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Morality lies in the face
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A child’s psychologically formative years begin at the age 13 and end at around 19 pertaining to this context. This is when hormonal reward circuits involving dopamine and oxytocin are formed, meaning that missing out on teen romance leads to many negative impacts on the remainder of your adulthood. Neurologically your chances for developing anxiety, avoidant attachment issues, and lower emotional regulation are much higher than that of what a normie’s would be. Not only this but the many other brutal disadvantages a young male has to experience going forward.
Basically this just means your social skills, calibration, and self image will suffer majorly. Dating feels harsher (if you even have the ability to by then) to your nervous system and registers as a higher stake situation, so when a negative outcome occurs the male affected by his past will take it ten times harder than what a normie would feel afterwards. Even if you do/did have friends who you’d experience social gatherings with, none of it replaces the hormonal changes your brain needs for developmental aspects specifically requiring romantical triggers shown to occur during the phases of heightened emotional reactions, love, and heartbreak.
As you enter your adult years, and for the sake of the topic, let’s assume you’ve ascended through whatever various methods were used to become a better looking person. Normies expect you to operate on their level of standards and expectations they’ve gained regardless, all while you’ve never even had a chance to even begin undergoing the same cycle they’ve already passed by this point. Women tend to become less interested the more they learn about your inadequacies throughout talking/dating stages (trust me, women are highly emotionally perceptive to these things and will always be able to tell). Assuming you got lucky enough to get with a woman into a relationship despite lacking these desired social traits, there’s always the likelihood of it never lasting with her sexual or emotional needs not being met to the standards a majority of modern women have built out of novelty that comes from dating their entire lives up to that point of their life. All while you’re only still getting on your feet at this point. Unfortunately this inadequacy can lead to red flags being ignored, especially if you fall in love with the first woman to have given you attention, causing the fear of never finding somebody else to trigger and raising your chances of having to experience getting cheated on.
To top it all off, men that are better off in some aspect, subconsciously see you as lesser to them in professional spaces, where the biological competition between our gender, we’ve displayed throughout history is at an all time high. Especially within higher paying jobs, business, or anything else based on social politic dynamics. This is only a few real life situations out of so many more I could mention, and all just as brutal as the next.
it’s important to note that this isn’t about body count or sex necessarily at all. Instead, the events your brain experiences while developing and being in a malleable state is the biggest influence however.
There is some good news, not necessarily a guarantee to succeed for those of you still reading this thread. There are ways to mitigate the damage without further affecting your self image and confidence negatively, to as big of a degree as not doing anything at all. From personal experience, as someone who lost their virginity during my adulthood years, prior to that point having undergone missing out on my social bonding development years as a young child due to being isolated on top of teen romance being a completely foreign topic to my younger self, circumstances of which I’ll explain in a later post. I managed to eventually create a solution to this issue regardless of the fact that internally this affects me to this day.
Any perceived neurodivergence, even if not clinically induced by a condition such as ASD/Aspergers, will only continue to signal your inadequacy to other normies that you are not someone desirable enough to build connections with. This applies to most cases excluding the obvious “chad looks” type outliers with its own nuancing.
The reality is people hate people who don’t match up to their standards, even if they never outwardly display this outside of feedback/social indicators of how they rank you on their internal hierarchy, and this is natural even if harsh.
The key to creating a solution for this issue lies in developing an outward appearance persona which mimics every safety trigger within the subconscious mind. A metaphorical checklist, mentally crossed off during first impressions and establishment of connection phases occurring between people.
The goal is to understand these triggers, mimic them, and display the correct behavioral patterns. Every animal including humans perceive these behaviors as “safe/one of us” as an instinct that living beings who tend to live in “packs” or tribes as we did, in order to utilize our pattern recognition parts of the brain to spot an enemy or friend. Nowadays, we articulate this as something typically being “normal or weird” due to the fact of not having to hunt in order to survive.
I’ll probably write a psychological guide thread on this in detail tbh, for those who’d be interested in NTmaxxing by understanding the neuroscience and how it can be be taken advantage of within modern times, where the average human brain is less than subpar in terms of thinking outside of google or ai. That’s not to say we’re retards, just that most people stopped using a good chunk of their critical thinking skills as we see pretty often nowadays.
In conclusion, missing out on teen love has psychological and physical effects on your life going forward the same way something like severe mental trauma can, leading to a much harder life in every aspect concerning other people. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, and unless you’re disfigured or worse, there are solutions to mitigate the damage but your internal biology never fully rewires itself.
Every single living being in nature had to adapt in order to survive, humans are no different. The outcome is never a first choice, but continuance of life in some aspect regardless.
