to go into sexual talk from the get go kinda. I dunno how it is in USA thugh, maybe there it'\s normal. It's location based different for sure.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

I dunno how he is now. But back in 2010, in that brutals and famous forum Puahate. He was kinda odd, and I can't remember likeing his suggestions. I also couldn't see it practically.
I recall it was kinda verbally aggressive, to go into sexual talk from the get go kinda. I dunno how it is in USA thugh, maybe there it'\s normal. It's location based different for sure.

It's def normal on dating apps and social events, despite what feminism makes you think ("toxic masculinity"). If there's a vibe, there's a vibe and if a girl is feeling you, you can basically get sexual pretty early on. The big point I got out of the book is to see if that vibe is there early on and to see the type of woman the the girl is to avoid wasting your time on something that just isn't there. Dudes will literally chase women for weeks, months and get no where while the woman strings them along. It's just so pathetic.

 

[Deleted member 6403]

Dnrd, be gl

 

[eduardkoopman]

It's def normal on dating apps and social events, despite what feminism makes you think ("toxic masculinity"). If there's a vibe, there's a vibe and if a girl is feeling you, you can basically get sexual pretty early on. The big point I got out of the book is to see if that vibe is there early on and to see the type of woman the the girl is to avoid wasting your time on something that just isn't there. Dudes will literally chase women for weeks, months and get no where while the woman strings them along. It's just so pathetic.

is this mode one in action?

 

[Deleted member 13197]

can you pls post some of his tips, guarenteed BOTB thread and 150 rep

 

[Deleted member 12234]

is this mode one in action?

LOL. Could be but shit is creepy to hit on people in public like that since you literally don't know if someone is single or not. I'd only suggest using mode one at social events (where you know alot of single people are going to be, especially house parties/festivals) and dating apps.

 

[eduardkoopman]

LOL. Could be but shit is creepy to hit on people in public like that since you literally don't know if someone is single or not. I'd only suggest using mode one at social events (where you know alot of single people are going to be, especially house parties/festivals) and dating apps.

I/m not that familiar with mode one.

But I stored it in muh mind.
As spitting sexual-ish talk from the get go, or almost the get go.

i always sucked at spitting sexual talks, with randoms and even in ltr.
I was/am more comfortable with the physical way of flirting. touching an stuff. I guess I'm more an actions person, than an words person.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Nothing he's saying is false though. He right that there are basically a few types of women. The only difficult part is spotting them. And if you let women know what you want straight up, than it's her choice to reciprocate. If she doesn't, you either string her along or let her go. It's that simple.

Spotting them gets much easier with age. It did for me at least.

And you don't have to let women know what you want from the get go, as long as you aren't particularly nice to them. It can actually be much more beneficial to have them wondering if you like them or not. I met my wife at work. She was my manager, but even though I was attracted to her I was always mean to her. We worked together for about a year and a half. We never dated or anything during that time. About 7 months after I quit that job I contacted her out of the blue on a social media platform, a little similar to WhatsApp. I just said hello and we had a short conversation. Then I forgot about her for another month before contacting her again. After that we started talking every day. For the next six months I would send her random videos of myself and speak to her every evening. Later, she told me that she had a really difficult time during that time. Even though I sent her videos and talked to her every day she still didn't know I liked her. She was very sad. She thought I was just messing with her simply because I was bored. She was almost 100% sure that I would one day find a girlfriend and stop talking to her. But no, one day I told her that I loved her. I told her to quit her job, move to my city, and marry me. And that's what she did.

If you don't tell women what you want, but they can tell that you like them anyways, you'll just look like a pathetic coward. The ball will be in their court. But if you have them fretting over whether you like them or not then you'll be the one in control of the situation the whole time.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

I/m not that familiar with mode one.

But I stored it in muh mind.
As spitting sexual-ish talk from the get go, or almost the get go.

Nope. He literally says in his books that it'd be creepy to be overly sexual with someone you don't know. That's incel type shit. I'm autistic and even I know that shit is socially inept lmao. You wouldn't go up to someone and say "You want to suck some dick" jfl . But you do want to make it known from the getgo what your intentions are. And, obviously, context matters, which is why i'd only suggest using it around people you know are single and "ready to mingle". You wouldn't go into a AAA meeting or bridal shower and start to flirt with random girls. Obviously, some places are inappropriate.

 

[Deleted member 12234]

Spotting them gets much easier with age. It did for me at least.

And you don't have to let women know what you want from the get go, as long as you aren't particularly nice to them. It can actually be much more beneficial to have them wondering if you like them or not. I met my wife at work. She was my manager, but even though I was attracted to her I was always mean to her. We worked together for about a year and a half. We never dated or anything during that time. About 7 months after I quit that job I contacted her out of the blue on a social media platform, a little similar to WhatsApp. I just said hello and we had a short conversation. Then I forgot about her for another month before contacting her again. After that we started talking every day. For the next six months I would send her random videos of myself and speak to her every evening. Later, she told me that she had a really difficult time during that time. Even though I sent her videos and talked to her every day she still didn't know I liked her. She was very sad. She thought I was just messing with her simply because I was bored. She was almost 100% sure that I would one day find a girlfriend and stop talking to her. But no, one day I told her that I loved her. I told her to quit her job, move to my city, and marry me. And that's what she did.

If you don't tell women what you want, but they can tell that you like them anyways, you'll just look like a pathetic coward. The ball will be in their court. But if you have them fretting over whether you like them or not then you'll be the one in control of the situation the whole time.

Yah I agree mystery can play a role in attraction and contributes to the charisma factor. Good story on meeting your wife btw. I like how natural your relationship panned out since you met her irl, as it should be. As you know, i'm personally anti-long relationships, but if it works for you, i'm happy for you .

 

[eduardkoopman]

You wouldn't go up to someone and say "You want to suck some dick" jfl .

that fails hard.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Spotting them gets much easier with age. It did for me at least.

And you don't have to let women know what you want from the get go, as long as you aren't particularly nice to them. It can actually be much more beneficial to have them wondering if you like them or not. I met my wife at work. She was my manager, but even though I was attracted to her I was always mean to her. We worked together for about a year and a half.

i agree.
it's best if she is in doubt. like mixxed signa;ls for her.
Like: is he into m,e, or not. I dunno. Makes her mind thinking about you, aka rent free in her head. Which helps.

 

[IdiAmin]

that idiot, debated with me. That physical actions, was a bad way to weed out the pretender women, women disinterested in you but staying around for money or attention or whatever. \Physical contact, always the best signal.
He said there was some magical questons to ask, to a liar woman or something. wtf.


He was so coping, that asif all that matters is what one says.

Never did he say anything about looks and so on.

He didn't say this in his book but he wrote an article about losing weight first if you want to do the Mode One

 

[eduardkoopman]

He didn't say this in his book but he wrote an article about losing weight first if you want to do the Mode One

to be honest.

Any decent dating book.

Should first start with a chapter, about your looks levels, and how it will affect how you get treated and how to go about it.

It's a dumb concept.
When the same dating advice is promoted/advised in a book for below 2 men.
each should have significant different dating advice.