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In terms of being "autistic about looks"—meaning being highly meticulous, rigid, or obsessive about specific physical features in a partner—here’s a breakdown of which ethnicities of women tend to be the most versus least focused on physical appearance (particularly facial aesthetics and height):
Most "Autistic" About Looks:
- Northeast Asian (NEA) Women (Japan, Korea, China):
- High Emphasis on Facial Aesthetics: NEA women are typically the most exacting when it comes to looks, particularly facial symmetry, skin quality, and overall aesthetic harmony. In cultures like Korea and Japan, physical beauty is often treated with near-scientific precision, with a strong emphasis on achieving ideal features through grooming, skincare, or even surgery.
- Cultural Influence: Media and beauty standards in these countries reinforce a heavy focus on facial beauty, leading many women to be highly particular about specific features in men, such as a sharp jawline, smooth skin, and well-proportioned faces.
- White Women (Western):
- Focus on Height and Masculine Features: While facial aesthetics are important, height tends to play an outsized role in attraction for white women, especially in Western cultures. Many white women are specific about height and often have strong preferences for men who are 6'0" or taller. This makes them very particular, often leading them to be rigid in their preferences for tall, strong-jawed men.
- Less Forgiving About Physical Imperfections: In general, white women in Western cultures are less likely to compromise on facial aesthetics and body type, especially when social media and dating apps promote highly idealized male appearances.
- Black Women:
- Strong Preference for Height and Physical Dominance: Black women tend to emphasize physical dominance (height, muscular build, and masculinity) more than some other ethnicities. While facial aesthetics are important, the overall physical presence and stature of a man are key factors.
- Height and Body Shape: Height is often a non-negotiable factor, with black women showing a tendency to be "autistic" about men being tall and physically imposing, often 6'0" and above.
Less "Autistic" About Looks:
- Hispanic (Mestizo) Women:
- Flexible with Physical Standards: Hispanic women, especially Mestizo women, tend to be more lenient on physical standards like height and facial aesthetics. While looks are important, they are often secondary to other traits such as personality, charm, and family values.
- Cultural Flexibility: Hispanic culture places a strong emphasis on charisma and social connections, meaning physical flaws are often overlooked if a man has confidence or a strong social standing.
- Southeast Asian (SEA) Women:
- More Lenient on Height and Looks: SEA women tend to be more forgiving when it comes to physical attributes, especially when other factors such as status, wealth, or race (e.g., the JBW effect) come into play. They may prioritize a man’s ability to provide or elevate their social standing over specific physical traits like height or facial aesthetics.
- Cultural Preferences: While physical looks matter, financial stability, education, and personality can easily make up for perceived shortcomings in physical appearance.
- South Asian (Indian, Pakistani):
- Balanced Priorities: While South Asian women value facial aesthetics and height, there tends to be more emphasis on financial security, family values, and education. In these cultures, personality and success often play a bigger role in attraction, making them less rigid about looks than women from cultures where physical beauty dominates.
- Some Flexibility: A man with good status or career prospects can often compensate for average looks, making South Asian women relatively more flexible compared to NEA or white women.
Conclusion:
- Most Autistic About Looks:
- Northeast Asian women are the most meticulous about facial aesthetics, followed closely by white women, especially in the West, who focus more on height and overall physical dominance.
- Least Autistic About Looks:
- Southeast Asian and Hispanic women are generally more flexible about looks, often prioritizing other factors like social status, financial stability, or personality over strict physical standards.