Spent about 2-3 hours in some abandoned parking lot on adderall typing/formatting this on my phone while trying not to rage at the device’s limited capabilities, cage tbh.
Basically this just means your social skills, calibration, and self image will suffer majorly. Dating feels harsher (if you even have the ability to by then) to your nervous system and registers as a higher stake situation, so when a negative outcome occurs the male affected by his past will take it ten times harder than what a normie would feel afterwards. Even if you do/did have friends who you’d experience social gatherings with, none of it replaces the hormonal changes your brain needs for developmental aspects specifically requiring romantical triggers shown to occur during the phases of heightened emotional reactions, love, and heartbreak.
As you enter your adult years, and for the sake of the topic, let’s assume you’ve ascended through whatever various methods were used to become a better looking person. Normies expect you to operate on their level of standards and expectations they’ve gained regardless, all while you’ve never even had a chance to even begin undergoing the same cycle they’ve already passed by this point. Women tend to become less interested the more they learn about your inadequacies throughout talking/dating stages (trust me, women are highly emotionally perceptive to these things and will always be able to tell). Assuming you got lucky enough to get with a woman into a relationship despite lacking these desired social traits, there’s always the likelihood of it never lasting with her sexual or emotional needs not being met to the standards a majority of modern women have built out of novelty that comes from dating their entire lives up to that point of their life. All while you’re only still getting on your feet at this point. Unfortunately this inadequacy can lead to red flags being ignored, especially if you fall in love with the first woman to have given you attention, causing the fear of never finding somebody else to trigger and raising your chances of having to experience getting cheated on.
To top it all off, men that are better off in some aspect, subconsciously see you as lesser to them in professional spaces, where the biological competition between our gender, we’ve displayed throughout history is at an all time high. Especially within higher paying jobs, business, or anything else based on social politic dynamics. This is only a few real life situations out of so many more I could mention, and all just as brutal as the next.
it’s important to note that this isn’t about body count or sex necessarily at all. Instead, the events your brain experiences while developing and being in a malleable state is the biggest influence however.
There is some good news, not necessarily a guarantee to succeed for those of you still reading this thread. There are ways to mitigate the damage without further affecting your self image and confidence negatively, to as big of a degree as not doing anything at all. From personal experience, as someone who lost their virginity during my adulthood years, prior to that point having undergone missing out on my social bonding development years as a young child due to being isolated on top of teen romance being a completely foreign topic to my younger self, circumstances of which I’ll explain in a later post. I managed to eventually create a solution to this issue regardless of the fact that internally this affects me to this day.
Any perceived neurodivergence, even if not clinically induced by a condition such as ASD/Aspergers, will only continue to signal your inadequacy to other normies that you are not someone desirable enough to build connections with. This applies to most cases excluding the obvious “chad looks” type outliers with its own nuancing.
The reality is people hate people who don’t match up to their standards, even if they never outwardly display this outside of feedback/social indicators of how they rank you on their internal hierarchy, and this is natural even if harsh.
The key to creating a solution for this issue lies in developing an outward appearance persona which mimics every safety trigger within the subconscious mind. A metaphorical checklist, mentally crossed off during first impressions and establishment of connection phases occurring between people.
The goal is to understand these triggers, mimic them, and display the correct behavioral patterns. Every animal including humans perceive these behaviors as “safe/one of us” as an instinct that living beings who tend to live in “packs” or tribes as we did, in order to utilize our pattern recognition parts of the brain to spot an enemy or friend.
I’ll probably write a psychological guide thread on this in detail tbh, for those who’d be interested in NTmaxxing by understanding the neuroscience and how it can be be taken advantage of within modern times, where the average human brain is less than subpar in terms of thinking outside of google or ai. That’s not to say we’re retards, just that most people stopped using a good chunk of their critical thinking skills as we see pretty often nowadays.
In conclusion, missing out on teen love has psychological and physical effects on your life going forward the same way something like severe mental trauma can, leading to a much harder life in every aspect concerning other people. There is a light at the end of the tunnel, and unless you’re disfigured or worse, there are solutions to mitigate the damage but your internal biology never fully rewires itself.
Every single living being in nature had to adapt in order to survive, humans are no different. The outcome is never a first choice, but continuance of life in some aspect regardless.
Spent about 2-3 hours in some abandoned parking lot on adderall typing/formatting this on my phone while trying not to rage at the device’s limited capabilities, cage tbh.
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Probably incel regardless but less grounded, who knows? I hope you have that figured out in case it’s something you go through yourself. I was thinking of writing a guide based on what helped me however knowing these forum users it would get dogged on and my time would be wasted attempting to help those who don’t even acknowledge their own flaws.
